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59 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:44pm
Black, Native American, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an transformational author, possibility facilitator, and creative service professional in my own business. I enjoy life's simple pleasures in all of its splendor. I am seeking for the opportunity to share relaxed time, outside of the day to day hustle, with someone open to the many possibilities yet to be created when two people come together to share the joy of growing from the interest gained through the sharing.

Even though we have evolved to instant gratification, right now, and microwave kind of life, relationships should not be included. Relationships, like a great meal, require the time to gather all of the needed ingredients and attention paid to the preparation process. By adding the right amount of seasoning and allowing them to marinate, insures the flavors fully saturate the dish. Then we slow cook our creation at just the right temperature for just the right amount of time.

While it is cooking we enjoy the magnificent aromas that fills the air which builds our anticipation for that first delicious bite. We spot check throughout the process to make sure everything is coming out as desired and make any adjustment as needed.

Just like that great dish, Mr or Ms Right is not something that you find but something is created through the open and honest efforts by both focusef on a mutual goal. Leaving behind any of the past while building with the materials that we bring with us. Success is achieved when we are able to adjust as needed based on our goals. And yet so many are looking for that instant something or other to determine their desire to find out more about a person. (How many of us can reallyvsurvive a pass/fail process).
What if finding out the more is what enables us to creates something special worth investing in.... Who is asking that question?

For me an ideal relationship starts with two people that accept each other without conditions, expectations, and judgments, and are wiling to work together thru anything and everything needed to learn, grow, and build a lasting relationship that they both believe in without doubts.

Tall order, but simple to do when let go of the past and live in the now of your life in all of your experiences. An ideal relationship is different for everyone. It begins and ends with the total acceptance of one another. When you can give and get that; you have a lot to work with. You accept each other where you are and begin growing together. The things that you like least will disappear without you even knowing. They really don't, but when your focus is on the strengths, the so called weakness won't matter. You always move toward what you dwell on most and it can't help but grow. That is the world that I believe in without doubt.

All possibilities exist before you just waiting for you to embrace them with open arms. Free from the must have lists that blind you to the wonders of the unknown contained within everything that joy brings with it.

No fear, only the freedom to draw into your experience, all that you desire based on where you are. (The Law of Attraction at work, always and all ways.)

Just a thought and Hello.

"Everyone comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack"

If you stop by just say hello, you never know when you will make someone's day.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Running my current creative service business, looking into another calling that has come my way and helping to raise my 11 year old. I am also working on my next book and seeking the best from life, while becoming a certified life coach.

Finished writing and publishing my first book. Now working on getting it out to the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands fixing things, keeping my computers up and running and good listener & conversationalist. I accept and see people as they are. I believe the greatest gift you can give another is honoring who they are. So I start there.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Passion about life and all of the wonderful things contained with the specialness that come from staying connected to the aspect of all that it contains.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Power of Now, A New Earth, Power Vs Force, The Conversations with God Series, Just Be...,CSI, Law & Order, Harry's Law, Star Trek. Adventurous eater, so I will try most things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Spirituality, My kids, and the belief in a better world in this life time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The infinite possibilities of the universe and my place in that process.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I don't have an assignment, I am winding down from a full week of running my business. Always looking for a reason to get away from my desk and share a life moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am pretty much an open book by design, so there is nothing that comes to mind.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe your dream about a real relationship is possible and are open to create it. Are willing to get to know a person as they are instead of comparing to a list of conditions that must be met. If you are ready to be accepted the same way. If you can believe in or want to discover experiences beyond the limits of what we think we know and are willing to explore more of what is possible when you step outside a doing existence and move into Being Now state. Or if you have a question of what I mean.

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