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24 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
It's hard to sum myself up like this. Here's a little about myself. I'll try to tell you about me, and not just the things I like.

I'm real. I'm not self-obsessed. I'm capable of listening and understanding your words without being distracted by waiting to talk. All of my friends from college were 3 or 4 years older than me, and most of them have married off, had kids, and disappeared from my life. The others can be depressing. I'd like to meet some people that are where I'm at in life; having fun without being tied down by too much responsibility. Still learning, growing, and thinking. Still in that odd twilight between the splendor of youth and the general monotony of adulthood.

I raise aquatic life for a living. I own one of the largest aquatics businesses in the world. I was always obsessed with aquariums and marine life as a kid, so it's a dream job for me. I make my own hours (A blessing and a curse), so I'm allowed a lot of flexibility. There was a time in my life where what I did for a living wasn't part of who I am, but it is now. I try not to obsess over my work, but it's hard when it's your own business and the buck stops with you.

I'm nerdy, mathematical, artistic and eccentric. Relaxed, intense, lighthearted and occasionally serious. I love metal and hippie jam and not that much in between. I'm a hippie. I'm a redneck. I'm an individualist that believes we should all be part of something greater. I'm a lot of things mixed together that don't normally mix well, I suppose. I take a little bit from every viewpoint, and every belief system I encounter. I allow my mind to change and to adapt, but that doesn't mean I don't have opinions or that I can't argue them. If there is a quote attributed to me, I'd like it to be "If you can't argue a cause, you have no right to believe in it."

I always try to live, and not exist. The Midwest is a place where a lot of people just exist, and I hate to see that. Lately I haven't been doing as good of a job.

I am very driven, and not just in a material way. I tend to be very passionate about one thing at a time, and I am always the person that moves the group to action. That sucks, because I like to just tag along sometimes. All of my friends are introverts, so that's probably why I'm never the one tagging along. I'm exactly in the middle on the scale of Introvert/Extrovert. I carry most traits of each, and I have not met another person like me in that regard. That being said, I tend to get along better with introverts.

I'm a sucker for animals, and I tend to adopt too many of them. I have 3 cats and a big dog, along with 100+ aquariums (Soon to be 300+).

I'm very open-minded, but I'm not one of those people that doesn't have an identity and goes along with whatever. I don't like people like that...if you're one of those people that turns into whoever you hang out with, we probably won't get along.
What I’m doing with my life
Running my company, running towards my dreams, and prying open my third eye.
I’m really good at
Perfectly timed and placed movie quotes, Driving, breeding fish, talking to dogs, listening to music, swimming, hiking, snowboarding, computers, working on cars, drinking great beer, helping people understand themselves, understanding myself, mediation, experiencing altered states, working under pressure, creative thinking, problem solving, or anything else I set my mind to.

What I'm really bad at:
Living outside of my head. Relaxing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get excited about the little things. I am a leader. I like to have a good time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: The Silmarillion, Beyond Good And Evil, The Portrait of Dorian Gray, The Sphere, The Walking Dead Comics (Way better than show), Freakonomics

TV: Breaking Bad, Lost, BS (Battlestar Gallactica), South Park, Trailer Park Boys, Reno 911 (TT, no!),

Food: Sushi, hands down.

Movie: American History X, American Beauty, 2001: Space Odyssey, The Shining, Full Metal Jacket, A Scanner Darkly, Requiem For A Dream, The Wrestler, Black Swan, The Fountain, The Wall, Watchmen, The Thing (80's), Team America: World Police, Pineapple Express

Music: Opeth, Mastodon, Russian Circles, Tool, Ozric Tentacles, Porcupine Tree, Steven Wilson, Buckethead
The six things I could never do without
I don't want to sound like an alcoholic, but beer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Determinism and the motivations behind my actions. The nature of reality. What my pets are thinking. What I'm thinking. Ethics. Where the human race is going. Artificial intelligence and determinism. Free will.

Why there can't be more people I enjoy being around.
On a typical Friday night I am
If there isn't an activity that comes to mind I'll make one. I hate sitting around on the weekend, so I don't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In 6th grade, I ran around telling everyone I was no longer a virgin because I had swallowed some mouthwash containing alcohol by accident. I was confused about the term "Virgin Margarita" at the time.

I've played and completed every Final Fantasy game. I think that's pretty shameful. Not as shameful as being able to play any song on any Rock Band/Guitar Hero game on Expert, though. I used to play too many video games.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You know how to live in addition to existing.
You're capable of individual thought.
You're opinionated.
You have a weird sense of humor.
You don't like making plans.

You want to meet someone that might actually want to be your friend, not just hang out when they are bored or it's convenient. Seriously, send me a message. I know you get way too many messages from people that don't even listen to you because they're on some kind of game or too busy waiting to talk, and I'm not one of them.