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PonderOnThat

34 F Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:48am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I have no freaking idea what to say that will be interesting enough to read! I am the coolest chick you will ever meet, but my profile will not show that. I figure since men are so visual, someone would love my painting!! Yep, I painted it myself while sipping merlot…LOL.

I love to watch sports, listen to Michael Jackson, and talk about pop culture. I am very eclectic with my interests. If you wanna know more, just ask.

*SN: I can see when you look at my profile, so drop me a line if you visit*

My type of guy: Overall I like intelligent, funny, ambitious guys who likes to stay in shape. I like men who are well-groomed (clean-cut, clean nails, nice teeth, etc) and 5'9 and up, but I appreciate when men ignore that and message me anyway. Confidence goes a long way regardless of preference.

Oh and I am very nocturnal. I've been this way my entire life...so if you are usually up late, hit me up!
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing healthy behaviors like working out (joined a kickball league…kinda excited!), getting more sleep, and a writing schedule. I am a full-time student and do a little teaching.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at talking...but as Ive gotten older, Im a good listener too. :) I am also great at networking and connecting people to opportunities. I am decent at reading people (like knowing an asshole when I see one) and not a bad cook. Oh and I can juggle pretty well and murder you at spades! LOL
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Help, Outliers, The Conversation, Afterburn, A WHOLE NEW MIND by Daniel Pink, currently reading for my dissertation

Movies: Godfather I,II,III; Django Unchained; Love Jones, The Notebook, Scarface *1984, The Long Kiss Goodnight, The Departed, Mahogany, Inception, The Help, Bridesmaids, Wolf of Wall Street, My Girl

Shows: Greys Anatomy, House of Lie, Golden Girls (yep, I watch every night), Criminal Minds, CSI: NY, House, The Good Wife, GAME OF THRONES, The Newsroom, Suits, Single Ladies, Haves and the Have Nots, and I wouldn't be a woman if I didn't say SCANDAL ;)

Sports: Football (Cowboys/Chiefs), Basketball (Bulls/Lakers), Tennis, Golf (want to learn), Olympics (USA…all day!)

Food: American, Chinese, Thai, homemade, Mexican, etc. I dont like African food. Indian is ok.

Music: I <3 Michael Jackson, Maroon 5, Eminem is the GOAT, Beyonce, anything Motown, 311, Luda, GNR, Aerosmith, I <3 QUEEEN!!, Journey, anything Gospel, Poison....plenty more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Faith
2. TV
3. Phone
4. Education
5. Love
6. Honesty

People are not THINGS so thats why family is not listed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My niece and nephews, students, my dissertation research, and what life would be like if Freddy Mercury were still alive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am watching TV or traveling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im a pretty open book, but I believe in leaving something to the imagination.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You wanna hang out or have a question.