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25 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:37pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a penchant for personal growth. I enjoy working out and it helps clear my mind at the end of the day. I like to do a few competitions each year and I take part in the annual RIT Strongman contest, although more as a helper/coach than a competitor lately.

I'm an enthusiast for tattoos and video games as well. I'm usually adding more hours to my back piece once a month adding. I've got my right arm sleeved and my entire back covered, with a smattering of others on various body parts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a database administrator and enjoy a lot of the technical nuts and bolts of how stuff works. Nothing beats diving into a problem head on to really figure it out and get it fixed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing Sudoku.
Growing a magnificent beard.
Belting out death metal growls.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to have this section as how blue my eyes are. Hell, a random homeless man in Toronto told a line of concert-goers how beautiful they are (his words, not mine).

As I've gotten older and acquired more tattoos, I've heard "you look like a UFC fighter" more and more. I think I have the male equivalent of resting bitch face which people find really intimidating.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really enjoy watching movies and my favorite all-time ones would be Out Cold, Gladiator and How to Train Your Dragon. I'll pretty much watch anything though.

I can shamelessly recite lines from Scrubs, The Office and Futurama. Other key players in this theater are The Big Bang Theory, Parks and Recreation and Game of Thrones.

I'm a metal junkie with some of my favorites being Behemoth, Soreption, Meshuggah, Textures, Gojira, Decapitated and Opeth. Although lately I've enjoyed the random songs played at the gym.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Music
- Magic: the Gathering (my guilty pleasure)
- Weightlifting
- Norse mythology
- Tattoos
- Football
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
As cliche as it sounds, the future. I'm curious to where my life will be in five years. Will I be working a new job? Will I still be as interested in weightlifting as I am now? Will I still be living in Rochester?

Living in the moment is not quite my strong suit. I'm certainly working on it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Any day of the week is usually up in the air for me, Fridays included. I could be home watching TV or with friends at someone's place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear slippers at work. Comfort level: max.
You should message me if
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You enjoy Star Wars or LOTR movie marathons.
You want to spend your weekends building legos and playing video games.
You have a heavy interest in tattoos or fitness.
You think we'd get along.