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45 Nashville, TN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:42am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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3 Tired Profile Statements You Will Not Hear From Me

1. "I have two kids and they mean the world to me."
Frankly I find it a little disturbing when people say in their profiles that their children mean the world to them. Do they live in a world where people don't love their kids dearly? I do not want to go to that world. I want to stay in my world where loving your kids is the default, and if by chance you don't love your kids then that is noteworthy. Bring that up in, say, your first message to me.

2. "I love Jesus."
I do love Jesus but don't think Christians have the corner on Truth. I think all religions are doing their best to understand the Divine in their own way and God reveals himself to people in the way that he thinks they can understand him.

But that is a little heavy for an online dating profile, I guess.

3. "I'm laid back/easy-going."
I speak five languages. I've lived in Germany, France, Japan and China. I have a great job. I did not get here by being laid back. I'm not uptight but I am ... intense. Sometimes. In a charming, smart, sweet way. Really.

It would be so awesome if you would hand me a glass of wine right now.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving Jesus and my children.

Just kidding. Please read my profile. Please.
I’m really good at
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Making Japanese curry. It's my comfort food.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm happy and I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Mark Twain, Little Bee, East of Eden, The Life of Pi, The Enlightened Manual by David Deida.

Movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, Steel Magnolias, Crash, The Life of Pi, Bridesmaids, Up in the Air, Extract, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon.

Music: Amos Lee, The Script, Alicia Keys, Usher, Casting Crowns, Dave Barnes, Taio Cruz, Jars of Clay, MercyMe, The Eagles, One Republic, Chris Rice, Dawes, Awolnation, Atlas Genius, Gabe Dixon, Imagine Dragons, Lord Huron, Iron and Wine, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, The Head and the Heart, Wild Cub, Bon Iver, Cage the Elephant, Ben Howard, Phosphoresence,

Food: Anything but Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My quiet time in the morning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether my profile reflects who I really am. I believe in truth in advertising. I don't want to draw you in only to have us both discover we're not compatible.

I also think a lot about Nutella. Probably more than is normal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grateful for a productive week and excited about the upcoming relaxing weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I bounced a check last year. I was mortified. I went to the bank manager and apologized because that's what Dave Ramsey made his daughter do when she bounced a check. The bank manager looked at me like I was insane. He said it happens all the time and I was lucky I set up overdraft protection. And he gave me a pen.
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you're ready for a real connection with someone who's emotionally healthy.

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