Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My husband used to travel fairly frequently and the nights got long
and lonely when he was away. I am incredibly fortunate (and
completely spoiled!) in that my guy always wants to see me get off
whether he can be there or not. Initially, we agreed that exploring
my interest in and playing with other women would be a great way to
keep me and our bed warm but that evolved into my meeting up with
both men and women for adventure and playtime. My husband does not
travel nearly as much any more, but we both appreciated how much I
enjoyed meeting new people and how much he enjoyed me enjoying it.
So we continued with the fun. Nothing sexier than a girl getting
ready for a first date... or coming home to her husband with face
flushed, an earring missing and her hair and clothing just slightly
out of place. We are interested in a variety of scenarios including
one on one play between me and other people or threesomes in which
my husband participates. We would also be interested in playing
with other couples (either together or just me.)
While I know this sounds like an “open” relationship, we think of
it as more open minded than open. What we do when it comes to sex
with other people, we do together. Even when my guy isn't there
physically, I share the experience with him through recounting
details and through videos or sound recordings when partners agree.
My husband does not play with people without me. Yeah, like I said.
I am spoiled. But he is a major voyeur and finds me getting off
with other people one of his biggest turn-ons. So this works out
nicely for us.
In more general self-summary terms, I am smart, funny, attractive,
and pretty damn charming. I'm blonde, curvy, have a great smile.
I'm a size 12 on a good day, a size 14 after a good holiday. I am
not a girly girl but sensual and sexy. I like to look pretty. I am
open minded, love to watch movies, love to laugh and really enjoy
getting to know people and understanding how they have become the
people they are. A generally nice, normal, caring, easy to get
along with and down to earth person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work too much (like most everyone else). Try to find my fun and
adventure where I can (also like most everyone else). I spend equal
parts of time at home and at play. And travel whenever I have the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good cook, a great conversationalist and I fuck like I am
about to go extinct. I'm also good at saying things people don't
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My boobs unless I am walking away from you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love classic books and movies with subtitles. I like
Californication and nature TV shows. Food and music preferences are
vast and varied but sushi, mac and cheese, bacon and Johnny Cash
are some favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A hot dress, a sexy adventure, my amazing husband and a notebook to
write in (the actual spiral bound kind). Great movies and good beer
help keep a smile on my face, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex. Why we do it. How we do it. Why we always want to do it. What
is wrong with those people who don't want to do it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often out (usually at a local bar). Sometimes unwinding at home
(usually with a beer or glass of wine in hand).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I just told the entire OKC community I will fuck without strings
while my husband watches. I'd say I am pretty much an open book.
But if I have to put something here... Oh! I peed on my hand
before. But only accidentally. I am not into pee. Or any of the
You should message me if
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you think the relationship I have and the scenario I described are
more refreshing than strange. You can think it is a little strange,
I put thought into my profile. I want something specific. I hope
you will put some thought into any message you send. One line
inquiries probably won't get a response back.
Who are you looking for?
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