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30 • M • Oakland, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 18–55
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 11
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Dropped out of high school
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
Arranging little pixelated symbols on a screen into useful configurations for fun and profit.
Deepening my understanding about nearly anything I can, or at least whatever catches my interest (too many (not always useful) things).
Trying to figure out what makes me happy while stepping on as few people in the process as possible.
Avoiding religions, sports, political affiliations, subcultures, etc
** Thus concludes the interactive portion of this profile **
I always have a huge stack of books lined up to read, but move through them slowly due to attention span. Despite being a programmer, I shun ebooks.
Best few recently: John Dies at the End, House of Leaves, Children of the Mind, The Divine Invasion.
I really want to read more Philip K. Dick. Favorite author is H.P. Lovecraft.
I don't like a ton of comics, but love the more counterculture-esque stuff. Doom Patrol, Transmetropolitan, The Invisibles, etc. Deadpool is hilarious. Nearly anything with a cyberpunk element to it and sometimes some weird/horror manga.
Cyriak vids, horror, b-movies, post-apocalyptic stuff, kung-fu, spaghetti westerns, french movies about existential crises where some dude shaves off his moustache for the first time in 15 years and his wife doesn't notice and so he loses his mind, bizarre/disturbing asian movies. Basically the more WTF the better, to an extent.
Directors: Terry Gilliam, Davids Lynch & Cronenberg, John Carpenter, Kubrick, Tarantino, blah blah blah.
Animated: Aeon Flux, Adventure Time, The Maxx, Akira, FLCL, Perfect Blue, Evangelion, Ghost In The Shell, Mindgame, Paranoia Agent, Paprika, Cowboy Bebop, Attack On Titan.
Shows: Twilight Zone, The Mighty Boosh, Mitchell and Web, Black Adder, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Red Dwarf, Twin Peaks, MST3K.
I don't have a good way to describe my tastes. Here's a *[playlist]* that might capture it a bit.
My current obsession is stuff like Perturbator. I'm basically stuck on a lot of synth-heavy retrowave stuff I find on soundcloud at the moment.
Akira Yamaoka, Cibo Matto, Boards Of Canada, Malice Mizer, Devo, Yma Sumac, Mr. Bungle, Fela Kuti, Kavinsky, Principles Of Geometry, Noir Deco, Justice, Skinny Puppy, Foetus (J.G. Thirlwell), Rudimentary Peni, Shostakovich, old film scores, gypsy/klezmer, eerie/dark ambient, chiptunes, sexy 60's spy film music, exotica.
Overall I'm not much of a fan of the whole "3-5 white dudes with a bass, guitar & some drums" thing and often prefer a lack of vocals.
Pretty much anything. I avoid starchy carbs and sugar. I won't eat stuff like foie gras. I experiment with my diet a lot, but overall am not too picky of an eater. Also I'm pretty much addicted to strongly brewed rose flavored chai.
 time away from computers
 hot sauce
Recursion and the nature of consciousness.
Patriarchy, privilege, and the arbitrary nature of dominant paradigms ( not in the detached abstract academic sense, more so just seeing/listening to the experience of others ).
Why whichever motorcycle I'm working on isn't running properly.
Mostly looking for something to do. I live by myself in Oakland now, and all my good friends are married or whatever and don't socialize much.
Anyways, you probably should message me if you find me interesting.
Since I know *[THIS]* is probably what it's like to be woman on OKC, I likely won't message you unless it's obvious we have quite a bit in common and/or you rate me or something.
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