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PrefectGuy

43 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:07pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Chinese (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Self summary?

This is the hard part. I have been working on this my entire life. I will get back to it later.

Edit/Update: Apparently I am an "ENTP - The Inventor".

Edit: Yes, "prefect" is intentionally misspelled. It was a play on the fact that I am not perfect.
What I’m doing with my life
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Returning to school to study Political Economic Theory or Law and Social Policy.

Military service has been the closest approximation I have ever had to a career, but the military and I see things very differently. As I have increased in rank and responsibility these differences have become more difficult to bridge.

It is long since time I moved to a different career field. I have been working toward that goal between deployments.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem Solving.
Acquiring and learning new information.
Conveying information and ideas.
Calculated risk taking.
Effecting change where needed. Or at least fighting for it.
Making a cat pur.
Navigating in the wilderness with a map and a compass.

Really bad at parallel parking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently my intensity.
Sometimes my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Grave of the Fireflies, LoTR Series (Return of the King stands out), The Matrix, Inception. I love movies so there are many more but these came to mind first.

Books: Philosopher's Toolkit, Chances Are: Adventures in Probability, Good Omens (Neil Gaiman in general), Game of Thrones series. I work in international affairs so I read a great deal of non fiction and scholarly articles.

TV Shows: Deadwood, Game of Thrones, Firefly, Madmen, Walking Dead, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad, Daily Show, Colbert Report.

Music: Radio: NPR. Music: Lyrics seem to matter most to me. If the song has something to say that is passionate or interesting there is a good chance I will appreciate the song. Some bands that stand out; *Post Modern Jukebox*, Lindsey Stirling, Cake, Living End, Good Riddance, Of Monsters and Men, Social Distortion, Imagine Dragons, Lana Del Ray, Gotye, Birdy. I frequently listen to iTunes University and Audible Lecture courses.

Food: Thai, Mexican, Italian, Chinese, Sushi, Avocados, strawberries, iced coffees, cakes. I will try almost anything and have a fondness for different dishes from all over the world.

I am interested in learning about and collecting art. I like interior design. Love steampunk, art deco, and mid century modern styles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom.
Humor.
The ability to communicate.
Creatures in the world. Especially the fuzzy ones.
I would hate to be in a world where you no longer saw kindness in peoples' eyes or a genuine smile on their lips.
Danger/risk - freedom without the risk of consequences is boring and irresponsible.

I know this is a dating site and I left out anything romantic. I just feel love is not one of those things that you can say you can or cannot live without. It is too transitive. If you try too hard to hold onto it and make it part of your life you wound it. I have been in love for years at a time. Though you never stop having love for someone that you once shared your life with, when they are gone, life remains. It may feel like you did not survive the loss, like it changed you into a different person, but you did survive. You just grew a little and gained more wisdom and insight about yourself and those you shared your life with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Subjects associated with whatever documentary I last watched or paper I last read.

Political economics, particularly with respect to social justice and the effect of economic interests and policies on human rights.

Probability and the law of large numbers. I am particularly fascinated with the aggregate effects of decisions or events on long term results and how it applies to free will and determinism.

Why a zombie apocalypse seems like a much easier and more enjoyable problem to deal with than the problems we have already created for ourselves.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I am not relaxing at home I am going to dinner and a movie with a friend or starting the first few hours of a weekend road trip.

I am into pretty much anything dorky from tech to sci-fi/fantasy to conventions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I look a gummy bear in the eyes I will feel bad if I eat it.

I was arrested by the Army for sedition when I was a young sergeant. The charges were dropped.

Years ago, I used fake documents to get into Turkey so I could catch a plane to Crete to see a girl I loved.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Why not message me?

The time investment is minimal considering the potential payoff. Think of the mounting opportunity cost as you wait to message me.

Seriously, don't be too hasty in dismissing any interest in me. The military recognizes me as a natural leader, however, people follow me more out of curiosity than confidence in any of my plans.

Knowing me is unlikely to be boring.