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26 Anaheim, CA Androgynous, Genderfluid, Man

Androgynous, Genderfluid, Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Heteroflexible, Bisexual
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an ambivert; I enjoy quiet time at home as much as I do time out with a lot of people.
I am pansexual, sapiosexual, poly-sexual, poly-amorous, and gender fluid.
I enjoyed the lesson learned from the book The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton. It did not prevent me from making some of the mistakes myself, and learning them firsthand, though.
I can be pedantic.
I enjoy playing with fire and electricity, and getting lost playing with toys.
I used to read constantly; I can be found to do so a little more lately, but despite my love for books, I am so visual that I tend to prefer movies and video games these days, for my media entertainment.

Credit to my friend Antithestasia for this lovely excerpt:
[A note on polyamory: I am poly identified, not just currently but always, and am repulsed by the idea that my relationship with one person would limit my relationship with another. In that vein, my partners and I practice polyamory independently of each other, and strive for a non-hierarchical approach to relationships.]

ViolettVendetta is my lover. We're dating and polyamorous together.
I have a third partner, but due to her wish for privacy online, I cannot name her here.

Thinking of Polyamory as heirarchical, I do not presently have what one would refer to as a "Primary" partner, nor do I feel like I want one.
I am content with my current relationships, and love both of them deeply.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I presently live in Anaheim CA.

I dropped out of school to pursue circus arts on my own.
I am working on Circus Schools and learning various performance arts on my own, in lieu of this, and will eventually return to college for a business degree or three.

I am a clown, jester, object manipulator, and fire performer, working on building a small local circus troupe, and aiming at getting professional experience in an already established circus.
I also do professional competitive sign spinning.

Outside of work, I enjoy sitting around the house procrastinating, picking up the poi and spinning, learning juggling, reading, playing Legend of Zelda, and watching various movies.
I can be found at my local theater constantly, I go out for coffee a lot, and I enjoy hosting friends, and/or listening to music for the sound of it.

As of 12/13/2014, I have given up waiting for Barnum and Bailey to call back, will audition with them in the future, and have begun attempting to get back to living on my own, with only my responsibilities to worry about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
More than anything, I feel like I am fantastic at losing myself in what I am doing, and solving problems. I can spend hours drilling repetitive complicated motions in poi or other physical things and come out happier than I started, which is something I feel a lot of people (who don’t delve in the philosophy of Flow Art) can’t say. It's also something that I was VERY bad at as a kid.

Here’s a fire performance piece I did for Valentine’s Day:

I enjoy cooking, as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’ve been told that it’s my eyes, but I am pretty sure that those people were lying and that it is my ear-piercing joker-esque laugh. Though I guess that depends on whether they met me in a situation that I was having fun or excited during.

You tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is really worth an in-person chat. Most people, if they are like me, gloss over this most of the time anyways. Instead of making a wall of text, I'll offer my top 5 in each, plus a few others... Which really still just turns it into a wall of text, but a little easier to read through!

Currently Reading:
-C.S. Friedman - The Coldfire Trilogy

-Anne McCafferey: The Dragonriders of Pern
-Frank Herbert: Dune
-C.S. Friedman: The Coldfire Trilogy
-J.R.R. Tolkein: The Lord of the Rings and The
-Stephen King: The Gunslinger series.

-The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey and Desolation of Smaug
-Man on Wire
-Guardians of the Galaxy
-Casshern the Robot Hunter
-Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World

-Venture Bros
-Avatar: The Last Airbender/Legend of Korra
-How I Met Your Mother
-Blue Submarine no.6

-Infected Mushroom
-In This Moment
-Daishi Dance
- The Dragonriders of Pern albums (I just recently found the second. It made me happy)

-Gyoza and Pork Ramen from Daikokuya Ramen
-Melon flavored cream pops from Japanese markets
-Dreyer's Peppermint ice cream
-Ume/sour Plum rice balls

-Duchesse De Bourgogne, Sour Ale
-Coffee. All of it (dark, light, Americano, cappuccino, black, with cream, espresso, mocha, starbucks, coffee bean, home brew, whatever. I love coffee).
-Lightly sweetened Oolong Tea with milk
-Melon creamy Soda
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A set of Poi in hand or something physical to do
-An outlet for inappropriate behavior
-Music to keep me focused
-A new goal/challenge to work towards every few months
-Some form of intellectual or humorous conversation (read: Friends, who are friends and do friends things while I friend at them).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fact that facebook and most other internet things get in the way of me actually doing things I WANT to do, and that I can’t bring myself to do too much about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This seriously depends on the week.
Sometimes at a goth/industrial club spinning poi.
Sometimes performing for children’s parties as a clown.
Sometimes hanging with friends at home, or going out to movies.
Sometimes hiding sequestered in my room where the universe can’t bother me.
Lately, I’ve also been spending time learning the art of Anti-Humor. Which I find far funnier than I should.

I would really like to start up acrobatics and free-running classes soon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am immensely vain.
I will sing every part of every song that I hear and know obnoxiously loud, and I don't care what people think about it.

"Private" is relative to the person;

I have no secrets.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The prospect of getting out of your house and meeting someone for coffee, going to a movie, learning a flow art in the park, or suggesting an activity to do appeals to you.
Also, if throughout this, you noticed something that you liked or saw as a shared interest and want to explore it with me.

If you are a clown, I IMPLORE you to message me. I would love to have a group of clowning friends.

I also enjoy biking, rollerblading, drawing (If I like you I may draw you and even write poetry at you), dabbling in yoga, and a plethora of other things. Pick your poison, or give me a new one.

I don't really like spending much time online these days, I'd rather be out experiencing.