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25 M Anaheim, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:19pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is Ash, but I also go by Blue.

Pixari is my primary partner. We are Polyamorous and Polysexual. Our joint profile can be seen here: Pix_And_Blue
All relationships (friendship and romantic) must be based off of 100% open communication and respect for them to work; Especially Poly relationships.

I am Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Poly-Sexual, Poly-Amorous, Gender-Fluid, feminist and a Hedonistic Libertine. Though I am pansexual, I am very picky with guys... As such I just put myself as "Straight" on here. I tend to prefer meeting guys in person, or having had a rapport with them for awhile and let things develop naturally. I am much more open about women, despite that fact being a little hypocritical to me.

Credit to my friend Antithestasia for this lovely excerpt:
[A note on polyamory: I am poly identified, not just currently but always, and am repulsed by the idea that my relationship with one person would limit my relationship with another. In that vein, my partners and I practice polyamory independently of each other, and strive for a non-hierarchical approach to relationships.]

My turn-ons include, but are not limited to, the use of proper grammar and punctuation, lasciviousness, wanderlust, electricity and fire.
I am an Ethical Slut.
I am passionate about everything I do, whether or not I've done it before. Bring me my next passion.

I am also sometimes a pedant, despite how much I love Stephen Fry and want to adhere to everything coming out of his face.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I presently live in Anaheim CA.
I am a clown, jester, object manipulator, and fire performer, working on building a small local circus troupe..
I also do professional competitive sign spinning.

Outside of work I am:
- Delving as deep as I can into Flow Arts, Object Manipulation, Poi, and Fire Dance.
- Exploring spiritual pursuits in art, sex, philosophy, flow, and social interactions
- Enjoying the excitement of life.

I live with Pixari in a nice one-bedroom in a pretty mountain area, and we are working to create a longstanding, loving relationship together.

On my free time I can be found sitting around the house procrastinating, smoking hookah (not pot. Friendly but I do not partake), testing my limits, or dancing around like an 8 year old to whatever music just happens to be on. It's likely music I listened to when I was an 8 year old.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.


I feel like I am great at art, whichever types I pick up. I enjoy it, it's a passion.
I am never disappointed in my own cooking.
I do tabletop gaming, mostly D&d 3.5 and Pathfinder.

I'm also good at rollerblading, biking long distance, conversation, picking out good coffees, and proving people wrong when they say "I don't like ___" when it comes to food.

I am on the constant lookout for new things to do or experience.
Right now it's Hand-Balancing and balloon animals. Tomorrow it may be skydiving or costuming... My interests are pretty fluid, and I get a lot of them.

I feel like I excel at going with the flow of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I honestly have no idea these days.

Used to be my eyes, or smile... Now I have so many things going on at once that it may be that I'm practicing any number of things in the park, that I've lost a ton of weight and become more fit, that I smile a lot, or who knows what else.

You tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is really worth an in-person chat. Most people, if they are like me, gloss over this most of the time anyways. Instead of making a wall of text, I'll offer my top 5 in each, plus a few others... Which really still just turns it into a wall of text, but a little easier to read through!

Currently Reading:
-C.S. Friedman - The Coldfire Trilogy OMG I STILL HAVEN'T FINISHED THE FIRST BOOK! It's been a year... >_>

-Anne McCafferey: The Dragonriders of Pern
-Frank Herbert: Dune
-C.S. Friedman: The Coldfire Trilogy
-J.R.R. Tolkein: The Lord of the Rings and The

-Stephen King: The Gunslinger series.

-Chuck Close/Charles Close
-H.R. Geiger
-Luis Royo

Comics/Graphic Novels (Western/American):
-Neil Gaiman: Sandman
-Michael Turner: Fathom
-Alan Moore: Watchmen
-Stan Lee/Jack Kirby: X-Men
-Tony S. Daniel: Detective Comics

Comics/Graphic Novels (Eastern):
-Kyung-ah Choi: Snow Drop
-FUYUMI Soryo: Mars
-YAZAWA Ai: Nana
-ODA Eichiro: One Piece
-OHBA Tsugumi: Deathnote

-Least I Could Do (
-Looking For group (
-PVP (
-Questionable Content

-The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey
-Man on Wire
-Casshern the Robot Hunter
-Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World

-Venture Bros
-Avatar: The Last Airbender
-Blue Submarine no.6

-House M.D.
-Being Human (BBC)
-30 Rock

Cult Classics
-The Rocky Horror Picture Show
-Hedwig and the Angry Inch
-Evil Dead
-Pink Floyd, The Wall
-Heavy Metal

Stage Plays
-Cyrano De Bergerac
-Sweeney Todd, the Demon Barber of Fleet Street
-Anything from Cirque De Soleil
-Les Miserables

-Infected Mushroom
-Basement Jaxx
-Massive Attack

-Gyoza and Pork Ramen from Daikokuya Ramen
-Garlic Fries and Pork french dip from Cole's French Dips
-Melon flavored cream pops from Japanese markets
-Dreyer's Peppermint ice cream
-Ume/sour Plum rice balls

-La Folie; Sour Brown Ale
-Coffee. All of it (dark, light, Americano, cappuccino, black, with cream, espresso, mocha, starbucks, coffee bean, home brew, whatever. I love coffee).
Midori Sour (3 shots Midori, 3 oz sprite, 1 oz sour mix, 1
oz whiskey sours).
-Lightly sweetened Oolong Tea with milk
-Melon creamy Soda
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A set of Poi in hand or something physical to do
-Some form of internet-connected media so I can study and
research something wherever I am
-Music to keep me focused
-A new goal/challenge to work towards every few months
-Some form of intellectual or humorous conversation (read: Friends, who are friends and do friends things while I friend at them).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How best to express myself, how beautiful peoples’ eyes are, where the line between sensual and obscene should be drawn, or if it even should.

Sexuality, human nature and how we mask it with morality that makes us fear that nature, what is potentially in what I am eating, so I can cook it later, how best to capture the shadows on your face with charcoal or graphite to show realism, how colors interact with each other, and what new toys I can pick up and light on fire.

Is being "Old Fashioned" really an admirable trait?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wanting to slap people who say they don't do typical.

Presently, my typical is hunting down photos of me and my troupe from events we go to, and working late into the night developing my business structure while also learning new trades and getting distracted by humorous videos online.

And learning the art of Anti-Humor.

I would really like to start up acrobatics and free-running classes soon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am immensely vain.

"Private" is relative to the person;

I have no secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to grab a drink (coffee, tea, alcohol, pick your poison, I'm flexible) and chat about something. I don't really care what it is.

You like biking? Rollerblading? Want to see a firedancer in person? Interested in doing yoga together? Want to see a movie? Play some board games or something? Suggest something to do?

I don't really like spending much time online these days, I'd rather be out experiencing.


If you are looking for more than friendship, then I prefer you not be monogamous. Unless you are open to non-monogamy.
I am polyamorous, I will always be polyamorous. I don't want drama that comes from partners not understanding what that means to me.