1. I am looking for someone non-judgemental.
2. I am all about working out and eating extremely healthy. And that's important.
So getting to the first part, this might be kind of confusing but here we go. If your the type of female that only looks at pictures and says to yourself that you can't talk to any guy with shirtless pictures then we would never get along anyways.
Because your allowing yourself to be already convinced that we would never get along without ever first trying to talk on the phone or meeting.
You never really know who you are going to get along with until you actually meet them in person.
So to judge me based on the fact that I like to workout, eat healthy and take pics of myself in a tank top, then say to yourself that you could never go out with a guy like me, just means that your not willing to give any effort to get to know someone more.
And I need someone that is willing to put in effort.
So therefore I really do hope that my pictures turn you away at first sight because if they do then that just goes to show me that you don't possess certain emotional qualities that i'm looking for.
I could easily put on pictures of me in a suit and tie, but I don't want clothing to be a deciding factor. Just because a person is dressed well doesn't mean you will get along with them.
To give you a better perspective of how to view what i'm trying to say i'll look at it from my point of view.
Let's say i'm looking at someones profile on here and all she has is beach pictures in a bikini on vacation in North Carolina, and she appears to be in shape and workout...
Would I ever say to myself that I can't talk to her because she's just showing off? Or I can't talk to her because she enjoys living a healthy lifestyle, probably of which includes working out and eating healthy?
Do you see how weird that sounds if I say that to myself?
Or is all of this just not ringing a bell?
Why would I judge a female first off just because she enjoys working out and has a bikini picture?
Maybe she just doesn't feel the need to show off her best wardrobe for the sake of getting people to like her.
I'm actually a little different than most people. I actually like to take the time to get to know someone without just basing everything off of what kind of reaction that I get from someones pictures.
I take certain things into account such as 1. What if they are bad pictures of her? 2. What does she look like in person? 3. Everyone isn't going to be photogenic. 4. There were times where I met someone that looked twice as good as her profile picture.
There are just too many variables that go into this that for me to say to myself that I am 100 percent sure that I don't want to talk to this female that appears to workout and eat healthy at first sight of her pictures on here is just ridiculous. And I would never do it..
Does any of this even make any sense to you?
So my pictures are there for a reason. And to sum this all up. I can say this.
First take the time and put in the EFFORT to get to know someone then go from there. Until you have met someone in person or at least talked on the phone then you don't really know how you are going to get along.
I'm 6'0 tall and between 210-225lbs. I am 100 percent natural. Which means I have never taken steroids. I only lift for fun.
I stopped going to night clubs and bars a few years ago..
And it just seems that is the only place to meet someone around here anymore.
On a side note i'm not looking to meet someone that works out as much as I do. So just because I workout and eat healthy doesn't mean I expect you to do the same thing too..