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PlayfulOtter69

43 / M / Bisexual / Single

Lexington, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:04pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I could be described as a "straight" version of your best gay male friend. The one who's a good listener, communicates well, appreciates culture and can be honest with you. With the added bonus of wanting to curl your toes.

I'm primarily looking to meet people who are open to, borrowing a Trek reference, assimilation ... adding your own biological and technological distinctiveness. I keep myself open to new and ongoing FWB relationships.

I've declared myself bisexual not because I'm fond of labels, but rather the reverse. I'm open-minded to all relationships. My history has been females/couples.
What I’m doing with my life
My goals include staying active, meeting new people and sharing my life.
I've worn many hats in the first half of my life, and I wouldn't trade the time spent for anything. I'm a former Marine, Firefighter/EMT, a Dad, and I even worked at DisneyLand at one time. I am still all of these things at heart, and carry them with me each day.
Thoroughly enjoy hiking and camping along the North shore. The next day would be happy to vegg out on a rainy day with the PS3. Balance is great.

I enjoy playing live trivia with friends and we're always on the lookout for new talent!
I’m really good at
Sarcasm, whistling, making others laugh and raspberry swirls ;p

Also, seeing the good in people, giving second chances and striking up conversations with strangers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually smiling, chuckling about something or trying to make someone else grin about their day.

You'll probably notice, that I noticed you first!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Vince Flynn, Nelson DeMille, Anne McCaffrey novels...to name a few.

Movies are too difficult... seriously, we'd be here all day! Everything from Mel Brooks to Musicals ;)
Shows: Mild Netflix addiction, symptoms include BBC and AMC orig programing (MI-5 or The Walking Dead for example). Love scifi and documentaries. Plus a little animation is good for the soul... (Family Guy, Archer).

Music enjoyed, but not fanatical collector or anything. Mood = genre as with most things.

Never met a food I didn't like, or a least was willing to be adventurous and try. I enjoy learning new favorites while dining out, then recreating at home.
Baking fresh bread at home is therapeutic and aromatic, win win.
The six things I could never do without
Might be the typical {yawn} response, but true:

Family - can't choose them, fortunately blessed with support.
Friends - can choose, and equally blessed with support.
My memories - without them, what's the point??
Optimism/attraction - shape your own life by how you choose to see it.
Health - thankful that myself and loved ones are healthy.
Sense of humor - again... see "what's the point?" without it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Did I leave the iron on??"

(Kudos if you get the reference)
On a typical Friday night I am
...likely mainlining Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in recovery since '06. Others encouraged to enjoy responsibly and call when they're knee-walking drunk :-)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
... any of this piqued your interest, and you would like to learn more.

... you value honesty, communication and affection.

... you enjoy flirting, fun and finding out if there's chemistry!

(bonus points if you didn't have to look up piqued, or you know raspberry swirl reference!)