Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey all! You can call me Seb or Sebastian. I love good company and
laughter, and I prefer to hang out with other people over being
I'm very politically active. I don't get angry easily when
discussing politics, and it's one of my favorite topics. I have a
very liberal agenda. I was involved in a lot of different protest
movements, and lived with the Occupy movement for a while.
I love to read and write and learn about things that are
interesting, especially in sociology. I also love poetry, arts, and
all forms of creative writing.
I'm pansexual, not bisexual. Unfortunately, it's not an option here
on OkCupid. The difference is that gender is not a factor to me - I
am attracted to men, women, trans* people, androgynous people,
genderfluid people, etc. - if I find you attractive emotionally and
physically, you're attractive to me regardless of your
Most of all, I love meeting new people and learning about them!
Everyone has a lot of interesting stories to tell. So feel free to
message me, but I'd appreciate it if you'd read my profile first.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm going to Irvine Valley College with plans of transferring to UC
Irvine and pursuing a career as a field researcher.
In the meantime I'm trying to learn how to play the guitar (and
failing at it!), learning to speak French and Spanish, and pursuing
a path in spirituality and shamanism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm great at writing poetry and stories. My friends and I often
I'm also pretty talented at D&D, though that doesn't
necessarily give me bragging rights. I like to play the role as DM,
and I've been told I provide a pretty interesting campaign.
What else am I good at...?
I guess I'm good at making sure people have fun on the rock wall at
work. I work outside at Boomers, and my favorite place to work is
the rock wall, except for when I have to rescue kids that get stuck
and are too scared to kick off the wall and let the pulley do the
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very talkative and energetic! I love to socialize with people
and make new friends. People also notice how I like to describe
things in paragraphs instead of sentences.
Sometimes I talk a little too much...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books are Disclosure, Superfreakonomics, How the
Republicans Stole Christmas, and SM 101.
My favorite movies are Wall-E, Up, and basically any Pixar movie.
For shows, my favorites are Lost and Breaking Bad.
I love a lot of punk and alternative bands. Some of my favorites
are The Used, All Time Low, Scary Kids Scaring Kids, and
Apocalyptica (I know they aren't punk or alternative, but I love
them). I also enjoy classical when I want to relax, especially
classical that involves a lot of violins.
For food, I used to love sushi before I went vegan. Now my favorite
is fried tofu. I also love bananas and avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Avocados, Tumblr, good company, delicious vegan food, music, and a
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What direction I'd like my stories to go in, how to find a better
job, and how to keep progressing along my spiritual path.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working at Boomers. I'm free mostly during the week. They usually
employ me on fridays, saturdays, and sundays... Oh well! Gotta make
a living, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm involved in the Orange County kink community. I enjoy and am
involved in a variety of forms of BDSM.
Consent is very important to us, and if BDSM isn't your thing,
that's fine! I enjoy "vanilla" activities too, and would like to
make new friends whether they're interested in kink or not.
You should message me if
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You are interested as a friend or more, want to hang out sometime,
or even just want to talk. I love discussing spirituality,
politics, and just about anything else.
Also, please note that to make sure anyone who messages me actually
reads my profile, I won't respond to messages that just say "Hey",
"How are you?", "Hey there, cutie!", or anything like that. Please
send me a thought provoking question or try to start a real
discussion if you'd like to get to know me better!
I hope to hear from you soon.
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