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41 M Seattle, WA

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Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English, Afrikaans, Swahili, Other

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My self-summary
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On here in hope to find someone with an open mind and capable of enjoying some good times.. Communication and honesty are rather essential for me in any relationship I am in.. I love and have done a fair share of traveling, thus it would be wonderful to meet someone with similar interests. I am content with who I am and where I am in my life and would like someone who seeks the same, i.e. share, learn, explore life and most of all enjoy each others company. You should be able and willing to both receive and give affection. :)

I am a polyglot and love languages in general because I believe that communication is almost impossible due to the limitations of language, thus one has to be rounded. I speak ten different languages and value the ability to communicate.

Basically, in search of someone who knows who they are, what they want, can express themselves, and most of all has as open mind to new experiences. In other words, I am looking for someone who is able to express what they want at this point in their life. Do not be alarmed, I am neither in a hurry nor do I have a list of expectations. I care more about the experience than the outcome, thus we would be the ones to determine the progress and boundaries of the situation. On the contrary, I am not opposed to something serious should things lead that way. I am a strong believer that honesty and communication are essential in order to maintain a healthy fulfilling relationship. With that said, if any of this appeals to you, please drop me a note and I'll reciprocate.

PS: Please note that I am not an A-List, so I am not able to see the "Likes", which so far I seem to have several. I unfortunately am unable to see who liked me.. Feel free to write instead..
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying life and taking the time to appreciate the little things in life.. Searching for a like minded woman who also appreciates the little things in life and most of all is also in search of a caring and reliable partner/mate..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Now how fun would that be if I were to just tell you.. How about we find out together?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent and varied experience after they speak to me..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just to mention a few:
1. Machiavelli The Prince..
2. The Case for India
3. Einstein Decoding the Universe
4. The Celestine Prophecy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm, let's see...
1. Life's necessities, i.e. air, food & shelter, e.t.c.
2. My two beautiful kids
3. My Android phone
4. My laptop
5. My Passport
6. My Computer books..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What excites people?
My next international destination..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do not have a typical Friday.. Either out to dinner, a movie, going out of town, or relaxing with a good book or movie...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not yet, you will have to find out once you get to know me..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are curious, open minded...
You know what you want in life or have an idea
You are looking for intimacy and a partnership
You liked what you read and you want to..