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45 M Arvada, CO

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
I created a life in Colorado by choice, because - simply - it kicks ass here. After moving here in 1994 from New England I can't imagine ever going back, although I do love to visit (they have lakes and all). The Front Range just feels like home now.

Happy to tell you my story over a coffee or cocktail. I have nothing to hide and believe in open, honest communication as the foundation for healthy relationships. So - FYI, I am not available for exclusive monogamous relationships; however, I am completely open for going out for food or drinks, talking, laughing and flirting! Happy hour anyone? Just friends is just fine if that's what works... I'm looking for activity partners and MAYBE playfriends if the chemistry is right!
What I’m doing with my life
Lately: PT on my lower back, road biking novice, hiking, swimming, live music, cocktails, pubs, backyard BBQ, Netflix series' and the occaissonal book.

Less lately: trail running, martial arts, backpacking, camping, music festivals, motorcycle touring, boating, wakeboarding, water skiing, mountain biking, rock climbing.

Work: technical management consultant around corporate environmental and sustainability functions - this involves a lot of travel, which I also enjoy; especially if it's international.

I have also worked as a bartender on and off over the years - most notably at the Scarlet Ranch when it was downtown.
I’m really good at
Making out - seriously! I've got real skills here. I am also a relentless optimist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll save you the long essay and just say that the whole zombie / vampire thing is totally lost on me, however Anne Rice did produce some fascinating reading under a surname....

I also love to cook and go to foodie restaurants, have a huge inventory of favorite movies and bands, and like to go see live music when I can. Summer nights at Red Rocks are one of the greatest benefits of living here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Engaged non-attachment and mindfulness
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a Casa Bonita diver in 1994 - with video to prove it! Absolutely the best $7.50 an hour I ever made. Pretty much learned to rock climb in there.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 32–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You got this far and may still be interested... and you like wine. Must like red wine. Check out the Q&A for more deets.