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25 M Anaheim, CA

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Last Online
Jul 8
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
English, French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
No more pretenses. Profile Version 5.0.

My name is Ash, but I also go by Blue.

Pixari is my primary partner. We are Polyamorous and Polysexual. Our joint profile can be seen here: Pix_And_Blue
All relationships (friendship and romantic) must be based off of 100% open communication and respect for them to work; Especially Poly relationships.

I am Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Poly-Sexual, Poly-Amorous, Gender-Fluid, feminist and a Hedonistic Libertine. Though I am pansexual, I am very picky with guys... As such I just put myself as "Straight" on here. I tend to prefer meeting guys in person, or having had a rapport with them for awhile and let things develop naturally. I am much more open about women, despite that fact being a little hypocritical to me.

My turn-ons include, but are not limited to, the use of proper grammar and punctuation, lasciviousness, wanderlust, electricity and fire.
I am an Ethical Slut.
I am passionate about everything I do, whether or not I've done it before. Bring me my next passion.

I am also sometimes a pedant, despite how much I love Stephen Fry and want to adhere to everything coming out of his face.

Expounding on the right sidebar:

Smokes: I smoke Houkah, once in awhile. Nothing else.
Drugs: I have dabbled, I don't have any inclination to keep doing so at the moment.
Religion: My religion is not listed and prefer to keep it personal and separate from people I meet unless they are interested in learning about it. It is called Heathenism, or Asatru.
What I’m doing with my life
I presently live in Anaheim CA.
I am Owner and Performer at Laughing Loki Fire, and working on getting together a circus troupe and saving up funds to expand.
I'm an object manipulator, fire-dancer, explorer, and on occasion (read: often), a clown.
I also do professional sign spinning (I'm one of the ones you may see sitting on the corner throwing the sign around so fast that you wonder how it's possible).

Outside of work and fund-gathering, I am:
- Delving as deep as I can into Flow Arts, Object Manipulation, Poi, and Fire Dance.
- Exploring spiritual pursuits in art, sex, philosophy, flow, and social interactions
- Enjoying the excitement of life.
Learning Capoeira, Northern Shaolin Kung-Fu, Tricking, and Hand-Balancing, Ashtanga Yoga, and acrobatics. Slowly.

I live with Pixari in a nice one-bedroom in a pretty mountain area, and we are working to create a longstanding, loving relationship together.

On my free time I can be found sitting around the house procrastinating, smoking hookah (not pot, don't ask), testing my limits, or dancing around like an 8 year old to whatever music just happens to be on. It's likely music I listened to when I was an 8 year old.
I’m really good at


I feel like I am great at art, whichever types I pick up. I enjoy it, it's a passion.
I am never disappointed in my own cooking.
I do tabletop gaming, mostly D&d 3.5 and

I'm also good at rollerblading, biking long distance, conversation, picking out good coffees, proving people wrong when they say "I don't like ___" when it comes to food.

I am on the constant lookout for new things to do or experience.
Right now it's Capoeira, Shaolin Kung Fu and Hand-Balancing. A couple weeks ago it was object manipulation. A month ago it was Fire Dance. A few months back it was Sign Spinning. A year ago it was cooking. Three years ago, it was college art classes. Tomorrow it may be skydiving or costuming... My interests are pretty fluid, and I get a lot of them.

I feel like I'm best at going with the flow of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly have no idea these days.

Used to be my eyes, or smile... Now I have so many things going on at once that it may be that I'm practicing any number of things in the park, that I've lost a ton of weight and become more fit, that I smile a lot, or who knows what else.

You tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently Reading:
-C.S. Friedman - The Coldfire Trilogy OMG I STILL HAVEN'T FINISHED THE FIRST BOOK! It's been a year... >_>

This is really worth an in-person chat. Most people, if they are like me, gloss over this most of the time anyways. Instead of making a wall of text, I'll offer my top 5 in each, plus a few others... Which really still just turns it into a wall of text, but a little easier to read through!

-Anne McCafferey: The Dragonriders of Pern
-Frank Herbert: Dune
-C.S. Friedman: The Coldfire Trilogy
-J.R.R. Tolkein: The Lord of the Rings and The

-Stephen King: The Gunslinger series.

