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34 • Laguna Beach, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 33–46
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and has cats
I’m motivated by growth in all aspects of my life. If we’re not changing and evolving, we’re dying. This might be the most important ingredient in a successful relationship--growing and evolving and exploring together with unfiltered curiosity about the world and how we can optimize our time on it.
Lived in DC but found that the bureaucratic ineffectiveness conflicted with my inherent business nature. I really love digging into businesses-the lifecycle, the strategy, the people-and helping them grow or turnaround. Went back to sweet home Chicago in 2004...was in Philly managing a restructure for a digital marketing agency last year...now back in Chi and spending time at my family home in Cali.
Super close to family.
I'm a bit intense when it comes to business. I work hard, love every minute. I completed my JD-MBA in 2010. I have no intention of practicing law but I don't intend to be held hostage by lawyers;)
I’m at a life inflection point. Completed a recapitalization transaction in 2013 that dominated my life for two years, then helped a friend in Philly reorg his agency...ready to climb out of the cave! Hit me up if you want to do something fun! I'm not convinced that our actions have much bearing on when we find that simple, yet all too rare *connection*, but I’ve made many great friends from dating failures.
I'm really happy with my life. I'm not needy and can be happy single, taking on my personal goals. But a great and aligned man will make it even better and bring true and complete fulfillment! I'm searching for an extraordinary, deep, fun relationship that optimizes each of our lives, helping us to grow as individuals and partners. That means being honest about compatibility on all levels--physically, intellectually, emotionally and even spiritually.
My biggest passion may be animals. I helped start an animal welfare nonprofit 16 years ago and am obsessed with helping homeless animals as much as possible and propagating the No Kill movement, challenging the “cage-and-kill” status quo.
Love sports--played rugby for six years (stopped after two ACL reconstructions), liked crossfit but left it for Poliquin-based strength training, though my supplement load is borderline ridiculous. (I may be a bit gym obsessed as well.) Love snowboarding and watching my Cubbies (ok-we're in a rough patch.) Serious addiction to the NFL and my Bears.
I have a profound love for this country and our founding principles and possess a healthy disdain for government intrusion into the lives and choices of its citizenry.
I’m a package deal, so my two dogs and cat should be adored!
Because of who I am, it’s really essential that a future partner appreciates independent women who have their own mindset and really wants a “partnership” in every sense of the word. Want a guy who will be just as turned on by a heated and intense intellectual conversation as he would by a heated and intense afternoon together at the gym.
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