I am currently only interested in non-monogamous relationships. I'm honest, know how to communicate and have a solid idea of who I am, although it is sometimes a moving target. I practice self reflection even though I may never master it. I am looking for similar qualities in you.

Every day is better than the last. My life is amazing and full. I've never been happier or more content with who I am and where I am in my life.

I work full time. I have a great family and extended family. I workout almost every day and love most sports. I like going to events out of my home as much as staying in and relaxing sometimes. I can be a bit reclusive so work on that sometimes.

I will be starting my graduate studies this summer. I would choose to be a lifetime student if money were no issue. With the Internet at my fingertips wherever I go, the research ideas and possibilities are infinite.

Understanding the complexities of life or maybe even understanding that I'll never understand. I've known many people from all walks of life, served in the military, on prison ministry, and experienced much personally so, this helps me to be very empathetic with others. I just about always can find positive qualities in each person I meet.

People usually notice my smile quickly. I'm happy most of the time and it shows!

Currently reading Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy because I'm 42. I am all over the place with what I like to read. I read everything from biographies, classics to contemporary fiction. I recently read Steve Jobs and now am working on Team of Rivals (Lincoln story). I typically have 2-3 books going at once. I like reading technical books out of curiousity as well as to become better at my craft.
Comedies are my favorite movie although I like other genres too. Movies that are top of my list: The Monty Python movies, The old Sellers' Pink Panthers, Fish Called Wanda, Lord of the Rings, Rango, Shrek, Tombstone and more that I'm sure I can't recall at the moment.

I very rarely watch t.v. so can't really add much in that department. I am a sucker for the horrible True Blood seres and also Dexter. I will occasionally watch recorded Steve Harvey shows, but that's about it. My spare time at night is for me, people and books usually.

I love great Mexican food with friends! There is something about the infinite combinations of foods and flavors that keeps me coming back often. I like sushi (on the East or West coast) and pizza (preferably from nyc) also.

Music... that's a tough one. I listen to different music for different moods. Hip hop when I work out, Country when I am driving or working, Classical when working, thinking, happy, stressed, at the Symphony or anytime. I used to do more metal and hard rock but just haven't been as plugged into that lately.

My loved ones, of course. Books, pizza, being active, fresh air.

People and the dynamics of interpersonal relationships. I think about spiritual beliefs and what makes them work for people. I think about how stuff works.

I'm fascinated by social issues and try to think of ways I can use my strengths to help fix them.

In the hot tub or out for Mexican food.

You are interested in me, believe in polyamory and think we might have some common interests. You must have at least one picture of yourself uploaded.