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42 Alexandria, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Feb 24
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Has a kid
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I am always interested in chatting with interesting people, especially people who are open-minded and/or in an alternative lifestyle. I am polyamorous. if you know what that means without looking it up, we will probably get along.

I also chat on yahoo and gchat, so let me know your ID there if you want to chat.

Other than being poly, I am a very normal guy who likes many of the typical things that other people like -- movies, shooting pool, going out to eat, meeting new people, and just going out and having fun and trying new things.

I was very accurately described once as "sweet but naughty." Other words that describe me would be open-minded, passionate, intelligent, sensual, fun, laid-back, and creative.

I am also a HUGE animal lover -- I have 2 dogs now. I often think of my next career move having something to do with animals. I have a few ideas, but I haven't made that move yet.

Other things I like are road trips and being outdoors especially hiking and viewing nature.
What I’m doing with my life
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My relationships and friendships are very central in my life, but of course I have to pay bills too, so I have a great job in Washington DC, working with a nonprofit org.
I’m really good at
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listening - I love to chat online or in person and hearing about other people's lives and what makes them tick.

I wish I had a dollar every time someone told me that I have a calming effect on them. I guess I am the ultimate Type B personality.

I am also a people-watcher. I am also good at writing, driving, giving massage, helping people in whatever way I can, cooking and travelling. I own 2 timeshares and enjoy travelling all over for work and for fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say my eyes -- blue if you can't tell from my photos, or my butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In most things, I believe variety is the spice of life. Thus, I enjoy an extraordinary wide range of things. I am likely to go to a hard rock concert one night, and the theatre the next.

I love comtemporary American fiction (John Irving is a favorite author and Prayer for Owen Meany his best book). I saw him in DC a few months ago on his new book tour. Now, I like him even more!! Check out his books, if you haven't already!!

I also love history, current affairs, and historical fiction. I am currently feeling the need for some new good authors or genres to read, so if you have any suggestions, please feel free to let me know.

Dramas, thrillers, and suspense are my favorite movies. I haven't seen anything recently. This time of year is horrible for movies. Has anything even close to decent come out recently??

I like all music, except country. Some of my favorites include The Doors, U2, smashing pumpkins, and anything hard alternative like Rise Against and Linkin Park.

I like all types of food too, but my favorites are italian and anything spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Special friends
My dogs
The Internet
My cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wow. What a question. What am I not thinking about? My brain is usually going 1000 miles an hour.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am probably out on a date. Maybe with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Apparently I am the only person on the planet who doesn't love Cards Against Humanity.
You should message me if
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you are open-minded, curious about polyamory or other alt lifestyles, or just want to talk to a nice guy.