***Requests: 1. If I send you an e-mail intro., please take a moment to respond. I'll show you the same courtesy if you've sent me a polite email. Thanks 2. Please FULLY read the "I'm looking for" and "You should message me if" sections, as a minimum, before contacting me. If I'm not describing you and what you want, and I contact you, it's fine, but please just say so (by responding to my overture) and move on. ***
I'm creative, possess a nice sense of humor, enjoy gardening and walks in the summer and cooking and hosting small and larger gatherings year round. Sci-Fi and Fantasy are my favorite genres to read, watch, and write.
I'm a Christian who doesn't attend church as regularly as I should but who prays daily and tries to live a Christian life. I prefer a clean and neat home. I'm close with my family--emotionally and physically, but I live my own life. I know who and what I am and am comfortable with both. While I would love to find the right man for a long-term (hopefully permanent) relationship, I am content to stay single rather than settle for someone who isn't a good fit. In a relationship I am the person who gives thoughtful gifts (two-dozen roses, each in a different color/hue, to an ex-boyfriend--ages ago--when he completed his medical exams, for instance, well before you could do this kind of thing easily), really listens to what my partner is saying, enjoys cooking nice meals during a date, and pays attention to your tastes and preferences as I would hope you would do in relation to mine. I've been told that I'm romantic, a good listener, kind, and a true friend.
I'd love to be in a relationship with a gentleman who can accept me for who and what I am and who fully respects me. Like me, he should be a bit old-fashioned but open to some new ideas. He should believe in treating a lady with respect, raising children with good values, and giving back to the world in a positive way. His friends/associates are likely diverse in age, ethnicity, culture, sexual orientation, faith, and profession but are ultimately "good people."
I prefer a man who's in the age range I specified, clean shaven, graduate-level educated, and with dark hair/eyes. I'm receptive to men of other races. While I've done the international relationship bit, I want to be upfront in saying that I'm not sponsoring someone to come to the US, so feel free to say "hi" if you can come here independently. Otherwise, you should focus your efforts elsewhere. (On a similar note, under no circumstance will I send you money, no matter how desperate a story you present.)
If you prefer a good book over a violent sport, enjoy an engaging conversation more than being in a crowded club/bar, and think that picnics, dinner with friends and family, and dancing to a cool song sound appealing, then let's chat.