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40 M Schenectady, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
*Update* This profile is a few years old now, a lot has changed (still single tho). I'm not actively using this site anymore but that don't mean you cant message me if you like what you read ;)

I’m hard working, I like to make goals and do what I need to do to get the job done. When I care about something or someone I put my everything into it. I just don’t see a point to half-assing life.

I love humor, but sometimes my jokes take a bit of IQ to get. Think Brainy Smurf after half a tank of nitrous.

I like to be playful; I can dish it out as well as I can take it.

I’m 37 years old and not getting any younger, I know myself fairly well and from that I know what I want, and what I need. Maybe you can be that missing piece…
What I’m doing with my life
My job is important to me. I am a systems administrator for an insurance company and in the short few years I have been there I have received several promotions. I have my sight set on an executive level position. I need someone who will help keep me focused. You should also have career goals, screw this ‘just enough to get by’ mentality most people have. In turn I will support you as best I can, need me to help charm your boss at the company x-mas party? Done. Want to go back to school to make the transition from ‘job’ to ‘career’? I will help you study. I want a partner not an accessory.
I’m really good at
Figuring things out, if I invest the time I can wrap my head around almost anything.

Cooking, I make a mean Fetta Bacon Bomb.

Event Planning, I put on a hell of a 3rd birthday party. ;)

Listening, if you don’t take the time out to hear what the other person has to say you could miss something.

Rockin' the Spell Check!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like books that make me think, fiction, or non. Loved the Dune series, ‘The Black Swan' and ‘Fooled by Randomness’ by Taleb are my first recommendations when someone is looking for a thinking mans book.

Other books include: Anne Rice’s Vampire Chronicles, Alton Brown’s various cook books, 2600. Also Neil Gaiman, Neal Stephenson, Kneel Downy (just checking if you’re still paying attention), and a splash of classical philosophy in there to keep me honest.

I don’t have a favorite show per say but I like to watch Good Eats, Monty Python, Adult Swim (Sea Lab 2021 is still the best), a lot of the premium channel series like Rome, TrueBlood, Weeds, Band of Brothers, we’ve also got MST3K, Babylon 5, Ghost in the Shell SAC, any good documentary (still need to see the good BBC ones that just came out).

Movies are all over the place, from Mel Brooks nonsense, to mindless action, to deep 'have to watch it four times to get it all' mindfucks. Some random ones I am a fan of (trying to get to a thousand word profile is hard!): The Lord of the Rings special editions, Pulp Fiction, The Usual Suspects, Blazing Saddles, Memento, Ninja Scroll, Forest Gump, more as they pop into my head (1k here I come!).

Music, bands like Thievery Corporation, The Orb, VNV Nation, Apoptygma Berserk, Portishead, Nine Inch Nails, MSI. Mello electronica with some EBM and Industrial thrown in there for variety.

Games, I still break out the Magic cards once in a while. Otherwise chess, any of the Civ series, and Eve Online.

Food... well theres were creativity can shine, but nothing beats a cast iron pan seared steak. Otherwise anything Italian, most seafood, Sushi. Home cooked > restaurant stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Computer access
A functional kitchen
Real friends
The ability/willingness to learn
Self transportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You will have to get to know me for an answer to this one.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night 8) I don't really do the bar thing so it can run the gamut from a quiet night at the computer, to trying to organize a game night with friends or coworkers. Some times its just hanging out with a buddy or perhaps a date (that's where you come in).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I feel that no one should have to compromise who they are to get what they want.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If anything here piques your interest.

You know what THAC0 means (lol)

If you just want to say 'Hi!'.

You’re open to the possibility of something serious.

You can tell me the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow.

You want to do something different because I’m a little outside the norm.

You at least have a semblance of an idea of what you want out of life, relationships, and yourself.