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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:54am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Small town native
Former Chicagoan
Publishing professional
Passionate recommender of books
Player of guitar solos in front of (extremely) small Brooklyn audiences
Eager and very bad ping pong player
General music obsessive
Only English major in a family of neuroscientists & psychologists
Long-suffering Pirates fan
Neurotic Jew
Animal lover
I do a pretty good deadpan.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in book publishing, writing, and playing a little music on the side
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making pizza
identifying the breed of that dog on the street
injuring myself
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Classical (especially late 19th, early 20th century--Mahler, Wagner, Brahms, Scriabin, Alban Berg, Bartok); Opera; gloomy singer-songwriters; Swans, Nick Cave, David Bowie, Spiritualized, Exile on Main St., Pere Ubu, Gram Parsons, CCR, John Fahey; "John the Wolf King of LA," by John Phillips

Books: Oooooo, that's tough. Fiction - Thomas Bernhard, Patricia Highsmith, Chris Adrian, Flannery O'Connor, Virginia Woolf, Patrick Hamilton, Borges, Ellen Ullman? Also In the Valley of the Kings, by Terrence Holt.

Nonfiction - Elif Batuman, John Jeremiah Sullivan, Alex Ross
These stories:

Ghost stories

I look forward to my Harper's each month.

Scary movies
Billy Wilder
Favorite movies are probably Don't Look Now, Rosemary's Baby, Ace In the Hole, Winged Migration, The Apartment, and Withnail & I.

Not really a TV person (I don't own one) but will occasionally binge (Twin Peaks, Arrested Development, Curb Your Enthusiasm). When I visit my parents in Pennsylvania, I lose large chunks of time to Animal Planet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A piano
Record collection or other access to wide range of good music
Dry humor
The Rolling Stones
Patricia Highsmith
The dream that I may one day own a beagle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How late am I?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or in Red Hook (or both).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I occasionally sleepwalk
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to get a drink, or go to the opera or a Staten Island Yankees game or something. Actually, we should probably just get a drink first.

You don't do that thing in pictures where you blur, warp, or blackout the faces of other people in the photo with you. That's creepy! Maybe an arrow?

You are my 100% enemy. I'd like to have a look at you.

By far the most common thing I see in profiles is "looking for adventure" or "Interests: adventure," or "what I'm doing: planning my next adventure." What does that *mean*? Like, hiking? Or more serious stuff (espionage, bounty hunting, art theft, etc.)?