PEOPLE I GET ALONG BEST WITH:
-Nerdy types, enjoy anything from computers, cell phones, gamers
-People who are comfortable with themselves; NOT obsessed with looks or pop culture
-People who were raised in stable households
-People raised in America who have a common reference for ideas and humor.
-More masculine to neutral in demeanor
-Active types, whether it be hiking, walking, gym
-Positive attitude, can make a joke of any topic
-People who are content with a balance of staying in and going out.
-Conservative to moderate politically. Just because you like men doesn't mean you have to be a socialist.
FROM EXPERIENCE, there a few things I'd like to AVOID in a partner:
.......People who see relationships as a temporary fix for their
......Open relationships. I want a man who is loyal and can build
......Random hookups, if you want that, stay on Grindr.
......No car, no job, dependent on others all the time.
......Drama queens and Fems; let's face it, gender roles are conditioned, and to some degree acting overly flamboyant and accepting of female stereotypical roles is just as fake as a guy who overcompensates on the masculine side.
......Hyper liberals and Hipsters. Groupthink is trite and boring.
......People who specifically chose to live in West Hollywood/Hollywood because they want to be surrounded by "the gay community."
......People who aren't satisfied settling down in one city. Sure, traveling can be great, but constantly moving makes a long term relationship or stable friendship difficult.
......People who are foreign to America. It doesn't matter how hot you are, if we can't relate or understand each other's humor, it's gonna be tough.
IF YOU CARE TO KNOW MORE:
I'm very family oriented, and it'd be nice to meet others with good values, or are interested in something new. Hit me up if you want to get to know me.
-Extremely honest and open; I speak my mind and tell it like I see it. The more open you are with me, the more I open up to you.
-Very talkative; can hold conversations that last for hours and cover numerous topics
-Observant of the world around me, somewhat opinionated.
-Respectful of people who respect me and themselves. Love people who are decisive and firm on what they believe.
-Unapologetic for who I am. I don’t take myself too seriously. I don’t fall into labeled scenes or counter cultures. I’m a bit nerdy and proud of it.
-Random / spontaneous in thoughts and actions. One moment I could be very serious, the next I’m making funny expressions and laughing my ass off. I adapt to my environment and different people bring out different qualities in me.
-My weekly routines include bowling, the gym, hiking, going to a mall or a downtown area with friends, and a dinner night out.
-Love the beach, mountains, and scenic views. Looking to do more day excursions and weekend road trips.
-My passions include architecture, technology, history, social phenomena. My dream is to design my own colonial style home one day. Ask me anything about cell phones, computers, or TV’s and I’ll gladly be of assistance. I’ve even done software modifications for Android cell phones.
-Comfortable with everything from having a movie or board game night at home to going out to a karaoke bar with friends.
-Balanced mix of intelligence, seriousness, silliness, crudeness. I love off color humor, so sexual and mildly racial jokes will definitely make me laugh. I’m quite difficult to offend.
-I have a great family with parents married over 45 years, and hope to eventually share that type of love with someone.
-Ideally, I want a best friend and boyfriend in one, and know that will take time to develop. Mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual creativity are a must.
-I work weekdays, but I’m free on nights and weekends. I’d like a guy who makes time to hang out regularly, and isn’t married to their job.
-I'm a thick/muscular guy. I work out at the gym to keep in decent shape. A lot of guys like it, some don't. If you're looking exclusively for thin or swimmers build, then you're not for me.
-I live on my own and have my own car. Living alone makes you learn a lot about yourself and what you want. I'm seeking a strong companion who has their life together and stands by me unconditionally.