I am fat-positive, both about myself and a prospective partner. I'm pretty much exclusively attracted to fat partners and am accepting of my own body. I'd want to be with someone who was working towards that as well, though I know that can encompass a wide range of points on a journey.
I can be quirky and individual and picky and I'm pretty okay with that. At the same time, I try to be easy going about others. I don't expect my quirks to be someone else's, after all. All of my eccentricities make me who I am, but I also enjoy the adventure of discovering someone's eccentricities and I try not be judgmental and would hope for the same distinction.