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Playful_NB

36 Chicago, IL Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there!

Grew up in SoCal, lived in NYC for 8 years and moved to Chicago in August 2012 (boy does time fly).

I'll start off by saying that if you end up being interested after checking out my profile, I'd love to receive a message from you. I'm taking a break from initiating emails. It's my way of seeing if you actually read my profile or just looked at pics. I also respect a man more who makes the effort to reach out, has something of substance to say and who has the confidence to go after what/who he wants :)

I'm a sweet, sassy, sexy, intelligent, funny, energetic, thoughtful, strong, determined and genuine woman (phew, that was a lot of adjectives). I'm here to meet someone who I can potentially build something lasting and meaningful with. I must be very physically attracted to you AND think you're an amazing human-being on the inside.

I surround myself in life with those who have integrity, kindness, curiosity, goofiness and positivity. It's sexy to me when a man is confident (not a cocky a-hole), has a good head on his shoulders, a zest for life, dreams and aspirations and when he hasn't lost sight of the importance of the relationships in his life. Of course, career and financial stability is important (and I'm super passionate about my career) but it's the people and relationships in our lives that bring us the most joy and that truly matter the most.

I have a youthful spirit and wisdom beyond my years (in my humble opinion, haha). Growth and personal development are an important part of my life and I'd love to meet someone similar in that regard.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a Pilates and Gyrotonic teacher and run my own business. Most likely you have no clue what Gyrotonic is (google it...it's pretty awesome!). I love love love what I do. I feel very lucky to have found a career that I'm passionate about. And I'm always working on bettering myself, learning, growing and wanting to be challenged in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Making (and eating) guacamole :-)
2) Laughing and finding the humor in many situations. Sometimes I laugh at too many things, haha (see, there I go).
3) Being silly
4) Making people feel comfortable and cared for.
5) Being sarcastic. Hopefully you are too!
6) Dancing . . . I've been dancing since I was 3 years old. Don't expect me to bust out crazy moves on the dance floor though. I prefer to be a goofball on the dance floor.
7) Board games!!!!! Taboo, Catch PhDrase, Balderdash, Cranium . . .
8) Communicating. I'm seriously a rock star at communicating.
9) Listing things I'm good at ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile! :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've decided to take family and friends off the list since that is assumed for most of us.

1) Dance
2) Music
3) Meditation/Reflective Conversations
4) Laughter
5) Peace
6) Avocados . . . or maybe cheese (it's a tie)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-How to live a balanced life.
-Food! (yes, this one deserved an exclamation point)
-How to continuously challenge myself to grow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be obsessed with Matlock and Columbo when I was in junior high :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You connect to what I wrote in my profile and getting to know me seems like it'd be fun, interesting and exciting.

You are authentic, honest and have integrity. This is SO important.

You know how to have a conversation through email and in person....I'm always shocked at how many men will write me but rarely ask me questions, try to learn about me, or say anything interesting. If I notice that I'm the only one asking questions and keeping the convo flowing, I'll stop responding to you. Seems fair, right?

And lastly, if you are emotionally available and you know you are ready for something "more" when the right woman shows up.