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Polylover21

22 M Alvin, TX

My Details

Last Online
May 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Transportation
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I grew up in Alvin, TX, pretty much lived here my entire life, except for a brief spell of active duty (1 year, medically discharged) and even then, the farthest out I got was Fort Sill, OK. I ultimately wound up getting stationed in Fort Bliss, near El Paso, TX, so all of my efforts to leave home and go see the world pretty much ended with that.

I grew up with a relatively stable home life, not too much in the way of drug/alcohol abuse by my family, even though we didn't always have the "latest and greatest." So, I'm not a stranger to doing without, but I don't exactly prefer it that way either.

I met my wonderful wife when we were in 1st grade, where we became best friends instantly. In 3rd grade, she moved to Mississippi, just after she told me she loved me. In my third grade mind, I didn't fully grasp what she meant until she was already gone. We reunited in 6th grade as friends, and began dating in high school our freshman year. We had our share of troubles, a few off and on breakups, but ultimately, we made it through alright, and married while I was serving. When I left the military, we struggled to make ends meet while living under the almost unbearable tyranny of her father and step-mother, who criticized and cut us down at every turn. After a year of that mess, we moved to her mother and soon to be step-father's house, where we finally managed to gain some ground in the way of finances and marital stability, and eventually moved out on our own, and have been living in our apartment for almost a year. A month into our lease, I met a co-worker who was my platonic soul mate, and we hit it off instantly. Soon, it came to light that he was having issues at home, and was going to be out on his own. We offered to take him in, and he had been living with us until recently in October, when he finally got back on his feet and obtained his own apartment by way of divine providence.

I am polyamorous, hence the username, look it up, not looking strictly for sex (i.e. one night stand or casual on the side) but would love to get to know beautiful (inside and/or out), intelligent, funny, happy, spontaneous, balanced women as friends or better in the long term if it gets that far. My wife and I are both heterosexual, and seek heterosexual, or bisexual potential partners to welcome into our lifestyle.

As to my answered questions, just because we don't have a high match or friend percentage, it doesn't mean we aren't compatible. I explain A LOT of my answers, because I feel as if I can't really say one way or the other because a lot of the questions aren't black and white. So, before you just go and say "Oh, we don't match," go check out WHY I answered the way I did. You might be surprised/amused/in agreement with my explanation.
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a school bus driver. I used to hate kids, but after having a job at my local YMCA, it turned out that kids loved me, so I figured driving a bus for better pay couldn't be any worse than babysitting after school for next to nothing. I make decent money in comparison to my monthly bills, I'm happy where I'm at, and plan to stay here for a while. In the long run, I want to finish the book series I've been developing/brainstorming/writing since I was in 6th grade. Also, I have a passion for ending human trafficking, and plan to step onto the playing field some time in the near future.

*UPDATE*
Recently resigned, looking for work, going to be out of town for the next week helping my relatives do some work on my uncle's ranch.
I’m really good at
Video games, swimming, running, climbing, laser tag, writing, singing, acting, spouting off random/relevant movie and television quotes, being empathetic, loving people unconditionally, giving massages
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very straightforward, sometimes rather awkwardly. I hate having secrets, but I understand it when other people want theirs kept. I teeter back and forth between introvert and extrovert at will, it just depends on my mood/situation
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh man. Here goes a laundry list. In order of the question, we'll start with books and make our way down.
Books: Harry Potter Series; Pendragon series; Cage of Eden (manga series)

Movies: The Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Star Wars sextilogy, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (the first two live action films in the 90's), Rush Hour trilogy, The Matrix trilogy, the newest Batman trilogy; almost EVERY Marvel and some DC movies,

Shows: Avatar The Last Airbender series and Avatar The Legend of Korra series, Highschool of the Dead, Sekirei; High School DxD, Fringe, Castle, The Walking Dead, SpongeBob Squarepants, Danny Phantom, Rocket Power, As Told by Ginger, Heroes, Digimon

Music: Breaking Benjamin, Skillet, Disturbed, Red, 30 Seconds to Mars, Linkin Park, Sick Puppies, Disciple, Project 86,

Food: Spaghetti, Lemon Herb Chicken, Chicken and Dumplings, Steak, Brisket, Chicken Terriyaki, RAMEN NOODLES AND RAVIOLI!!! Lol. Yeah, pretty much anything that doesn't cause me to gag at the thought (i.e. fish eggs, slugs, etc.)

Games: Dominos, Checkers, Chess, Life, Monopoly, Buzz Word, Uno, Battleship, Monster Hunter Tri Ultimate, Tomb Raider, Devil May Cry, Vindictus, StarCraft and StarCraft II, Raiderz, Super Mario World, Metroid, Mega Man X, Donkey Kong Country, Dragon's Dogma, Resident Evil 4, 5, and 6, Dead Island, The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim,

Umm......I'll come back to this and update as I think of things. Although I suppose I could just go with general genres and categories.....eh.
The six things I could never do without
Truth be told, I could survive without a lot of things. There are a couple though, that I'd rather be dead without, and that's my wife and my closest friends and family.

Superficially, I guess I can come up with six things that I would be sad without.

1. Video games. Nothing says "entertainment" quite like a really good video game with a plotline that looks more like a spider web, a musical score that sounds like the greatest composers of past and present made a baby together, graphics that leave me confused as to if I'm playing a game or watching a live action/cg animated film, and gameplay mechanics that would make a casual gamers head spin.
2. Perfect weather. You know, that every once in a while day that happens where it's around 69 F outside, with around 10-20% humidity, clear skies, a cool, constant breeze, and a warm sun? Yeah...if those suddenly disappeared...life would be a whole lot less satisfying.
3. Good stories. No, not cheesy, cookie cutter style TV dramas, I'm talking about an epic tale in DVD or Blu-ray format, hell, I'll even dive into a 1000 page book or more if it's just THAT good. All too often these days I find that a lot of movies lack originality and deep characters

I'll come back to this when I think of some other things. too tired right now...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What tomorrow will bring
My book series
In the event of a zombie apocalypse, what I would do
On a typical Friday night I am
Chilling at home or having a blast with friends, usually getting totally hammered at my place. But I'm up for anything if you've got a suggestion of something else to do with my Friday. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am polyamorous, but if my family ever found out, they'd totally disown me. And while I'm not really concerned about my parents accepting me, my sister already does, but she still lives with them, and she and I are very close, so if my parents ever found out, they would never let her come around me ever again.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are bored and need someone to talk, but especially if you want to become friends, possibly date and see what chemistry we might have, and if that all pans out, spend forever together as a polyamorous family