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25 Durham, NC Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Gay, Queer, Sapiosexual
5' 11" (1.80m)
Working on Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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i'd written something totally opaque here, but really it's as simple as--- i'm returning from a few years of isolation and soul searching and looking to create a relationship with someone. ideally something deeper than a business relationship for a lemonade stand but as a rule i am definitely open vis-à-vis citrus food service. i care a lot about philosophy and the social universe and i will gladly plunge-not-climb into whatever deleuzian k-hole you put in my face. i think the relationship between aesthetics and politics is one of the most tireless intellectual bundles in this lil' world of ours and am hoping to write my dissertation--i'm just done with year 1 of, like, 20--on something à propos of it. inexhaustibly faggy, but exhausted by identity politics. "The voice could save you."
What I’m doing with my life
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buying your hometown's last-remaining vintage playsuits and romper looqz. eating an obscene amount of peanut butter. scaling the submerged peaks of my intimate childhood connections. climbing into social interzones, shared consciousness. recovering life's forgotten arts. preparing to eventually migrate all of my okcupid belongings to okcomrade. phd'ing at duke, splitting my time between the US and brazil. art school dropout, only i never went or applied to art school. dj'ing and throwing local party situations. virgo sun, libra moon, extrovert.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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james baldwin. full stop. lately, walter benjamin, hilton als, kiese laymon, and fernando pessoa ; pedro almodóvar, david lynch, kenneth anger, ken russell ; burial, björk, andy stott, ghe20g0th1k, total freedom, physical therapy, holy other, balam acab.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. a knotted soul
2. vulnerability
3. marxist sympathies, third-wave-coffee loyalties
4. friends who are artists, intellectuals, gender-fucked, animals, dark chocolate, or a combination thereof
5. heat & color
6. music & dancing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
alterity, consciousness, language, aesthetics, power, gender, freedom, peanut butter, sexuality, froyo