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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 6
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Space camp
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm gona do it! i'm gona update the profile finally! 11/14

Shit i lied... i'm gona start clearing all the boxes from moms apartment out of the game room so i can have a party Friday. We will update next week, I promise!

** Double Update** lol I've been told that my profile makes me sound mean. I guess I need to redo it if i'm going to start sending messages to people again. [ PS i'm not mean, i'm goofy ;) ]

*Update* This profile is a few years old now, a lot has changed (still single tho). I'm not actively using this site anymore but that don't mean you cant message me if you like what you read ;)

I’m hard working, I like to make goals and do what I need to do to get the job done. When I care about something or someone I put my everything into it. I just don’t see a point to half-assing life.

I love humor, but sometimes my jokes take a bit of IQ to get. Think Brainy Smurf after half a tank of nitrous.

I like to be playful; I can dish it out as well as I can take it.

I’m 37 years old and not getting any younger, I know myself fairly well and from that I know what I want, and what I need. Maybe you can be that missing piece…

Hey now i'm 40! Message me if you can stop this time thing from progressing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My job is important to me. I am a systems administrator for an insurance company and in the short few years I have been there I have received several promotions. I have my sight set on an executive level position. I need someone who will help keep me focused. You should also have career goals, screw this ‘just enough to get by’ mentality most people have. In turn I will support you as best I can, need me to help charm your boss at the company x-mas party? Done. Want to go back to school to make the transition from ‘job’ to ‘career’? I will help you study. I want a partner not an accessory.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out, if I invest the time I can wrap my head around almost anything.

Cooking, I make a mean Fetta Bacon Bomb.

Event Planning, I put on a hell of a 3rd birthday party. ;)

Listening, if you don’t take the time out to hear what the other person has to say you could miss something.

Rockin' the Spell Check!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My goofy sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like books that make me think, fiction, or non. Loved the Dune series, ‘The Black Swan' and ‘Fooled by Randomness’ by Taleb are my first recommendations when someone is looking for a thinking mans book.

Other books include: Anne Rice’s Vampire Chronicles, Alton Brown’s various cook books, 2600. Also Neil Gaiman, Neal Stephenson, Kneel Downy (just checking if you’re still paying attention), and a splash of classical philosophy in there to keep me honest.

I don’t have a favorite show per say but I like to watch Good Eats, Monty Python, Adult Swim (Sea Lab 2021 is still the best), a lot of the premium channel series like Rome, TrueBlood, Weeds, Band of Brothers, we’ve also got MST3K, Babylon 5, Ghost in the Shell SAC, any good documentary (still need to see the good BBC ones that just came out).

Movies are all over the place, from Mel Brooks nonsense, to mindless action, to deep 'have to watch it four times to get it all' mindfucks. Some random ones I am a fan of (trying to get to a thousand word profile is hard!): The Lord of the Rings special editions, Pulp Fiction, The Usual Suspects, Blazing Saddles, Memento, Ninja Scroll, Forest Gump, more as they pop into my head (1k here I come!).

Music, bands like Thievery Corporation, The Orb, VNV Nation, Apoptygma Berserk, Portishead, Nine Inch Nails, MSI. Mello electronica with some EBM and Industrial thrown in there for variety.

Games, I still break out the Magic cards once in a while. Otherwise chess, any of the Civ series, and Eve Online.

Food... well theres were creativity can shine, but nothing beats a cast iron pan seared steak. Otherwise anything Italian, most seafood, Sushi. Home cooked > restaurant stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computer access
A functional kitchen
Real friends
The ability/willingness to learn
Self transportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You will have to get to know me for an answer to this one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh this is an easy one to update for 2014! Fridays I have Fire Pit Fridays at my house, and have a bunch of friends over for a good meal and some games or a fire depending on the weather.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I feel that no one should have to compromise who they are to get what they want.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If anything here piques your interest.

You know what THAC0 means (lol)

If you just want to say 'Hi!'.

You’re open to the possibility of something serious.

You can tell me the air speed velocity of an unladen swallow.

You want to do something different because I’m a little outside the norm.

You at least have a semblance of an idea of what you want out of life, relationships, and yourself.