Most of the time I am pretty happy with myself and who I am.
I'm a computer programming nerd. I'm an atheist. I can't abide intolerance and bigotry. Being white and male and educated, I always try to mind my privilege.
I read slowly but very broadly. I follow a lot of news feeds, from commercial to radical nut jobs, and always try to consider the writers' or their employers' political slant. For fiction I mostly prefer scifi and fantasy.
Fun fact: I don't do cars; I can't pick one model out in a lineup among others, and I've never had a license. When I lived in Boston, getting a car just wasn't a priority. Public transportation serves me well, and I can easily walk for miles if there's somewhere at the end I want to be (like a good beach).
I've been married to kytheavec since 2007, and I'm looking here for friends (casual, serious, confused, BFF, nemesis, etc.), but not life partners.
If you are not looking for sex partners, then we won't be talking about you and me having sex. I don't play games that hurt platonic relationships.
If you are a man or not-female person looking for sex partners: I might be interested. Let's get to know each other first. You will have to meet my wife at some point before we get it on -- you will like her. (Also, my wife is not interested in sex with anyone but me at this time.)
Women looking for sex: I'm happy to make friends, but it might be a long time before my wife trusts you enough. If your objective is really just sex, there are lots of easier targets on OKCupid.
Answers to the old "3 adjectives to describe me" question OKCupid got rid of: I am happy, considerate, and froody.