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  • Ages 20-34
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My details

Last online
Nov 21
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hello :) My name is Erik. I'm a life long musician(particularly a drummer), and currently play for a local indie/pop rock band. I am also closely involved with the recording industry and do subcontract/freelance engineer work at, what myself and many others consider to be, Rochester's premier studio.

I'm very passionate about the environment and like to spend as much time outdoors as possible. I'm rather fond of camping, hiking, small boating, swimming, and have even been known to do some rock climbing from time to time :P I'm also fairly fitness oriented, and try to get to the gym several times a week(though by no means am a "gym rat"). I find that keeping active and fit helps keep me energized to do the things I love.

I'm very easy going, and light spirited though know when it's time to be serious. I generally prefer a quiet and relaxed environment with close friends than huge parties, busy bars and clubs(which are very much so not my scene). Also I really enjoy wearing suits, so pretty much any excuse to dress up is good with me :P.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working towards my goals :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drums :) I call myself the world's okayest drummer :P Also I'm good at listening and being loyal to those I care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get a lot of compliments on my eyes, so I'll go ahead and say that's usually what people notice first :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mithgar series by Dennis L. McKiernan
Legend of Drizzt by R.A. Salvatore
Most Fantasy in general :P
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
The Elegant Universe by Brian Greene
The Theory of Everything by Stephen Hawkings

Most Star Trek movies
Lord of the Rings/The Hobbit
Boondock Saints
The Avengers
Secret of Nimh
Sherlock Holmes
Ice Age
Rob Roy

Star Trek
Game Of Thrones
Historical/Science documentaries
Adventure Time
Old Loony Toons
Invader Zim
Smarter Everyday(youtube series)

Tool, Animals As Leaders, Imagine Dragons, Minus The Bear, Rush, Starcastle, Pink Floyd, Tesseract, Blotted Science, Dvorak, Igor Stravinsky, Aaron Copeland, Gustav Holst, Spiral Architect, Uriah Heep, Blind Guardian, Mike Stern, Frank Zappa, Manu Delago, Apocalyptica, Meshuggah, Fleet Foxes, Busdriver, k-os, Incubus, 311, Al Di Meola, Coheed and Cambria, Mars Volta, James Brown, The Doobie Brothers, America, Styx, Boston, Porcupine Tree, Skinny Puppy, OSI, Opeth, Katatonia, Deftones, Iced Earth, Fionna Apple, Chick Corea, Miles Davis, Dream Theater, Soen, and so many more of so many different genres it's ridiculous. I tend to just listen to my music of shuffle because it's easier than pawing through several hundred artists. Unless of course I have a particular song in my head.

Mostly European/American cuisine. I'm not really big into eastern or mexican foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My drumkit
Friends, Family, Pets
Physical Activity
Quiet/Down time(I don't get much of this, but I value it all the same)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
The vastness of the universe and my place within it.
Any recording project I happen to be working on at the time.
Drum parts for my band's songs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually either relaxing at home or at the studio recording/mixing, unless of course I have a gig booked :P
You should message me if
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Any of the above is interesting, you would like to know more about me, or would simply like to chat :)