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58 F San Leandro, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:04pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
it has been brought to my attention that the fact that my user name has Polly in it is confusing to some of the more shall we say"adventurous" types on here.........not what I'm looking for gentlemen....I am NOT interested in polyamory for myself.... I just had picked the name Pollyanna because I'm a really positive thinking person, and I guess Pollyanna was taken, so the site suggested Pollyasaurus, and now I can't change the name unless I start a whole new profile or pay every month, so I'm going to just keep it, and you guys will just have to get over yourselves...when I made this profile, I had not been in the dating pool for many years and it did not even occur to me the connection with the name Pollyanna.....oops
What I’m doing with my life
getting back to my own creative life after being in a LTR for many years where I focused a lot of my time and energy on making a home, garden, flipping property, building a future with my spouse and more back into my art life and career and meeting new people as well as spending time with long term friends, family, and community. Never tried dating this way, but seems to be the way to meet more new people...........
I’m really good at
noticing all the details, making stuff, gardening, cooking, painting, doing creative things, telling the truth to a fault
The first things people usually notice about me
I seem to get attention for being pretty, my bubbly personality, that I'm smart; depends on the person......most people assume I'm younger than I am based on my looks and energy level. My spouse was younger than me, not necessarily uncommon for me since I'm energetic and youthful and it fits.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
you could take up the whole page here if you really answered this in detail....I listen to audio books a lot. Right now I'm listening to Dave Eggars, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. One of my favorite authors is Kate Braverman, I love Everything Is Illuminated, Housekeeping (the book AND the movie), She's Come Undone, The Lovely Bones, A Dangerous Woman, White Oleander, Running With Scissors, David Sedaris, A Simple plan, Spaulding Gray (bummed that he is gone, he was a genius), I love movies although haven't watched too many this last year; I like Independent films a lot. Two of my favorite films were An Angel At My Table and Housekeeping, guess that's because I'm a closet writer at heart. Not really into musicals unless it includes doing the time warp, or The Wall, stuff like that. I like all different kinds of music, love vocalists, to dance, especially if it's some funk or blues. I like lots of different kinds of food, and can make a lot of it, too. I like to grow a lot of my own fruit and vegetables. Produce that fresh tastes so much better than anything you can buy. I'm a bit of a health nut, and a foodie at times. I make everything from scratch usually.
The six things I could never do without
only six? but I like so many daughter and ze munchkins, all the things i love to do, make,, beauty, everywhere, people and their life stories, all the beautiful juicy colors, cats, plants growing, warm sun, warm water, music, books, community, dancing with total abandon, wanton sensuality, visibility for 100 feet so I can watch the cuttle fish change colors....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what I'm making next, what I want to achieve...........I am always making lists and then doing the steps it takes to accomplish what I want for myself. I like that about myself, that I know how to do what I imagine for myself, to manifest what I want. I like networking with others and like other Creatives which is probably why I have known so many amazing and talented people in my life. I also think a lot about friends, family, the people and community I care about; how to keep a balance in all the areas of my life....
One thing I'm noticing on here; what's with all the guys over 50 growing hair on their faces?? eeuuww, feels like sandpaper; I'm an extremely tactile person and textures that feel good make me happy. My mother used to starch the hell out of all those pretty little dresses and it made me a very unhappy little camper.
This site pegs me as "more organized" wtf? I noticed it labeled one guy as "more selfish", ouch
On a typical Friday night I am
usually hanging out with friends.......maybe looking at Art
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you're smart, funny, kind, aware, empathetic...dunno. I like youthful, positive, people. Have a tendency to like skinny boys. I was born in the year of the Monkey and get along really well with Dragons, Rats and other Monkeys. Definitely like wordy brainiacs, but I like kind and compassionate as well.