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37 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
It's hard to summarize myself because I'm ever changing. Humor seems to be a through-line. Oh, I 100% don't consider myself a 'boy'. It's a screen name from a long time ago (when I considered myself more of a 'boy') and is a line from a song :)
What I’m doing with my life
I do arts administration. Bookkeeping, management, etc. I'd like to do something more creative in the field, but this is where my brain seems to work best.
I’m really good at
Cooking, talking, arguing and trying to make people laugh (or cry... not in a mean way).

I'm also very good at being self-conscious about accidentally clicking on profiles of people I know and their thinking I'm semi-stalking them.

What I'm very bad at: expanding my profile to 500 words.
The first things people usually notice about me
Good question... I don't know the answer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not a huge movie watcher, but I like a good Rom-Com. Please don't judge me for my love of Jennifer Aniston.

For some reason, I have a soft-spot for books about guys looking for love and direction in their 20's. Maybe because I'm looking for someone to take care of. Maybe because I like laughing at them. Maybe because--somewhere deep inside--I'm one of them (minus the 'in their 20's'). However, I'm currently reading Chelsea Handler's "My Horizontal Life". Same thing, really.

I watch a lot of tv. The Simpsons are my favorite. I'm more of a sitcom fan than anything else. I've also recently fallen in love with The Big 'C'... but I don't have Showtime, so I'm desperately waiting for Season 2 on DVD.

Music. Well, I love music. There is literally not a genre of music in which I don't like at leather a song. My favorite is probably Rock/Pop. My favorite band is Heart. My new favorite is Kelly Clarkson.
The six things I could never do without
1. red wine
2. hot baths
3. autumn
4. sad songs
5. memories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why OkCupid apparently wants me to move to DC, Boston or Philly.
On a typical Friday night I am
In or out with a bunch of friends. Although these days I always seem to be on a bus or plane to somewhere not too exotic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a fan of Johnny Depp. Please, keep this between you and me... I could lose some friends over this.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 27–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex