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PiscesSea

34 San Diego, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am so much more than a self-summary.

I am a poststructuralist building my life w/ words.

I am evolutionary.

I practice the art of happiness daily, & I fully believe that there is more good than bad on this planet, & I think that the only reason anyone could disagree w/ that statement would be because they are looking at all the wrong things in all the wrong ways.

If you need more convincing about what a beautiful place this universe is, read anything by Joseph Campbell or Rumi.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am staying in the moment, gaining wisdom from the trees & befriending the sea. We are all beings who, at our core, are made of eternal energy, & I think we are our own source of divinity.

I am laughing, & I am living, & I am breathing.

But mostly, I'm trying to find Carl Sagan's soul because I want his ghost to make sweet, cosmic love to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything--especially humility & modesty.

We are here to live, laugh, love, & give so I do these w/ all of myself, & I do them unconditionally. (I learned how to do most of these from a dog, & no, I don't find that at all strange.)

I'm really good at thinking, & I'm also really good at reminding myself to remember the Alamo but then forgetting why I needed to remember it in the first place.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Are that I am a grrl, that I am funny as fuck, & that awesome pumps through my veins, but...I don't really know what goes on in my arteries.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The last two movies I saw that were absolutely worth recommending are Beasts of the Southern Wild & Never Let Me Go. Anything Michel Gondry does is fabulous. I like indie films, love comedies, & I am obsessed w/ documentaries, but think most action films are lame--because they are so trite. I want laughter, contemplation, creativity, & art to be a part of my talkies. (Yes, I am 105 years old. Really.)

Dave Eggers is my favorite author. Jonathan Safran Foer is my half-favorite-author-that-comes-next. I find poems, poets, & poetry itself in almost everything. I need words to create beauty for me everyday.

In terms of music, I am a sucker for banjos...but my musical tastes are too extensive & eclectic to be summed up here, so let's just say I have awesome taste.

I watch The Daily Show & The Colbert Report regularly, & I listen to true crime documentaries while I'm at work because I find serial killers--& the awful things man can do to his fellow man-- absolutely fascinating. No, not in the cool-I'd-like-to-try-that way, but in the how-could-anyone-fucking-do-that way. Again, no, I don't find this strange.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, nature, music, art, laughter & learning, traveling & writing...& joy & pain.

That's six, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stars, space, art, life, purpose, meaning, how to be a better person & how I can make the world a better place...& then, getting laid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stressing over stupid shit when I should be drinking, not stressing over stupid shit because I am drinking, going on psychedelic journeys, stargazing, dancing, walking the streets alone, or writing poetry by candlelight.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I loved my dog more than I've ever loved anybody.

I really want aliens to exist, & I would really like it if they'd just abduct me already.

I'm a big fan of getting drunk & peeing in semi-public places that are outside. So. Freeing.

I dragged my very Christian preacher's-wife-of-a-mom to San Francisco's gay pride, ditched her, got drunk, & then found her later, sleeping on the street like a homeless lady. That isn't at all private, & I don't know why I just relayed that other than to say, that woman knows how to sleep.
You should message me if
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If we're under an 85% match, you probably shouldn't message me. I've gone out w/ people who weren't, & we had too little in common for it to be worthwhile. I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just trying to be practical & save us both a little time & energy. (So really, I'm being pretty damn polite.)

I'm interested in people who are social & are actually down to meet in person. I'm not really interested in internet friends. I like real interactions. Let's get to the substance of life, eh?

If you're a writer, message me now. Please. I host a weekly writing group at my house, & I want to drain you of yr creative juices & leave you in pain. Or...I want us to create things together in beautiful peace & harmony...

For those of you who aren't the cumguzzling, douchebaggy, date rapist type, there are no ifs. Just fucking message me.

Just know this before you do:

My openness when it comes to sex & enjoying it & loving it doesn't mean that is all I am interested in. I am over one night stands, & booty calls no longer do it for me. You won't get that from me. I want more than just a fuck buddy. Yes, I want great sex. No, I don't want that to be our only exchange. Yes, I want to connect w/ you as a person, like who you are, enjoy yr company & do more w/ you than just bang. No, I don't think a relationship or commitment need to be part of our exchange. I'm just looking for someone that stimulates me emotionally & physically, intellectually & spiritually.

I'm interested in genuinely good people w/ an undeniable streak of infectious revelry.

I don't believe in norms. So let's be creative. Let's fucking make something.