I'm an ex-NYer, in the Dallas area for work, and been heads-down doing it for that time, but perhaps it's a good moment to engineer a social life for myself. I'm Ivy educated, but have made something of a career out of my adolescent enthusiasms: games and science fiction. I'm reasonably well known in my field.
I bicycle everywhere, and do not own a car, out of choice and not economic necessity, but I'm not religious about that; I'll rent a car or call for a Lyft to get me where I want to go, and given how retrograde the area is, that is not infrequently necessary. Yes, I'm a bit of a green, but don't assume I'm a conventional leftie as a consequence. I'm a scientific rationalist and the word "spiritual" in a profile generally makes me pass on. I read a great deal, and almost never watch TV. I cook, and well. I have three daughters; two in or past college, the other living with her mother in NY.
I should also note that I have an interest in kink; it's not essential that you do as well, but if so, that would be a point of contact. In that realm, I identify as a top, though I have been on the other end of the crop, as it were.