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PlayBall13

45 Newport, RI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 40–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:48am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Standardized testing tells me I am an INTJ. I concur.

Looking specifically for those bearing the character trait/dating preference that translates as: "willing to go the distance in a relationship; emotionally available, also GGG(Good, Giving, and Game), and responsible." If you aren't familiar with GGG, please google it: 'Good Giving Game Dan Savage'

I’m curious and passionate and creative and thoughtful. Enlightened to some degree or another. I like asking questions, and getting in deep. I love figuring out how things work. I’m at my best when I’m excited about something. So much, in fact, that people feel the need to tell me to keep my voice down. If you are looking for quiet and stoic, you’re welcome to come watch me sleep.

If you want to know what *I AM* looking for, look up Natasha Bedingfield's 'Soulmate' on youtube...'nuff said.

A couple of things about kissing...kissing is an art...a true innate ability. Mouths should meet but not be noticed, felt but not be conscious of...the kiss should be the entire body not only the mouth. It is not hard to kiss or kiss well...it is hardest to kiss someone's soul...run your tongue across their want and draw out their need. Allow her the trust to ask for what she really wants, what she needs.

Some things about me:
1. Music is my favorite thing in the world(other than my kids). I enjoy my music with guitar solos,not drum machines.
2. I despise lying/cheating. I don't give second chances, so don't ask
3. I'm into sports, notably football and hockey. They don't run my life, but I won't feel guilty about watching them.
6. I do not have a jealous bone in my body. Girls night out? No problem. I'll refer you to #2.
7. I am not religious. I do not care if you are. However, I will not join in. FYI: I lead a very moral life.
8. I'm affectionate. I love sex. If this is an issue for you, please move on. I have a healthy sex drive, and will not apologize for it.

Some things about you:
1. Be honest, and genuine. Again, see #2 above.
2. Have a healthy sex drive. Non-negotiable.
3. Be over your propensity for serial-dating, and hopping from guy to guy.
4. Superficial? Move along. While I agree that SOME physical attraction is neccesary, I'm not looking for, nor am I attracted to 'Barbie' types. And I sure as h*ll ain't Ken. If you are looking for a model, or some hot rodeo rider named Cody - move along.
5. Be a GREAT kisser.
6. And here's a novel concept - actually look like your picture! Otherwise, you're buying me drinks until you do.

One more VERY important thing. I will NOT chase you. I have no interest in puffing up your ego, or giving constant reassurance of my interest. Believe me, if I'm interested in you...you will know. If we start chatting semi-regularly, and your texts become sporadic, and/or resort to one-word responses 3 days after I messaged you - obviously your attention is elsewhere, on someone else. I've wrestled whether to even care about this...but I kept coming back to the realization that I'm not putting effort into something with limited return potential.

Finally, you should message me if:

1. You don’t live or speak in clichés. “Work hard/play harder, the glass is half full, at home in a C*cktail dress as much as in jeans and a baseball cap, looking for a partner in crime” GAAAAH!!! STOP IT!!!

2. You just want to talk to someone really awesome and you know how to tell the truth. If you live nearby(within 75 miles) and you want a fishing buddy(just kidding, I'd rather watch Pauley Shore give a State of the Union Address). If you think it's fun and sexy to get your ass kicked at a game of Drunken Trivial Pursuit. If you made it this far in my profile... c'mon your a little curious...you know it..

4. You enjoy the seduction.

5. You think the brain is the sexiest part of the human body.

6. You can make me exclaim "OH F*CK YEAH!" for any reason at all.

P.S. I know there are a lot of people on here who don’t show the courtesy of answering messages. And I can’t understand why someone can’t take a few minutes to answer a person who took the time to write to them, whether they’re interested or not. I don’t typically send a lot of first messages, but I’ll always answer a message I receive because everyone deserves an answer…and who knows what can come from a message.

P.P.S. I often wonder if dropping those extra two letters in the word ‘you’ is really the time saver so many of you think it is.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working everyday, supporting my kids.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
~Naming songs with only hearing limited notes, as well as knowing the exact place in the song - a skill that has helped me out in life exactly....never!

~That stupid golf tee logic puzzle triangle thing at Cracker Barrel.
~Dodgeball
~Practical jokes...Ashton Kutcher? Bitch, please! ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
~My eyes

2nd thing they notice is I have a pretty efficient BS detector. I hate liars.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything by Stephen Hawking, Dean Koontz, and Raymond Feist. Other authors that float my boat are: Patricia Cornwell, Mary Higgins Clark, Sue Grafton, Terry Brooks, JRR Tolkien, David Eddings, Piers Anthony( Mode Series), and Ayn Rand.

Favorite movie: Shawshank Redemption, then A Few Good Men
Favorite show: Big Bang Theory(current), House & Seinfeld(all time)
Favorite Author: Raymond Feist, then Terry Brooks, David Eddings, Dean Koontz
Favorite Actors: Paul Giamatti, then Giovanni Ribisi, Sean Penn, Michael Douglas,
Favorite Actress: Meryl Streep, then Audrey Tautou, Gemma Arterton(I'm in LUST!!!), Bryce Dallas Howard.
Favorite Band: Journey(are you laughing)
Favorite food: English-style fish & chips, then pasta
Favorite genre of music: Melodic Rock( Journey, Foreigner, Winger...AKA Hair bands)
Favorite female singers: Ann Wilson(Heart), Corinne Bailey Rae, Stevie Nicks, Imelda May, Cyndi Lauper, Lana Lane.
Favorite Male singers: Steve Perry, Johnny Gioli(Hardline), Michael Bormann( Jaded Heart), Lou Gramm/Kelly Hansen(Foreigner), Dennis DeYoung(Styx), Phil Collins, Danny Vaughn(Tyketto), Tony Harnell(T.N.T.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The only thing I could never do without is my curiosity. The saddest thing I have ever felt was the realization that I'm not going to be alive when humankind finds out what *THIS* is all about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why is it when Dick Cheney shot someone in the face nothing happened, but when Clinton did it they tried to impeach him?

Quantum physics/mechanics, and Astronomy.

Whether I'm going to binge watch my Seinfeld DVDs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lamenting over yet another last minute date cancelation. What is wrong with you women?! ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cry during chick flicks, but will cover it up by saying there is something in my eye.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
~you have outgrown your propensity to hop from guy to guy.
~you believe in the "brain in a vat" theory.
~you sort of, almost, kinda think that slinkys have been grossly misunderstood.
~you, also, have misremembered something in your lifetime
~you have had occasion where taking *the nickel* was not only fiendishly apropo, but unabashedly reckless.
~you are fascinated by people who find it neccesary to turn to look at you to see if you are laughing when they are laughing at a funny part in a movie. Because this fascinates the ever-living fuck out of me.
~Oompa-Loompas creep you the fuck out.
~You enjoy the artwork of Kit Williams, and Jacek Yerka.

My 3 Dating Maxims:

1. Go for what you want. Accept that defeat will happen and walk away. If you're interested, and she just wants another friend, walk away. You have enough friends.

2. When in front of romantic prospects, or in general, don't let yourself get crapped on. Stand up for yourself. It is necessary to be able to be an 'asshole', and to be so on occasion when the situation warrants it.

3. Tell her 'no' when she's being stupid or ridiculous, and 'no' on occasion when you simply prefer the opposite of what she wants. just to establish it's an option. This shows you're not a doormat and you have your own will.