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38 M Paris, France

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:29pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
English (Okay), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a grown boy, now.

(Je parle pas spécialement bien l'anglais, parfois à lire ça sera peut-être même un peu pénible, mais ça me gratouille esthétiquement de répondre en français à des questions posées dans une autre langue (non je suis pas chiant)
pis si ça se trouve mes plus belles rencontres peuvent être avec des anglophones. Just eat your babelfish or go straight to sleep.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Librarian whenever I can. And some years, nothing. That could be some great way of life, without the money question.

I'm a dad. Sort of part-time (yeah, doesn't sound nice, right ? however it's just fine, according to the strangely look-like-me little girl keeping me in this whole daddy situation).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting away with it all messed up.
Seeming confident when actually being self-conscious.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Green skin and some anger-management challenge.

At first, it may seem like I don't really want to be there.
And then, you can't stop me talking and asking about you..

I can't dance.
Don't laugh a lot.
Ask private questions too easily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
somewhat longer than the other parts of the profile....
It's not about my tastes to be good - GOOD taste was invented by snobbish people to make you feel guilty about having a GOOD time - it's about our tastes to be shared.

Movies :
- weird / cult / midnight movies :
Brazil , Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Meurtres dans un jardin anglais, Tarantineries, Gondry Dupontel, Lost Highway David Lynch, Repo Man The Naked Man, Guy Maddin, Tsui Hark, Alex De la Iglesia, Monty Python's, Darren Aronofsky, The Rocky Horror..., Old Boy, Donnie Darko, Cronenberg, Gregg Araki, Nicolas Winding Refn, Fight Club, Scott Pilgrim Vs The world...
- Sci-Fi, horror and not too cheap action/thrillers, Ghost'n'zombies and gunfight flicks
- Comedies (Woody Allen, Judd Appatow, Ben Stiller...)
- And yes, some classic and highbrow stuff (without heroes, vilains nor victories), if the director seems good (Sodhenberg, Michael Mann, Coen Brothers, Malick, Wes Anderson, Scorcese, Coppola, Stephen Frears Brian De Palma, Stanley Kubrick, Neil Jordan ...), or Shortbus, Even Cow-Girls get the blues, ...

Books : Palanhiuk, Douglas Coupland, Loup des steppes, Outsider (C. Wilson), Vincent Ravalec, Ayerdhal, Olivier Maulin, Les Ritals, Tim Powers, Jaenada, King-Kong Théorie, Thomas Pynchon, Matt Ruff, La Conspiration des Ténèbres (Flicker), comics, B.E Ellis, Nietzsche, SciFi / fantastic, Vaquette, La Zone du Dehors Martin Eden, Neil Gaiman, Guy Debord, Raoul Vaneigem, Hakim Bey, Illuminatus! trilogy (Robert A. Wilson), Principia Discordia, Unknown Armies The Dice Man, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

TV : Twin peaks , Six feet under , Lost , Lost Room , Sarah Connors ? , Doctor Who , Weeds , Dexter , Secret State , Sherlock , Battlestar Galactica , monty python's flying circus , Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Carnivale , The Big Bang Theory, Black Books .

Music : Pulp, Leonard Cohen, Death in Vegas, Massive Attack, Pink Floyd, James, Noir Désir, Didier Super, Les Fatals Picards, Miossec, Ferré, Brel, Brassens, Angelo Badalamenti, Eels, Grandaddy, Springsteen...

Food : anything from grand chef cooking to doublecheese burgers. Including vegetables !!!
I'm considering to eat little children, they say the flesh is tender.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books. Comfy bed. Free time. Food. Cuddles. SciFi.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
doing the things I can't manage to do, sometimes how to avoid doing them and getting away with it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
somewhere cosy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A joke.
(okay. Humour Quality Police is now knocking at my door and aksing me to get out of here)

I admit too many things about myself if asked.
Without being asked, too.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're a god, I'm ready to write this millenium bible.

Disclaimer :
I understand you girls get loads of messages here, more than you can handle. You receiving messages shouldn't feel like you're trying to swim against some needy slimy tide. I don't want to belong to this "ohyou'resogreatcozyougotboobs" party. I feel like you writing the first messages to someone means you choosed it out of pressure.
So I don't write first, most of the time.

That being said :
More than 80 % match or friendship mean something.
Some geek interests, too.
Some polyamorous drive would fit, for anything more than short term or friendship.

And if you feel like it, who am I to judge anyway.