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33 / M / Straight / Single

Mountain View, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:37pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
To begin with, I’m fairly extroverted, meaning that I’m very conscious of others' feelings, and I love to feed off of the energy of interesting and enthusiastic people. I engage intensely in good conversation and try my best to get everyone present involved too. That said, I can appreciate when it’s time to be quiet, to sit back and listen, and to be reflective just as much as when it’s time to cut loose and thoroughly embarrass myself.

Machismo is definitely not my thing. I don't get myself into physical altercations and I never treat women like they are some sort of prey. I take pride in being courteous, non-confrontational, and secure enough in my masculinity that I don't have to compensate with aggression.

I feel at home in big cities and the outdoors alike. I guess if I had to choose between the two, nature wins. Roughing it in the wild or diving head first into some sort of daunting outdoorsy activity sounds awesome to me. I really appreciate being around people who share that itch to step outside of their comfort zone as well.

I stay very active. I absolutely love to run (trails and long distances preferably). There is something intensely meditative about cutting down the trail like a little kid, dancing between the trees, lungs burning, and all you can think about is where your next stride is going to land. Bliss.

My main interests right now lie in the life sciences. Biology, physiology, cognitive science, and psychology all really fascinate the hell out of me. I'm working on a B.S. in neuroscience which I feel does a beautiful job of tying together my competing interests in these fields. Bridging the gap between science and humanities is a concept that I'd really like to implement into my future career in medicine and medical research. Why is this guy pursuing such a long and arduous academic path in his 30s you might ask? Well, I'm doing it because I know that I have it in me to be a great physician, and I want to contribute to my fullest potential. Also, quite simply, I geek-out over the subject material, I love it so much.

Random things that I like: Taking my time, being waved into your lane, waving back “thank you” when I wave you into mine, catching people singing or dancing in their car, being caught singing or dancing in mine, when artistry meets functionality, folding warm laundry on a cold day, the wobbly feeling in my knees when I'm near a high ledge, unsuspected affection, subtle flirtation, the facial expression when someone has an “ah-hah” moment, being out of breath, catching my breath, getting back work with encouraging notes instead of just a grade, coconut rice and fish after a day at the beach, Hatch chili stew and bread after a day on the slopes, staying later that I anticipated because the company is just so good.

Random things I could do without: being in a hurry, being tailgated in traffic, disliking popular things to become more popular, lewd women who treat me like a piece of meat, people who take advantage of my work ethic, pop-country music (i.e. “she thinks my tractor’s sexy” type songs), excessively auto-tuned vocals, bumps in my socks, blisters on my feet when all I want to do is go for a run, breaking guitar strings when all I want to do is play music, iceberg lettuce on a hot sandwich, my neighbor’s alarm going off when he is out-of-town, people overusing the word hella.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm originally from San Antonio & Austin, TX. About 3 years ago, I sold almost all of my possessions down to a big duffel bag and a guitar case and moved to San Francisco. It was a purposefully forceful exercise meant to complement a new stage in my life - that being an academic one. I lived, worked, and played in the city for a bit until I obtained my California residency, and then I began my undergraduate studies down in South Bay. I'm here in Mountain View through this summer, and then I'll be transferring down to UCLA finish my B.S. My plan after graduating is to study medicine - either MD, DO, or PA. I'm financially secure and will continue to be so despite being a student; but perhaps we wouldn't be the best match if that sort of thing is a deal-breaker for you?
I’m really good at
Making other people feel comfortable. Listening. Engaging conversation. Improvising. Seeing the big picture. Lucid dreaming. Being witty. Knowing when and when not to take things seriously. Making delicious ceviche.
The first things people usually notice about me
That’s tough to say. I can’t remember the first time I noticed myself. I'm not going to be that guy who is cocky about his looks, so let's just go with: pass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything by Alan Watts, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, On the Road, wish I had more time for light reading, but lately I am up to my ears in textbooks.

Movies: City of God, Amélie, Waking Life, American Beauty, Grizzly Man, just about any non conspiracy theory documentary

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, No Reservations , The Daily Show

Radio: Radiolab, This American Life, To the Best of Our Knowledge

Music: My tastes are extremely eclectic, but I’m a total sucker for anything live, acoustic, and preferably in an intimate venue. Oh, and Django Reinhardt is god.

Food: I shop mostly vegan for groceries (except special occasions), but I’ll eat anything when I go out. It's a more a healthy lifestyle decision than an animal rights decision. Moderation is best practiced in moderation in my opinion.
The six things I could never do without
Air, water, food, shelter, clothing, fire. I appreciate useful possessions, but simplicity keeps me focused and happy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of it all. Why consciousness emerged from evolution. Why people do the things they do. How I can better myself. How I can help my friends and community. How I can find the right romance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying with a good beer, going for a night run, or out seeking strangeness with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I frequently dance by myself in my apartment - sometimes wearing my superman cape.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
... if you are playful, imaginative, original, compassionate, witty, and intelligent, or if you appreciate the little eccentricities that make people unique, or if you feel compelled to reach out.

*Full disclosure: I'm transferring away to UCLA next fall, so to prevent any unnecessary heartache, I should give a heads-up that I'm not interested in beginning a long-term committed relationship with someone in the bay area right now. Sorry.