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35 F Chicago, IL

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Last Online
Today – 8:57pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Hey there!

Grew up in SoCal, lived in NYC for 8 years and moved to Chicago in August '12 (boy does time fly).

I'm a sweet, sassy, sexy, intelligent, funny, energetic, thoughtful, strong, determined and genuine woman (phew, that was a lot of adjectives). I'm here to meet someone who I can potentially build something lasting and meaningful with. I am confident, grounded and independent but I have my own weaknesses just like everyone else. I love and appreciate chivalry and kindness :)

I wish more people understood that they don't have to "try" to be impressive in the beginning stages of dating. I don't want to be impressed with a version of you that you can't actually sustain. I want to be impressed with the real you. The one that makes an effort, is thoughtful and kind because that's just who you are; not who you are trying to be. I'm not here to meet a perfect man, but rather someone real, able to be vulnerable and who will show me the good, the bad and the ugly and let me do the same.

I surround myself in life with those who have integrity, kindness, curiosity and goofiness. I'm looking to meet a man who has a good head on his shoulders, a zest for life, dreams and aspirations and who hasn't lost sight of the importance of relationships (romantic, friends, family) . . . of course, career and financial stability is important (and I'm super passionate about my career) but it's the people and relationships in our lives that bring us the most joy and that truly matter the most . . . in my opinion, at least :)

I have a youthful spirit and wisdom beyond my years (in my humble opinion, haha). Spirituality and personal development are an important part of my life and I'd love to meet someone who feels the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Aiming to be the best version of myself. Continued self-development and growth plays a big role in my life.

I am a Pilates and Gyrotonic teacher and run my own business. Most likely you have no clue what Gyrotonic is (google's pretty awesome!). I love love love what I do. I feel very lucky to have found a career that I'm passionate about.

I've been a dancer/performer all of my life. Taking dance classes and performing brings me an ecstatic type of joy that is truly beyond words. Dancing is probably what makes me the happiest in life. I haven't danced much since I moved to Chicago but I miss it a lot.
I’m really good at
1) Making (and eating) guacamole :-)
2) Laughing and finding the humor in many situations. Sometimes I think I laugh at too many things, haha (see, there I go).
3) Being a dork . . . the sexy, cool kind, of course.
4) Making people feel comfortable and cared for.
5) Being sarcastic. Hopefully you are too!
6) Balancing my checkbook (also dork-related)
7) Dancing . . . I've been dancing since I was 3 years old. On the dance floor though, I'm just a regular person, so don't expect me to bust out crazy dance moves. I prefer to be a goofball on the dance floor.
8) Board games!!!!! Taboo, Catch Phrase, Balderdash, Cranium . . .
9) Communicating. I'd consider this one of my main strengths. I'm honest, open, straight-forward and I have a way with communicating that puts people at ease, even if it's a confrontational conversation.
10) Listing things I'm good at, haha
The six things I could never do without
I've decided to take family and friends off the list since that is assumed for most of us.

1) Dance
2) Music
3) Meditation/Reflective Conversations
4) Laughter
5) Peace
6) Avocados . . . or maybe cheese (it's a tie)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How to live a balanced life.
-Food! (yes, this one deserved an exclamation point)
-How to continuously challenge myself to grow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be obsessed with Matlock and Columbo when I was in junior high :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
. . . you connect to what I wrote in my profile and getting to know me seems like it'd be fun, interesting and exciting.

. . . .you have integrity, which means 2 things to me (your words and actions consistently match up, and your actions are in alignment with what you say your values are.) This is SO SO important.

. . . .you are emotionally available and you know you are ready for something "more" if the right woman shows up.