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45 F Nashville, TN

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:06pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm thinking it goes something like this:

We're in our 40s, or so. You call me in the afternoon because you're having a horrible day. I make you laugh in spite of it all. And that evening we tuck the kids in bed early and meet in the living room, where you have already lit candles and I pour each of us a glass of wine. And we sit and talk and cuddle until you forget everything except the fact that you're the luckiest man alive.

We're in our 50s, or so. You and I are standing in the driveway next to the camper we've rented for the month of October. We have packed swimsuits and also parkas. I pull our lucky quarter out of my wallet and you flip it. Tails - California!

We're in our 60s, or so. We're camping with our grandkids and realize that their parents have not taught them the Chubby Bunny Marshmallow Game and - thank God for grandparents - we teach them the game and laugh until we are all crying.

If you think that might be you on the sofa with me, or flipping that coin, or stuffing your mouth with marshmallows ... send me a thoughtful message. Tell me who you are. Tell me what you see us doing in our 70s, or so.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working as hard as I can so I can retire as soon as possible. Fortunately I love my job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
opening jars and bottles. Seriously, I am the one in my family that everyone brings stubborn lids to. And I have a 95% success rate.

That statistic is totally self-measured and self-reported.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm happy and I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything by Mark Twain, Little Bee, East of Eden, The Life of Pi, The Enlightened Manual by David Deida.

Movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, Steel Magnolias, Crash, The Life of Pi, Bridesmaids, Up in the Air, Extract, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon.

Music: John Legend, Amos Lee, The Script, Alicia Keys, Usher, Casting Crowns, Maroon 5, Dave Barnes, Taio Cruz, Jars of Clay, MercyMe, The Eagles, One Republic, Chris Rice, Dawes, Awolnation, Atlas Genius, Gabe Dixon, Imagine Dragons, Lord Huron, Iron and Wine, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, The Head and the Heart, Wild Cub, Bon Iver, Cage the Elephant

Food: Anything but Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My quiet time in the morning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether my profile reflects who I really am. I believe in truth in advertising. I don't want to draw you in only to have us both discover we're not compatible.

I also think a lot about Nutella. Probably more than is normal.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either cuddling with my kids, kickin' it with my girls, or maybe holding hands with you in a candlelit restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bounced a check last year. I was mortified. I went to the bank manager and apologized because that's what Dave Ramsey made his daughter do when she bounced a check. The bank manager looked at me like I was insane. He said it happens all the time and I was lucky I set up overdraft protection. And he gave me a pen.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you know the difference between "your" and "you're". And "their" and "they're". I'm a grammar snob and don't really love that about myself but it's true.
- you're ready for a real connection with someone who's emotionally healthy.