Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're a god, I'm ready to write this millenium bible.
I understand you girls get loads of messages here, more than you
can handle. You receiving messages shouldn't feel like you're
trying to swim against some needy slimy tide. I don't want to
belong to this "ohyou'resogreatcozyougotboobs" party. I feel like
you writing the first messages to someone means you choosed it out
So I don't write first, most of the time.
That being said :
More than 80 % match or friendship mean something.
Some geek interests, too.
Some polyamorous drive would fit, for anything more than short term
And if you feel like it, who am I to judge anyway.