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36 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 33–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 4:47pm
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs
Grew up in SoCal, lived in NYC for 8 years and moved to Chicago in August 2012 (boy does time fly).
I'll start off by saying that if you end up being interested in meeting me after checking out my profile, you'll have to take the step of messaging me first. I'm taking a break from any type of initiation (except for in person smiles and "come hither" looks of encouragement, haha). I'm not at all into playing games but I am into being pursued by a man who knows what he wants and will make the effort and take the risk to go after it...that's just how I roll these days :)
I'm a sweet, sassy, sexy, intelligent, funny, energetic, thoughtful, strong, determined and genuine woman (phew, that was a lot of adjectives). I'm here to meet someone who I can potentially build something lasting and meaningful with. I'm ready to find a man who will be as consistent with his dedication to building a relationship as I am (with the right person, of course).
I surround myself in life with those who have integrity, kindness, curiosity, goofiness and positivity. Positivity is a big one! I'm looking to meet a man who has a good head on his shoulders, a zest for life, dreams and aspirations and who hasn't lost sight of the importance of relationships (romantic, friends, family) . . . of course, career and financial stability is important (and I'm super passionate about my career) but it's the people and relationships in our lives that bring us the most joy and that truly matter the most . . . in my opinion, at least :)
I have a youthful spirit and wisdom beyond my years (in my humble opinion, haha). Growth and personal development are an important part of my life and I'd love to meet someone similar in that regard.
I've been a dancer/performer all of my life. Taking dance classes and performing brings me an ecstatic type of joy that is truly beyond words. Dancing is probably what makes me the happiest in life. I haven't danced much since I moved to Chicago but I miss it a lot.
2) Laughing and finding the humor in many situations. Sometimes I laugh at too many things, haha (see, there I go).
3) Being silly
4) Making people feel comfortable and cared for.
5) Being sarcastic. Hopefully you are too!
6) Dancing . . . I've been dancing since I was 3 years old. Don't expect me to bust out crazy moves on the dance floor though. I prefer to be a goofball on the dance floor.
7) Board games!!!!! Taboo, Catch PhDrase, Balderdash, Cranium . . .
8) Communicating. I'm seriously a rock star at communicating.
9) Listing things I'm good at ;)
3) Meditation/Reflective Conversations
6) Avocados . . . or maybe cheese (it's a tie)
-Food! (yes, this one deserved an exclamation point)
-How to continuously challenge myself to grow.
. . . .you have integrity, which means 2 things to me (your words and actions consistently match up, and your actions are in alignment with what you say your values are.) This is SO SO important.
. . . .you are emotionally available and you know you are ready for something "more" if the right woman shows up.
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