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30 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
English, Other

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My self-summary
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In an open relationship.

I figured that was the best opening line I could start with, after all I am not here to waste your time and vice versa. If you are not okay with that it is cool you got the vast reaches of the interwebs and I am sure the right person is out there somewhere just waiting for your message. Best of luck to you.

Still here? Remotely curious? Okay well step two, I live with my girlfriend of over 5 years Alyssa. She is pictured above. We are NOT a couple looking for a third. We got that, if you are interested in that you are welcome to contact Alyssa and see if she is interested but I am good.

Still still here? Well how about I tell you a little bit about myself. To start I am a pretty positive person. I have absolutely no reason not to be. I have an amazing career in the video game industry, and have the most incredible co-workers. "Does this mean you are a nerd who plays video games, reads comics, watched anime, and throws down D&D?" Sometimes yes, I am also extremely active, completed the Tough Mudder last year, and continue to push myself with martial arts, and fitness training.

I am very outgoing, and love adventure. You want to hear about the great Lego egg drop of 2011, or how I shattered my knee jumping off a waterfall, or that one time I threw a cross-dressing themed party. I think you get it, adventure comes a calling and I go. I am a leaf in the wind watch me... on second thought I won't finish that.

So if my life is so good what am I doing here? Well honestly I have inspiring people in my life both romantically and socially. I would like to find a nerdy romantic partner who is into video games and I can sit down have a drink with and throw down.

"So you are looking for a woman who plays video games, and is okay with open relationships?"

Yes I guess that is exactly what I am looking for.

"Don't you think that is a bit of a niche field?"

Perhaps, but hey it is the internet anything can happen.
What I’m doing with my life
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As we begin into the new year this is a good time to reflect on the last one. I spent a good amount of time focusing on my career, and relationships with friends. This said other things have slipped through the cracks more than I would like. After I completed the Tough Mudder I became so job oriented that personal fitness started to slip a bit. So now I am back to hitting the gym very hard, bought a bike to go gallivanting across the city being part of the problem versus the solution.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wing Chun, boxing, and Shotokan have all been practices that are near and dear to my heart. I can also wreck you in any Street Fighter game. Though the thing I am really good at and proud of is making sure there is never a boring night out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I imagine my fairly long, currently shaggy hair, I grow it out every couple of years and donate it to Locks of Love. Cancer has been a big part of my life so I do what I can to help.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of non-fiction books, I really enjoy learning new things. Just about all my fiction comes from graphic novels and comic books. Some personal favorites are; Sandman, Y: The Last Man, Just about anything X-Men, Chew, Sweet Tooth, The Goon, most Batman stories.

TV Shows:
I watch a lot more TV than I do movies, it is hard for me to sit down and watch something for two hours, so TV usually has me covered there. Some favorites include; Buffy, Firefly, Arrested Development, Venture Brothers, Cowboy Bebop, Avatar the Last Airbender, The Legend of Korra, Sherlock, Any of the Bruce Timm superhero stuff, Shameless, Californication, Archer, It’s Always Sunny, The League, Metalocylpse, Regular Show, IT Crowd, most Miyazaki films, and various others.

I like to think I have a broad taste in music, but I can’t say I really enjoy a lot of hip hop, country, or dubstep. I find myself listening to a lot of stuff that people have classified into the “gothic industrial” scene. Music like Ladytron, Neurotic Fish, Depeche Mode, Zeromancer, She Wants Revenge, and E Nomine. However I still really enjoy a lot of other stuff too, I find myself really being drawn to strong female vocalist. Right now I have been listening to a lot of Metric, and Shiny Toy Guns for example.

Who doesn’t love food? I love to cook, and when I have the time bake. The only thing I have hard time with is seafood. I don’t mind going out for sushi on occasion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I backpacked through Europe and it taught me that I don't need quite as much as I thought I did. My items owned me, they owned me good.

1. Friends.
2. Food and Water
3. Company
4. Sugar, I am a sugar addict.
5. A good idea
6. My sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The same thing we do every night Pinky…
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have adventures, I have misadventures, really awesome misadventures. Sometimes it is getting on a bus full of zombies, sometimes it is dressing up as a superhero and going drinking, or hosting a Lego egg drop competition. I guess what I am saying is no Friday is like any other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A fictional character based off my likeness and name is featured heavily in an erotic fiction novel series.

I am very attracted to androgynous women. (Edit) I am very attracted to strong women, not in physical sense, but breaking gender stereotypes.
You should message me if
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You don't take life to seriously and don't mind that I am in an open relationship and dating other people at the moment.