"Nature is a language, can't you read?"
Good friends & family is what I'm about. Good people seem to be in short supply these days, but I remain optimistic. I like to think I'm a pretty genuine person and try to surround myself with the same.
To be honest I'm not really quite sure what I'm looking for, on here or anywhere for that matter. I have toured the world playing music for the past decade of my life, meeting amazing people. With that, I would consider myself artistic with a side of horror film nerd-ism. My interests also include the production end of music and film, not to mention contributing something positive to society through volunteer work.
That being said, the people I have close to me I consider family. Always looking for new members. I'm very fortunate to have met all the people I have in my life today and If you meet me on a romantic level or a friendship level, you're sure to meet them and would definitely agree.
So when and if I do come across someone, I'm very careful and selective to whom I share my time with. I think it's very important to build a strong friendship before committing and letting lust confuse the situation. I don't want to spend another 5 or more years with someone just because I thought a girl was hot. After all, looks won't be with us forever. It's how you treat people and conduct yourself is what I'm concerned about. Believe me, I do appreciate a beautiful woman, but it really is what's inside that counts. I don't care for drop dead gorgeous. If I see a red flag, I'm running for the hills. I have no time to waste with any BS. It's just not worth it. Like I alluded to before, I'm not an all or nothing guy trying to force a relationship. It takes time to get to know someone. I don't believe you can just jump into a relationship based on pure attraction, it doesn't make any sense. It hasn't worked for me in the past and I don't see it happening in the future. I could be wrong though, but she'll have to make me do back-flips...Back-flips would be nice.