Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What matters to me:
-Family: My parents have been married over 45 years and have been a
tremendous inspiration to me. I've been taught the value of
lifelong bonds and appreciating what you have. We party with up to
my 3rd cousins so there's never a dull moment. Cats also count as
part of the family.
-Friends: I greatly prefer small groups of lifelong friends who
know me well instead of large groups of acquaintances. My best
friends and I have a mutual appreciation for each other's
intelligence, talents, bold sense of humor, fears and quirks.
Realness is the most admirable quality one can have. If you can
appreciate who someone is without all the masks, you've got a
-Independence: No matter what my relationship status, its important
that I maintain my own identity and space. I live on my own and
have my own car, both of which are tremendous freedoms.
-Nature: Scenic views are awesome. Whether it be spending a day
hiking into the mountains, being at the beach for sunset and
listening to the waves crash, or a drive along the coast, I'm
-Technology: Computers (PC guy), Smartphones (Android), modifying
devices to work the way I want.
-Architecture and design: I love driving around beautiful
neighborhoods and historic districts and admiring the various
building styles. I'm also the one my family comes to for solving
disputes on color or interior design choices. One day I want to
build my own colonial style home.
-Humor: My humor is very random, sarcastic, dry, crude, often
mirrors the situation. I'm a grammar nut, so if you use "to"
instead of "too" or misuse words, prepare for a joke. Smartasses
bring my sarcastic humor out and are the most enjoyable to be
around. I don't hate any group of people but find it fun to joke
when they exemplify stereotypes. "I'll be as untouched as the turn
signal in an Asian woman's car" (Family Guy) had me on the floor
laughing because I see it every day. I'm difficult to offend and
will probably laugh or add to jokes about gays or white
-Self Awareness: Yeah, I'm a big guy, so what? I've kept a distance
from "the scene" because I don't like feeling like a numbered
puzzle piece that fits their game. The right guy for me is going to
appreciate my personality and appearance as a package. A best
friend and boyfriend in one is the ultimate goal, with the ability
to have fun no matter where we are. Everyone has their strengths
and weaknesses and mutual respect and support is a true gift. Show
me your true self, I'll show you mine, and we can make each other
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a bank as my primary job and I fix computers as a side
job. In my free time, I go out with friends, go to the gym, go
bowling, keep up on tech gadgets, etc. In the near future, I'm
hoping to get a tech related job.
I seek to make people's lives better. I am very knowledgeable in
computers, electronic devices, architecture, interior/exterior
design, and I take great pride in helping people find solutions
that work for them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Holding deep conversations; listening to people; writing; being
there for friends when they need me; analyzing a situation and
finding a good compromise.
Negotiation. When I have my mind set on a particular outcome, I
will fight to make it a reality. I know how to put myself in
other's shoes and make my case for what I want.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How talkative I am, the proper grammar I speak with, my blue-grey
eyes, my football player build
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite movies: American Beauty, Requiem for a Dream, Scary Movie
1,2,3,4. Blazing Saddles, There's Something About Mary, Meet the
Parents, American Pie 1,2,3.
Favorite TV shows: Breaking Bad, Family Guy, South Park, Daria,
U.S. of Tara, Six Feet Under, Seinfeld. I don't watch TV for much
Favorite Music: Anything with a good beat; 80's, 90's, Alternative
Rock, Pop Rock, Adult Contemporary, mild Rap. The only genres I'm
not big on are Classical or Country. All time favorites include
Garbage, Smashing Pumpkins, and Foo Fighters.
Favorite Food: Italian, Mexican, Japanese BBQ, American. Love
steak, chicken, salad, sandwiches, shrimp, calamari.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my friends, my cats, my laptop, my cell phone, my car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, technology, architecture, social phenomena, politics,
anything controversial, guys, where life is headed.
Communication, and how much better the world would be if everyone
communicated more effectively.
Trying to understand why some people let arbitrary labels dictate
their goals and purpose in life; How to make the world better and
the corruption that stands in the way.
My next long term relationship. The hopes for finding someone I
share true love with. I want someone complex, someone who will
treat me with the utmost respect and receive it in return. I
believe very strongly that in a relationship, my eventual partner
and I will be on equal footing, and benefit from each other's
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to dinner with friends, going to the movies, going to a
kickback, heading to the beach or having friends over for a movie
night. Sometimes, simply watching Netflix alone can be awesome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Though I'm talkative, I'm not the best at introductions. If you
want to get to know me, take a chance and hit me up.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You think West Hollywood is shallow and prefer to spend weekends
-You're ready to meet in person
-The idea of having a life long partnership with someone is
appealing to you. (Whether it be a lover, or strong friends)
-You're talkative and spontaneous, can keep one another engaged in
active conversation; Don't mind a little debate or controversial
-You can joke about anything and don't care what others think
-You can appreciate humor even if it ISN'T politically
-You consider yourself a nerd, but people find you cute
-You are a balance of confident and humble
-You value intelligence and personality as much as physical
-You aren't afraid to tell/show me who you really are
-You define yourself based on your own
personality/actions/interests rather than your ethnicity, sexual
orientation, religion, or political orientation.
-Recognize your own weaknesses and quirks, and view them in a
-You can appreciate time at home or at a friend's house, don't
always have to be on the run.
-You are open-minded politically and morally. Able to agree to
disagree in some cases.
-Stay active, whether it be the gym, go for walks often, or go out
-At least OUT to friends and not hiding your sexuality
-Can have fun without being drunk or being at a gay club/bar every
If you got through this long winded profile and I've amused you,
then let's chat. When you write me, tell me more about yourself,
and what you feel we have in common. Don't be intimidated, as I am
a really nice guy. Even if we met and there wasn't a spark, we
might end up as friends.
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