Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Cultures, flavors, and landscapes have etched lasting memories
while traveling. But now my focus is with good friends, an engaging
career, and a renewed bond to musical harmony. With a coffee mug
and a zeal for a healthy lifestyle, I hope to squeeze even more
meaning and joy from the precious time that we are given. I seek a
special woman to share this wondrous journey.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When not improving business software workflow experience for people
unfortunate enough to have to use it, I spend time with friends,
sing some chords or pedal down the peninsula and back. But I would
also like to find a more meaningful way to impact our society. When
I was a kid, most people had little time or energy for the people
they cared about. I thought if only I could create something to do
the work for them or teach others how to frame problems and needs,
they could enjoy life more. I've jumped back and forth into design
and psychology, but despite these pursuits, friends mostly remember
me for my music (piano improvisation or singing). Hmmm... can I
still be a rock star?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the moment. Explaining things. Bullshit. Puns for every
occasion. Laughing at my mistakes. Genuine compliments. Loyal
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/authors: There are many books I have enjoyed from fantasy to
mystery to romance to history and discovery. Yet no favorites
really come to mind. I have interesting but ultimately dry research
titles like 'Emotional Intelligence' and 'Flourishing' on my shelf.
I'm open to suggestion.
Movies/directors: Galaxy Quest, What Dreams May Come, Sex Lies and
Videotape, Princess Bride, Crouching Tiger..., Spinal Tap, Zorro
the Gay Blade, Airplane, LOTR trilogy, George Clooney films, Clint
Shows: Just say no to TV. A few cable shows have their moments, but
I'd rather watch a film when in front of a screen.
Music: Paul Van Dyk, Armin Van Buuren, Frank, Ella, Billie, U2,
Thompson Twins, Cure, Duran Duran, English Beat, Shins.
Food: Sushi, orange bell peppers, roasted almonds, chocolate,
coffee, carrot juice, pears, ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I thought all we need is love? Maybe a few more things: bicycling,
sunshine, traveling, singing, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people derive meaning...What enables greed and corruption to be
so rampant... What people really need to be comfortable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a dinner or drink with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd rather keep it a mystery... ask me and find out.
You should message me if
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What I write speaks to you. You remain open and affected by life.
You create art or music or write. You enjoy complex emotions. You
seek a deep and meaningful connection. You avoid cluttering your
life with possessions. Your friends and family come first in your
life. You are physically active and healthy.
Who are you looking for?
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