I am affable, introspective, and whimsical.
My Self-Summary
I run with the moose. I can type faster than any animal in the
forest. I sit in front of a computer for 12+ hours a day, but I
usually have dirt under my fingernails. (I do a lot of
gardening and I rescue
native
plants from construction sites.)
I'm in love with life and trying to live it to the fullest. I enjoy
connecting with self-aware, open-minded people. I love analyzing
life, relationships, and interactions. If you enjoy long, deep
conversations, I would like to meet you.
I value
creativity,
humor,
honesty,
beauty, and
joy. I love animals and
plants, and I feel a strong
connection with
nature.
I live in Bellevue with
divadespina, my wife and best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Meaningful, rich connection is far too rare in our society. I've
always felt that lack, and I'm doing what I can to change it, but
I'll probably need help from some of you.
I'm striving to make my life a continual process of learning and
personal growth. I have an enormous list of things I want to learn
and understand. I'll never get through the list, but I'm giving it
my best shot.
I'm also trying to keep my inner child alive. Half the time I think
I'm too silly and frivolous, and half the time I wish I were more
silly and frivolous.
I’m really good at
Rock, Paper, Scissors. I recently won $3 in prize money for taking
first place at a local RPS tournament! I enjoy RPS (or "The Dance
of Hands") for many reasons: It combines dexterity, subtlety and
quickness of wit, and sheer force of will. Truly the game of kings.
The first things people usually notice about me
If they met me through OkCupid, they notice that I'm not huge.
Apparently my photo makes me look like I'm 6'2", when in reality
I'm of average height. I do have a robotic arm though.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Authors: Gene Wolfe, Vernor Vinge, H.P. Lovecraft, Robert Charles
Wilson, Roger Zelazny, Dan Simmons, Robert Heinlein, Philip
Pullman, Chaim Potok.
Movies: Adaptation, Aguirre: The Wrath of God, Children of Men, No
Country for Old Men, Being John Malkovich, Donnie Darko, Dr.
Strangelove, Ed Wood, Duck Soup, Princess Mononoke, The Wicker Man
(1973), Vertigo.
Music: Blonde Redhead, The Arcade Fire, Built to Spill, Deerhoof,
The Flaming Lips, Fugazi, The Futureheads, Neutral Milk Hotel, The
New Pornographers, The Postal Service, The Shins, Sufjan Stevens,
White Stripes. NEW: The Thermals!!
Classical: Bach's Cantatas, Beethoven's symphonies, Mozart's
operas, Schubert's lieder, Haydn's string quartets. Wagner, Verdi,
Brahms ... and many more.
The six things I could never do without
Mahonia nervosa, Vaccinium ovatum, Polystichum munitum, Oemleria
cerasiformis, Arbutus menziesii, Thuja plicata.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What constitutes wisdom? How can I attain it?
What is the nature of consciousness? How much free will do we
really have? Aren't we just a series of chemical reactions?
Which of my deeply-ingrained assumptions and beliefs are mere
cultural baggage that I would rather shed?
What makes great music great?
Other areas of interest include:
Classical music,
biology,
psychology,
anthropology,
archaeology,
film,
science fiction,
history,
art,
computers,
programming,
politics,
relationships,
polyamory and the
poly lifestyle, and
many more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something I really love.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I don't think I like eggplant. I've always wanted to like it
because I love the color and shape of a nice eggplant. I finally
got to try it, and I found it was mostly flavorless. That gorgeous
color promises so much... I still get a surge of joy whenever I see
one, even if I don't want to put it in my mouth.
You should message me if
You enjoy analyzing and discussing life, film, literature, or
classical music. Or if you're interested in gardening, landscaping,
or Northwest native plants. Or if you want to for any other
reason!
** NEW: Especially if you want to go hiking on weeknights Bellevue,
possibly on a regular basis.