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41 Schenectady, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:51am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
High maintenance 41yo male seeks travel companion.

I'm not really that high maintenance but it might keep some of the more shallow users from clicking on this profile.

I am, however, wicked smart. Like broken human interactions smart. Can explain the theory of General Relativity to a sixth grader but not notice my shoe is on fire type of absent minded professor smart.

I am also super nice, laid back, and generous. And yes that means I get taken advantage easily enough, but i've been trampled so many times I think i've seen all the tricks. I also know what unrequited love feels like from both sides of that equation, i won't be doing that again.

Truth is I don't feel I need to be with anyone, I have played a hell of a hand with the cards I was dealt and i'm about to spend the next 20 years doing whatever the fuck i want to do. There's a certain allure to starting that as a single man, but it could be nice to have an interesting companion for the journey. Basically, a big butt and a smile ain't gona be enough.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am retired. The plan is to travel and start writing, but we will see what happens.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being funny. I am hilarious, trust me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My cane and my limp. I have MS and it does a good job at restricting my life, but it sure hasn't defeated me. I have to take a lot of naps but there are worse disabilities to have.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Listen mostly to mellow electronica these days. Movies and shows... I watch em all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Computer access
A functional kitchen
Real friends
The ability/willingness to learn
Self transportation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You will have to get to know me for an answer to this one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays are game night at my house! Good friends, good eats, good fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For as smart as I claim to be, I can't spell or do math for shit! Seriously its kinda fucked up when you get into it.
You should message me if
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You at least have a semblance of an idea of what you want out of life, relationships, and yourself.

Or if you really wana play the Lets See Who's Smarter game!