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Playful_Paradox

36 M Lompoc, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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MYSELF:

I came to this country when I left my mother's womb. Since then I've tried to understand things, people, but primarily myself. After realizing I'm crazy I decided to immerse myself in literature, drugs, dreams, meditation and friends. I've hit low places and been blessed with blissful times, but lately I've been trying to experience the beauty of simple. I have organs that I am willing to donate. Also, if your cause was bankrolled to the tune of 214 billion dollars which would result in a utopia I'd like to hear from you.

I do not want to make children, I experience dysthymia, I enjoy drinking a lot, I'm balding, and I have a gap between my front teeth. On any given day I'm doing my best to take in this life. In the early am I'm hopefully working out at the gym, followed by some coffee and catching up on local/state/national/world news. During the day I facilitate psychotherapy sessions for youngsters and families for a non-profit agency. In the evening I'm either playing video games, watching sports or films, hanging with friends, or out on a date. At my most beautiful I release into random acts of faith, kindness, silliness, and madness.

I finally finished my hours toward licensure as a Marriage & Family Therapist, passed my first test and am studying for the second and final test. Beyond career I am trying my best to love fully in the face of vulnerability. I find that I don't need a lot of material things. I derive happiness primarilly from the company I keep and the values I embody. While I do appreciate quality in all things, my enjoyment doesn't come with owning it, but experiencing it.

WHAT I SEEK:

If you are a ninja and a poet please apply. If you eat good sushi with your eyes closed please apply. If you side with your heart on most matters please apply...I'm on this site to find someone to fully witness and share in this life, and who seeks the same from me. Fully witnessing does not mean that we agree with each other all the time, but it does mean that we make the effort to better understand each other while not trying to change each other. We can support each other to shine and grow, but this is distinctly different from the judgment attendant with trying to change the other. In short I believe people are complex and have an infinite spectrum of characteristics. These characteristics are our story, they make up who we are, they define our style, and indicate the direction that we move within the universe. I want to immerse myself in the playfulness of our co-created vastness. This playfulness will likely include every emotion, but the key to its contextualization within a playfulness is, in my opinion, the ingredients of truth, trust, and love. Over time these three can exist in a relationship and this is what I am on this earth to create. So, if you are someone who seeks a similar relationship, someone who hasn't given up hope on the human species, someone who seeks an answer to a question they keep forgetting please contact me. Or if you look like Scarlett Johansson please also contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing
and rightdoing there is a field.
I'll meet you there.
When the sould lies down in that grass
the world is too full to talk about.

--Rumi
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening
Empathizing
Accepting people for who they are
Balancing seriousness with humor
Kissing
Naps
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Calm
Grounded
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fyodor Dostoevsky
Rainer Maria Rilke

Ran
Dogville

The Wire
The Colbert Report

Medeski Martin & Wood
Talib Kweli

Sushi (I have to close my eyes when I eat good sushi)
Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
interconnection
women
purpose
coffee
video games
meditation
prayer
psychology
Buddhism
Holistic Health
gym
massage
reiki
chakras
meridian system
subtle energy
creative writing
beer
wine
whiskey
Stephen Colbert
Jon Stewart
Democracy Now
utopian visions
sustainability
interconnectedness
environmental awareness
ecological design
integral theory
balance
economics
ecology
communication
music
dance
nature
hiking
politics
alternative media
evolution
etymology
linguistics
the paranormal
dreaming
human potential
travel
naps
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at dinner, enjoying hot springs, dancing, playing pool, live music, theater, film, or often I'm at home alone or hanging with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've lived in American Buddhist temples for four years.
You should message me if
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You've read my profile
You think we are possibly a match
You are not only kind, but non-judgmental