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31 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 23
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Less than $20,000
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I would like to date and yet, either way, I must continue to pursue my goals which is why some men can't be with me. It's kind of a weird cycle.

I work for a well known microcontroller company as the Education Accounts Manager. This means I travel the country (sometimes the world) going to events to represent at as a "booth babe" and the rest of the time, I'm working on curriculum, teaching locally and nationally, and trying to get schools to teach microcontroller electrical engineering/programming in schools.

I want to inspire new American electrical engineers, I want to support the protection of the African Gorilla habitat (and all rain-forests), and I'm very motivated to help the billions of people of the world living on less than a dollar a day.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching, Writing, Learning, being a social media person...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Something only the privileged few will experience...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
WWII footage, rain-forest shows, stand-up comedy.
Music: 50s/60s, Reggae, swing music, 80s, disco, I like to dance.
Food: I can "cook" salad, but I'll eat anything :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, microcontrollers, forests, bubble tea, wiener dogs, Bliplace. [you'll have to ask me what that is]

Here's what I can do without - in relation to YOU, the man

1. Don't have a beard if you have a girl who wants to kiss you. It is prickly and sharp and gets in a girl's nostrils and pokes her. Stubble is equally as bad as a full beard. Sorry getting an impossibly close shave is so hard, I recommend laser hair removal because it lessens your beard, but doesn't make it go away completely.
2. Your watch in bed: take it off please ;) I love Smart watches, don't love it when a cold thing touches me in bed and when a man tries to stroke my hair sweetly, I don't want my hair to get stuck in his watch :)
3. No denim, canvas, or belt buckles in bed ;) They're hard in the bad way.
4. Sharp or long toenails and finger nails... ;) Pedicure it, you deserve it, or just please always check that, girls totally notice and make overall judgements about you.
5. Cologne. It sucks. Just be clean and have subtle deodorant. I don't care about the billion dollar industry, Cologne pushes me AWAY from a guy, doesn't make me want to come closer.
6. S&M. Unless a girl wants it, don't go there. All of you are way too rough in general and need to treat women gently. Maybe that's just me, but a woman can always speak up if she wants more intensity. Have passion, have throw-down, but be considerate, we bruise easily.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Electrical Engineering
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Honestly, I'm a person that just requires too much help. I don't have a balance to offer a man the same kind of help that I hope to receive from him. I know I don't have this capability, but I really want to try. A man will have to see what I can give, and see that as enough, and as we start a relationship, I will make more time, give more, but I'm never going to be one of those perfect housewife types who's always available to press your shirt or something. At this point, I need a wife!! So, treat me as an equal.

If a man is interested in my same interests and motivated with the same goals I have, or can relate to my passion, this could work. I do want marriage and a family, but it will be a very special guy who can take me on.