Even though we have evolved to instant gratification, right now, and microwave kind of life, relationships should not be included. Relationships, like a great meal, require the time to gather all of the needed ingredients and attention paid to the preparation process. By adding the right amount of seasoning and allowing them to marinate, insures the flavors fully saturate the dish. Then we slow cook our creation at just the right temperature for just the right amount of time.
While it is cooking we enjoy the magnificent aromas that fills the air which builds our anticipation for that first delicious bite. We spot check throughout the process to make sure everything is coming out as desired and make any adjustment as needed.
Just like that great dish, Mr or Ms Right is not something that you find but something is created through the open and honest efforts by both focusef on a mutual goal. Leaving behind any of the past while building with the materials that we bring with us. Success is achieved when we are able to adjust as needed based on our goals. And yet so many are looking for that instant something or other to determine their desire to find out more about a person. (How many of us can reallyvsurvive a pass/fail process).
What if finding out the more is what enables us to creates something special worth investing in.... Who is asking that question?
For me an ideal relationship starts with two people that accept each other without conditions, expectations, and judgments, and are wiling to work together thru anything and everything needed to learn, grow, and build a lasting relationship that they both believe in without doubts.
Tall order, but simple to do when let go of the past and live in the now of your life in all of your experiences. An ideal relationship is different for everyone. It begins and ends with the total acceptance of one another. When you can give and get that; you have a lot to work with. You accept each other where you are and begin growing together. The things that you like least will disappear without you even knowing. They really don't, but when your focus is on the strengths, the so called weakness won't matter. You always move toward what you dwell on most and it can't help but grow. That is the world that I believe in without doubt.
All possibilities exist before you just waiting for you to embrace them with open arms. Free from the must have lists that blind you to the wonders of the unknown contained within everything that joy brings with it.
No fear, only the freedom to draw into your experience, all that you desire based on where you are. (The Law of Attraction at work, always and all ways.)
Just a thought and Hello.
"Everyone comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack"
If you stop by just say hello, you never know when you will make someone's day.