Most of the time I am pretty happy with myself and who I am.
I'm a computer programming nerd. I'm an atheist. I can't abide intolerance and bigotry. Being white and male and educated, I always try to mind my privilege.
I read slowly but very broadly. I follow a lot of news feeds, from commercial to radical nut jobs, and always try to consider the writers' or their employers' political slant. For fiction I mostly prefer scifi and fantasy.
Fun fact: I don't do cars; I can't pick one model out in a lineup among others, and I've never had a license. Living in Boston it just has never been a priority. Public transportation serves me well, and I can easily walk for miles if there's somewhere at the end I want to be (like a good beach).
I've been married to kytheavec since 2007, and I'm looking here for friends and not life partners.
If you are looking for sex partners: I might be interested. Let's get to know each other first. You will have to meet my wife at some point before we get it on -- you will like her. (Also, my wife is not interested in sex with anyone but me at this time.)
If you are not looking for sex partners: I probably won't bring up sex (between us) if your profile and actions don't indicate you're fishing for sex partners. I love my penis, but I don't let it dictate my conduct among platonic friends and ruin the mood.
Answers to the old "3 adjectives to describe me" question OKCupid got rid of: I am happy, considerate, and froody.