So, first things first, I am married but recently separated. I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but also not really looking for a meaningless hook-up. Ideally, I'd love to find a fun, nerdy, fat positive woman to hang out with, make out with, and more as the mood suits us. I'm not so interested on flings so much as having fun with an individual whose company I enjoy, but I suppose I might not turn down a fling all things considered.

As to the rest of who I am, I tend to be shy when I meet people but can open up quickly. I try to have a sense of humor, but I'm also passionate about what I believe in, which generally would be seen as a progressive suite of ideals. I can sometimes be a bit internal and sometimes a bit naive. My interests are varied, enjoying classical music and indie rock, geeky TV and movies, but also smart comedies. I'm sure I'm lots of other things, too, but I've probably already gone on long enough.

Wasting it, like everyone in their twenties.

Oh, wait, I'm 35 now. Doing something with my life and being conflicted about it, like everyone in their 30's.

Adaptation.

My hair or my glasses, I guess. Hadn't really thought about this. I tend to wear my hair long, though I can be fickle with that. Likewise with facial hair as I believe in the last 12 months I've gone with every conceivable variation my follicles can muster, even if my default is just sideburns.

I hadn't changed this for years so I'm just redoing it whole sale.

BOOKS: I mostly read non-fiction. A recent favorite was "Street Gang", a look at the founding and production of Sesame Street. I'm working my way through Game of Thrones, too. I love John Hodgman's books, the Hitchhiker's Trilogy, and other stuff, I'm sure.

MOVIES: Favorite all-time movie is The Hudsucker Proxy. Generally I like Indie Comedies and sci-fi spectacles. A few movies I love include Eternal Sunshine, Dark Knight, The Avengers, Wet Hot American Summer, Mallrats, Rushmore, the Pixar films, Almost Famous, Star Wars, and a bunch of others, I'm sure.

SHOWS: Community, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Fringe, Parks & Rec, The Office, How I Met Your Mother, 30 Rock, The Simpsons, The Venture Bros, Justice League, Archer, Mystery Science Theater 3000, Harvey Birdman, Friends, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and so on. I like a lot of classic sitcoms, too, especially the Bob Newhart Show, the Dick Van Dyke Show, and the Mary Tyler Moore Show and I used to watch the Law & Order shows religiously.

MUSIC: The Beatles, R.E.M. Belle & Sebastian, The Weepies, Andrew Bird, The Shins/Broken Bells, Sufjan Stevens, War, Regina Spektor, Childish Gambino, The Police

FOOD: I'm a boring eater. I'm a pesco-lacto-ovo-vegetarian but not nearly as interesting as that sounds. I like pasta, pizza, seafood, but generally in simple presentations.

Just one thing. The internet. The ability to access and interact with different ideas and people around the world never ceases to amaze and impress me. Being able to share my work and connect with people and experience their work is just incredible. I could probably get by without a lot, but I honestly have no desire to go back to a time when the world wasn't at my fingertips.

Fat acceptance and classical music.

At home on account of I'm a loser. Unless I'm working. Yay arts marketing! Then I'm besuited and passing myself off as important.

My life has mostly been interesting due to my proximity to interesting people.

You should message me if you are fat girl whose idea of fun is making out while watching Star Trek, Doctor Who, or MST3K and/or is fond of fat activism and misandry, I imagine we'd enjoy each other's company. Lets throw in BBW or SSBBW for the benefit of search term hits, too. I'll also be terribly impressed with you as I'm the type to not message people. Especially given the seperation, I know that's not something many people would want to be involved with and I respect that. So, feel free to dazzle me!