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35 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:25am
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 2″ (1.87m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I asked my friends to describe me. Here are a few of the responses:

Valery: "Brave"
Eric: "Determined, Passionate, Caring."
Lisa: "Dreamy."
Tía Graciela: "Talented, loving, and brave!!!"
Alina: "Unique. Intellect is a natural tool, but also you seek more heart-felt experiences and wisdom as well. Supportive to friends. You have different layers. Willing to work. And human."
Ross: "You’re a fine fellow that has had a great amount of challenges to overcome and I believe you have succeeded in your own gauntlet. You have impressed me with the amount of energy you put towards the projects you accept and how thoroughly you master those crafts. Our conversations have brought new perspectives and enlightened me. You have such a galaxy of personality that can darken the brightness and illuminate the most dense shadow."
Christie: "Thoughtful. Intelligent. Caring."
Ray: "You're Patch Adams."
Winston: "You could be Leonardo DiCaprio's character in Titanic. I know you've seen that one." (I still haven't)
Aspen: "You're cool."
Mi mamá: "You're going to heaven wearing sandals."

Chat with me. I'm nice.

I recently picked up freelance writing. It's a new gig, so I don't exactly know what it means, yet, in terms of the bigger picture. I am excited about spreading ideas to people of congenial inclination, and I just enjoy writing.

Politically, it might be best to describe me as both socially and economically liberal, perhaps even radical.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a life and it is considered to be an object; if not concrete, then abstract, with all of the experiences, relationships, knowledge, and all other intangible and mental elements comprising this life.

I read, write, and study. Unofficially, I study operations management, nonprofit management, productivity, and the psychology of satisfaction.

Officially, I volunteer teaching guitar lessons to underprivileged children in DC twice a week because I love them and it makes me happy; I also support the organization administratively. I recently received a "Best Teacher Award" from my most challenging student.

Officially, I study molecularneurocognitivepsychochemico-immunoendocrinerpiafuehrkjneroiuvebrolvjsbefuv...and I want to be a doctor. I play my guitar in the park for fun and meet all sorts of colorful, inebriated, funny, crazy, international people.

When the weather is warm, I sit at the fountain in Dupont Circle and play for all the pretty Washingtonians, commoners, and tourists. At the same location, I sometimes provide counseling therapy, interpret the world for others, and make small differences in people's lives by smiling at them.

I sometimes patrol the internet and give advice to previous generations on how to cut, copy, paste, and take screenshots.

I am looking for the new Twitter, something better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the bigger picture, judging character, finding details, dancing, solving problems, getting lost in museums, talking to strangers, jaywalking, manual labor, analyzing information, and writing. I'm an excellent kisser and I have guitar fingers (lead guitar).

I give massages well enough to make money from it, and I sometimes wonder if I should just try to do that full-time for a couple of years. I could then pay off my student loans and buy a nice, used bicycle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There's lots! I have heard that this is the section where people tend to be pretty "douche-y." I couldn't agree more.

I usually read non-fiction, technical stuff, but I have lately begun reading real literature; e.g., The Brothers Karamazov, Don Quixote, War and Peace, etc.

I enjoy movies that make me go "Hmm." I recently watched Chicago and loved it. My friend will bring over her copy of Office Space, so that I can see what I've been missing all these years. I like movies with Anthony Hopkins, Robert Dineiro, Meryl Streep, Dustin Hoffman, Jim Carrey, and those other ones.

Taxi Driver, Good Will Hunting, Contact, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Science of Sleep, and more.

I have been surprisingly sucked into Downton Abbey and am waiting on the edge of my seat, along with my friends, for the next season to begin playing. I have been a fan of The Office, Scrubs, Arrested Development, Breaking Bad, The X-Files, and The Tonight Show with David Letterman. My first experience with satellite TV had me watching Free Speech TV and Democracy Now!

I don't really watch tv, though. Most of what I have watched has been on Amazon and Netflix. I get news via internet.

I listen to jazz and classical, but I used to listen to everything from Snoop Dogg to Al Green to Sarah McLaghlin to Madonna to Pantera to Deftones to Pearl Jam to Jimi Hendrix to The Beatles to Yes to Steve Vai, and more. It's not that I don't like all this music anymore, but that my preferences have changed.

You might enjoy this playlist.

I like Indian food and mayonnaise with my fries. I like coffee with my cream.

I have enjoyed Ris, The Sea Catch, District Commons, Circa, The Pearl Dive, Busboys and Poets (orzo pasta), Bistro Bistro, James Hoban's, Old Angler's Inn, Zorba's, Marrakech [sic], The Tabard Inn, and more.

Escargot, please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) What do we always say is the most important thing?
2) A nice pen
3) Quantum foam
4) A notebook
5) Lilies
6) Corners
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about thinking. Sometimes, I even think about thinking about thinking.
I also spend a lot of time thinking about physiology, chemistry, nutrition, health, business, my nieces and nephews, guitars, writing, language, my family, what to eat, what to wear, where to go, what to do, how long a shower should last, transcranial magnetic stimulation, how long my profile should be, whom I should date, and breakdancing roosters.

I sometimes wonder whether I ever think at all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to figure out what quantum foam is, or holding a secret meeting of the illuminati.
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