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ProudFA

36 M Arlington, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:20am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Myself, I'm relatively smart and perhaps at least good at appearing to be even when I'm not. I can be very politically interested and I am very passionate about a lot of progressive social causes and would want to be with someone who shared those basic principals. I like humor, though really who doesn't say that. My own sense of humor tends to veer from wry sarcasm to silliness and absurdism, so I'm just as apt to snark about a TV show as I am to break out a silly voice during an intimate encounter. I tend to like geeky entertainment, though I also tend to like wide swaths of it rather than narrowly focus on particular fandom. But I can enjoy broader things and even more high-brow things from time to time. I work in the Arts, for instance, and do enjoy concerts and theatre even as I also enjoy movies and TV.

I am fat-positive, both about myself and a prospective partner. I'm pretty much exclusively attracted to fat partners and am accepting of my own body. I'd want to be with someone who was working towards that as well, though I know that can encompass a wide range of points on a journey.

I can be quirky and individual and picky and I'm pretty okay with that. At the same time, I try to be easy going about others. I don't expect my quirks to be someone else's, after all. All of my eccentricities make me who I am, but I also enjoy the adventure of discovering someone's eccentricities and I try not be judgmental and would hope for the same distinction.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to positively impact stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess either my glasses or my size.

Speaking of the later, its really dispiriting that OKC doesn't have a genuinely positive entry to describe fat bodies. They have "used up", but I can't just be fat? I have to choose between a judgmental moniker like "A little extra" or gendered terms like "curvy" or "full-figured". Plenty of femme-identified people would find those lacking and they really can ostracize masculine-identified people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just some quick stuff of what I'm enjoying right now. By no means an exhaustive list:

Books: Finished the current Song of Ice and Fire series recently. I enjoy political non-fiction, too. I really loved "Street Gang", a history of the creation of Sesame Street.

Movies: I like superhero movies, even tho I don't really read comics. I generally like spectacle motion pictures. Its not that I don't like comedies or dramas, but I guess I like TV shows better for that sometimes.

Shows: Star Trek: TNG, Bob's Burgers, Archer, Mad Men, House of Cards, Game of Thrones, Community, Parks & Rec, How I Met Your Mother, Breaking Bad, Sherlock and others, I'm sure.

Music: R.E.M., The Shins, Belle & Sebastian, Childish Gambino, Sufjan Stevens, The Weepies, The Mountain Goats, The Beatles, Andrew Bird

Food: I can be very boring with food, but I assure you I don't expect others to be. I don't eat most meat and don't like spicy food, but I enjoy seafood, pasta, pizza, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fat acceptance and classical music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. Unless I have a concert to work and then I'm wearing a name badge and pretending to be important.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like being settled down. So, I'm taking my tentative first steps to "get back out there" as I'm in the process of finalizing a divorce. That's never a fun situation, but its obviously for the best, too. I haven't felt like I've really had someone who was my partner in a very long time at this point and I would like that again. Really, more than anything, I'd describe the kind of person I'm looking for as a partner, where both are our people but we still feel like we're in things together. Its something I'd really like to have again.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to impress me. I feel really tentative about messaging people on here as I don't want to feel like I'm imposing myself on people, but by all means impose on me.

While obviously I'd prefer to connect with someone local, at this point in my life I wouldn't rule out a long-distance relationship either.