I am a non-exclusive person, as in attracted to more than one gender, and I identify as gender queer. I don't like labels, but i am hoping that categorising myself some way will drop out any time wasters. The best anagrams of my names are "amoralities up", "realism utopia", "polite samurai" and "I amour pilates". They describe me surprisingly well.
Also a loyal friend to those who deserve it. Known to love my dog more than my partner.
I have just moved to Lowestoft from Midlands and will be pleased to meet any new people as friends or dates in Lowestoft/Norwich area. Also happy to meet cinema buddies and general activity partners. This far I have only met crazy people, so please be stable and not crazy.
I am here to expand my social circle; so the primary objective is to meet up new interesting friends and lovers to spend time with, who want to have conversations and are interested in some other stuff than what Celebrity X is up to this week.
Note: A conversation is something where one of us says something and then the other one says something back and then you repeat it. I don't really want to meet Very Quiet people. I have nothing against them, but it's not why I am here. I want to talk with people, not meditate with them; I do that stuff alone.
On other, more physical levels, I like tattoos and piercings and have both. I have a special interest in bondage, as in being the one who gets tied up; but not necessarily in a sexual context. I also like it just for the sake of it. Please don't get excited about that and message me just to ask if I like gags. I don't, and (hopefully) you wouldn't approach a girl in a bar just to ask "Do you like gags", so think again.
I am engaged to DJ_Prig
I am also in polyamorous relationship with loveisthelaw. Sort of. I don't know what we are.
I am not interested in casual sex, so please don't offer. I require at least a friendship and I will want to see your face again (Unless you look like Aidan Turner). If you are not up for polyamory, please don't approach me with dating intentions. Also, even though I like naughty stuff I won't be sending you naked pictures without prior approval from your partner. People tell me it "sucks the fun out". I call it "respecting other people's relationships".
I am moody, spontaneous, and cute. But not illogical screaming-the-lungs-out-at-you psycho moody; I like to discuss things rather than argue them. And I'm fun, but rather sensible, surprisingly. I lean to the left politically and don't in general talk about it.
I also made "Burn my church" a euphemism.