-Chuck Close/Charles Close
-H.R. Geiger
-Luis Royo

Comics/Graphic Novels (Western/American):
-Neil Gaiman: Sandman
-Michael Turner: Fathom
-Alan Moore: Watchmen
-Stan Lee/Jack Kirby: X-Men
-Tony S. Daniel: Detective Comics

Comics/Graphic Novels (Eastern):
-Kyung-ah Choi: Snow Drop
-FUYUMI Soryo: Mars
-YAZAWA Ai: Nana
-ODA Eichiro: One Piece
-OHBA Tsugumi: Deathnote

-Least I Could Do (
-Looking For group (
-PVP (
-Questionable Content

-The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey
-Man on Wire
-Casshern the Robot Hunter
-Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World

-Venture Bros
-Avatar: The Last Airbender
-Blue Submarine no.6

-House M.D.
-Being Human (BBC)
-30 Rock

Cult Classics
-The Rocky Horror Picture Show
-Hedwig and the Angry Inch
-Evil Dead
-Pink Floyd, The Wall
-Heavy Metal

Stage Plays
-Cyrano De Bergerac
-Sweeney Todd, the Demon Barber of Fleet Street
-Anything from Cirque De Soleil
-Les Miserables

-Infected Mushroom
-Basement Jaxx
-Massive Attack

-Gyoza and Pork Ramen from Daikokuya Ramen
-Garlic Fries and Pork french dip from Cole's French Dips
-Melon flavored cream pops from Japanese markets
-Dreyer's Peppermint ice cream
-Ume/sour Plum rice balls

-La Folie; Sour Brown Ale
-Coffee. All of it (dark, light, Americano, cappuccino, black, with cream, espresso, mocha, starbucks, coffee bean, home brew, whatever. I love coffee).
Midori Sour (3 shots Midori, 3 oz sprite, 1 oz sour mix, 1
oz whiskey sours).
-Lightly sweetened Oolong Tea with milk
-Melon creamy Soda
The six things I could never do without
-A set of Poi in hand or something physical to
-Some form of internet-connected media so I can study and
research something wherever I am
-My art supplies/Sketchbook
-Music to keep me focused
-A new goal/challenge to work towards every few months
-Some form of intellectual or humorous conversation (read: Friends, who are friends and do friends things while I friend at them).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How best to express myself, how beautiful peoples’ eyes are, where the line between sensual and obscene should be drawn, or if it even should, and why we all exist and are not just a gap in the void that is the rest of the universe.

Sexuality, human nature and how we mask it with morality that makes us fear that nature, what is potentially in what I am eating, so I can cook it later, how best to capture the shadows on your face with charcoal or graphite to show realism, how colors interact with each other, and what new toys I can pick up and light on fire.

Is being "Old Fashioned" really an admirable trait?
On a typical Friday night I am
Wanting to slap people who say they don't do typical.

Also, my typical is usually staying in and reading, drawing, or spinning poi for practice, while a movie plays in the background. That “typical” is quickly changing to something more along the lines of partying and spinning in public, finding ways to bring more fire into my life, and experimenting with things I’ve never tried; Thank the Gods for the random up-root that has recently come into my life.

I love biking, and may be getting into rollerblading again soon, although the streets of LA are hardly the place for that. But I DO have the LA river right next to me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am immensely vain.

"Private" is relative to the person;

I have no secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to grab a drink (coffee, tea, alcohol, pick your poison, I'm flexible) and chat about something. I don't really care what it is.

You like biking? Rollerblading? Want to see a firedancer in person? Interested in doing yoga together? Want to see a movie? Play some board games or something? Suggest something to do?

I don't really like spending much time online these days, I'd rather be out experiencing.


No drug users, please. I've done your shit. I don't like it. It's not an across the board judgement, I'm sure some of you are good people, but none of the ones I've met really are. Don't bring it up to me, don't ask me about it, I don't want it in my life anymore.

No monogamous people, please. Unless you are open to non-monogamy.
I am poly, I will be poly, I want to associate with poly people.