A little background on me. I am a divorced (yes finalized with the courts) father of 2 kids (boy 10 and girl 8) who live full time with their mom. I have been divorced for a while and dated so the rebound thing is long past. I live on my own and see my kids twice a week so I have plenty of free time to date and go places.
Physically I am 6 foot tall, with about 60 extra lbs on me. I have started to exercise to lose the weight and hope to be in really good shape for the summer. Yes, I do shave my head and most people tell me it makes me look 10 years younger. I feel like that sometimes too.
Emotionally, I have and continue to do self development work. I take classes or attend events at least every couple of months. Actually taking a weekend class next week (as I type this). I have done the personal exploration. Developed my rules and boundaries. I know myself and what I am looking for in a partner.
Financially, I am a successful consultant and coach for over 20 years. I have a great house and wonderful friends around me. Although I will be selling my house (now that I am divorced and kids not here, no need for such a giant house), and looking to move into something much smaller. At least that is plan for a little while. Actually, I have all kinds of plans. I know where I am and where I am going and have a plan and path to get there.
Socially, as my name states, yes I am rather playful. One any given evening or weekend you can find me at one of the many events going on in the DC/MD/VA area. I run a meetup group with over 140 people (and assistant organizer with a meetup with 1500 people) in it dealing with dating and social events.
Educationally, I am studying tantra and periodically taking swing or country dance classes. I am a lovingly Dominant man with experience in the kink, poly, and other adult areas that I often teach or coach others.
Just thought I would also mention some other facts, that may help you in deciding if you and I are a fit. First, I like a strong woman who knows herself, knows what she wants, and loves to learn and grow (if you are stuck and not interested in growing, learning or improving we will not be a fit). Also, I have dated some people with medical issues that severely impact their ability to be active. I want someone who can take a long walk or ride a bike for a couple hours. I just want someone who can and would like to get out (see below)
Charitable. I decided to add this one last section. I am also CEO of a charity that is rapidly growing. I would like to have a partner who can be my princess by day and bad girl at night. Can you handle a ball gown and champagne in crystal glasses? What about being blindfolded and the feel of silk in the evening?
I came on this site looking for someone who really likes to have fun and not have the same old boring evening.