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30 San Rafael, CA Man


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  • Ages 26–30
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi there! I'm Game Designer living in San Rafael. I moved to the West Coast a few years ago from Atlanta. I'm a Canadian-born guy who moved from the East coast of the USA who grew up in Bermuda and whos family is British.

I enjoy intellectual conversation. Anything that causes me to look at the world or my own life in a new and interesting way. Something to ponder while I drink my fourth cup of tea.

I've been called an old soul, which is probably just a nice way to say I'm an old man stuck in a young man's body. I enjoy finding any excuse to wear a vest and cufflinks.

I'm a very odd combination of people. I love dressing fancy, but I can't deny my ridiculous side either. I'm sometimes found at Death Guild or Bondage a Go Go in the city (when I can get down there).

I think a lot of people are on this site to find an exact replica of themselves. I don't think two people need to share every interest in their lives to be a good match. All you have to do is respect that my interests and hobbies are important to me, and I'll do the same for you.

Besides, seeing the world from two different viewpoints makes for much better conversation / debates / arguments!
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning to play the Tenor Saxophone, exploring the amazing sights and sounds in the bay area. Working hard to make video games awesome. Hiking around Point Reyes and trying to find new restaurants I've never experienced before.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm actually a pretty good singer! If you're stuck in a car with me, I promise you won't be subjected to horrible off-key singing. I attribute it to doing a lot of musicals when I was younger. I've been everything from a greasy Shark to Nathan Detroit to one of the princes in Into the Woods (I never remember their names).
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a 6 foot 5 monster!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Phillip K. Dick, Roger Zelazny, Arthur C. Clarke, Isaac Asimov, Orson Scott Card, Kafka, Frank Herbert, Lovecraft. Joseph Campbell. I'm a mythology nerd too. I love The Oddysey, 1001 nights, etc.

Recently read Light by M. John Harrison. Incredible book. Highly recommended.

Music: Miles Davis, Dave Brubeck, Jamiroquai, Kamelot, Dethklok, Powerglove, Al Greene, lots of varied and odd things. Spend enough time in my car and the iPod will shuffle from Michael Jackson to some video game remix one after another. Weird.

Movies: The Usual Suspects, Se7en, The Prestige, Memento, Ghostbusters, Inception, Spaceballs, The 39 Steps, anything by the Coen Brothers. I could sit here listing stuff out all night.

Television Shows: Adventure Time, Regular Show, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Futurama, Arrested Development, The IT Crowd, Spaced, The Young Ones, Harvey Birdman, ATHF, lots of varied and odd things...some more.

Food? I love all food. I love spicy food. Bland food is for bland people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't think there are physical objects I couldn't learn to live without. Maybe. Hopefully I'll never have to find out.

I would say that without a place that provided the opportunity to learn, I would go crazy. Not much of an answer, I know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. I've been told I live inside my head a lot. I want to understand myself better, and everyone around me better. Why do we do what we do? Hmm...

ALSO WHY DO I KEEP BUYING NEW BOOKS? I have more books than I'll ever be able to read in a lifetime but I keep buying more. It's a sickness, I think.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really depends on how the rest of the week has gone! Maybe out for some crazy adventure, or maybe I'm just relaxing and watching Netflix with a cup of PG Tips. If someone suggests something super interesting that I've never done before, I'm in!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a tattoo from the game Riven.
I have no canine teeth.

I'm beginning to think this site's matching algorithm is a big fat lie. I've sent bunches of messages to +/-95% matches and not gotten any replies! If I message you and you're not interested, I much prefer a "no thanks" than a silence.
You should message me if
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If you're weird, unique, or strange. If you wouldn't mind sharing a few beers and watching some Star Trek? If you're proud of your nerdy side. If you're proud of your whatever side.

If you have more to say about yourself than "I love to laugh." Do you know a single person who doesn't love to laugh? It releases dopamine. EVERYONE loves dopamine.

Physically I've noticed I gravitate more towards smaller girls with dark hair and eyes, but I don't think that's a deakbreaker.

Bonus points if you have a career, and not just a job.

If anything you see above interests you, take the initiative and send me a message! I send plenty, so what are you waiting around for?

If you're a huge sports fan, we probably won't have much to talk about.

Please, no smokers. I'm not making that mistake again.