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31 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:32am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I need love and I need help. That's what it boils down to.

If you are super busy - we could be a good fit, while you do your jobs and hobbies, so will I, then we can relax together. If you have a lot of free time and are hoping to fill it with a relationship, I will disappoint you. I HATE being a disappointment. I have "some" to give. I can't say, "I have a lot to give" because then I will let you down.

There is a new Whole Foods opening on the Alameda in San Jose, I will meet you there for lunch or dinner and we can "interview"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm not a regular girl. #1 is fame and my career. #2, now, is a relationship with a man. Used to be the other way around and I was discarded and lost everything. I've built myself back up and I'm a business woman now.

Do I want someone to ride my coat-tails? Not completely!! I definitely recognize that my partner has their own goals, their own life, their own journey.

However, this is what prevents me from having a partner. Most men realize that I can't be their slave. My friends say, "Tenaya, YOU need a wife, you can't be someone else's wife."

So what do I do it all for? I'm an evangelist for the Maker Movement with my own company in wearable tech. I'm an Educational Accounts Manager with my company - so I'm an honorary E.E.

I teach electricity, programming, soldering, and sewing with electronics. I offer workshops and sell everything online. That should be more conducive eventually to being a mom, easy at home online business.

I also perform pop & country music!

Currently San Jose based but probably want to live in the east bay, I own a dachshund named Woodchuck. He is the best.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting, Anthropology, Geology, Cleaning, Organizing, Gardening, Speeding, Collating papers, Teaching, Cheerleader moves, Singing, Dancing, Multitasking, Parallel parking, Arduino, Electrical Engineering, Fashion, and sooooo much more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Long red hair
My voice
I'm a flame, people just come close to find out what I'm all about.
I'm a good teacher and have epically funny jokes in my classes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I can dance to. Reggae 50s-60s pop, disco, country
Books...used to have more time for them, but still have a full book case when I have time to read some
Netflix - best invention ever, invisible hoarding of all movies and stand-up comedy and documentaries I like
Food - I love vegetables, I eat meat if someone else cooked it, love ethnic food, love chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Arduino microcontrollers and Linino wireless microcontrollers
Bubble Tea
Sex (but of course, severely without)
My health
Woodchuck (my wiener dog. He's the best.)
Maker Faire

The Six things I could DO WITHOUT in a man:
1. Beard (can't do it. It would be best if you shave RIGHT before we make out. I'll wait. No joke.) I physically can't make out with you if you have stubble or a beard. My face gets ALL red and chapped and I'm in pain for like 3 days (if it's a really bad beard). I can't do it!!! SORRY!!!!!!!! I'm sure my long lost soul mate has a beard and we shall never meet :(# Till you shave :)
****Also, seriously, I don't like making out and there's wet hair from mustaches and beards in the middle of that! That is the REAL deal.
***If you REALLY want to know, your beard pokes me in my nostrils!!! Not cute.

2. Your watch in bed: take it off please ;)

3. No denim, canvas, or belt buckles in bed ;)

4. Sharp or long toenails and finger nails... ;)

5. Cologne.

6. S&M. Don't hurt me please, be gentle with ALL of me ;)

okay...and there's always more deal breakers. I'm not super into tattoos, sports, or religion. I'm not really into rock climbing, but of course it's sexy if a guy does that. Just be warned that I can go to the gym a few times, but I'm just too scared to go to Yosemite - where my name came from - to defy death and the granite!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The perfect day of cuddling with a man I love...after all my work is done. My work is never done though :( Who can peel me away?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
full on work-a-holic. Working on my small business, catching up on my FT work.

My dream Friday night? A kind, handsome, & prompt guy picks me up, we go to fabulous dinner and I'm dressed so classy & sexy, we relax, eat amazing food, then go home to just be together. It would be great to wake up on Saturday morning and make love with someone who genuinely cares about me. (and if he's lucky, Friday night too)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Cooking is a waste of my time, but a noble and wondrous pursuit for everyone else...especially those that are cooking for me. (keep up the good work!). I just can't. I make some breakfasts and desserts...but I'm trying to cut out some sugar. I eat a lot of salad...easy to assemble.
You should message me if
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You've made it this far and still are thinking to yourself "she can't be that bad"

You have time for a relationship! (I will make time for you if we have chemistry - I really do want a best friend man partner)
You will buy me bubble tea all the time :)
You want a physical relationship with kissing and cuddling!
You believe that sex is relevant!
You are willing to see the value in me.

Best of all, if you want to show me your Arduino programs and projects. It's open source community, so share with me. Then we can perhaps...get it on...if I like your code.

Thank you for reading my profile. Good luck and know that there are lonely girls out there now just trying to figure out how to be the best partner.

SOOOOOOOOO There is a new Whole Foods opening on the Alameda in San Jose, I will meet you there for lunch or dinner and we can "interview"