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42 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–49
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:46pm
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Hebrew (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an attorney, an optimist, an outdoor enthusiast, a runner/skier/yogi/scuba diver/SUPer/hiker, a political dork, and the lowest ranking elected official in the state of California.

I'm a sucker for a man who can write. I am not looking for someone who matches me perfectly according to the OKC algorithm, but someone I can laugh with and appreciate the world in new ways.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
An enthusiastic connector of people, I have more good friends than is reasonably sustainable.

I am doing government affairs for a tech startup and not getting much sleep, but still finding time to take care of myself and hang with friends.

Always on the lookout for a fun new book for my three-year-old nephew.

I've been to Burning Man enough times to realize that the world doesn't revolve around it. And I'll probably go again this year.

For much of the last decade, I've been acquiring stuff I don't need, and I've recently started to reverse that trend. Feels sooooo good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Throwing dinner parties, running campaigns, getting friends out of legal trouble, raising money, dressing myself and my friends in silly costumes, laughing at myself, calculating risks, bluffing in Scrabble, public speaking, spelling and syntax.

I'm really bad at: working indoors when it's sunny outside, remembering directions, tennis.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, especially if I'm wearing heels
My inability to sit still for long
The many apparent contradictions
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nonfiction writers and comedians can hold my attention through the end of a book. So it makes sense that my favorite movies are documentaries and quirky comedies. I love discovering new music in many different genres... though I am usually listening to Pandora's electronica channels.

I love love love to cook and to be cooked for, it can be a delightful intimate experience. While I usually prefer healthy and fresh, I like just about every kind of cuisine and discovering new restaurants in the Bay Area.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never? Hmm. My newest pair of running shoes; my passport; the Sunday NY Times; my super awesome 3-year-old nephew; and my motorcycle helmet, which saved my life more than once.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The achievement of work-life balance
When I'll find the time to finish cleaning off my camping gear
The next party I'm helping put together
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
driving to Tahoe, or attending an art opening or a political fundraiser. Or getting some rest after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was a student government dork in college. OK, and high school.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart, you're good at communicating, you are open to having a(nother) child and you are registered to vote.

We're not a match if you are out of my age range, aren't willing to send me a photo, or haven't filled out any of your essay questions. If you haven't filled out your profile, I have no way of knowing whether we have anything in common! Words are everything.