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21 M Amherst, MA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Swedish, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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**Sometimes in New York, sometimes also in Western Mass and northern CT. May be at some other location to be determined. Now mostly in Western Mass because school, but New York also happens, (as New York does.)**

~OkCupid has a rather limited range of gender and sexuality options from which to choose. More accurately:
-Gender-fluid boy-type person (they/them or he/him works)
-Queer/Pansexual, though Bi also gets the general point across. Captain Jack Harkness... and who are you?
-Non-monogamous, poly-sensual.
TL;DR: Not a fan of the gender binary but quite possibly a fan of you?~

-"What are you doing in my hallucination?"
-"I'm not in your hallucination; you're in my dream."

Student, shameless geek, aspiring writer/multimedia artist, bard without a band. Fond of good coffee, bad puns, and free food. Also fond of trees and magical realism. Constantly changing, irritatingly complicated, easily distracted. If we bond over writing, music, theatre, or musical theatre, I will probably love you forever.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finishing up a concentration in Multimedia Storytelling at Hampshire, surrounded happily by trees and hippies.
Attempting to make art that doesn't suck.
Writing and attending poetry events. (see: attempting to make art that doesn't suck)
Trying to find a job and figuring out how to be a real person. Or something like that.
Wandering New York.
Occasionally Steampunking or otherwise costuming.
Reading about epidemiology and infectious diseases, a topic by which I'm morbidly fascinated.
Trying to become more involved in community organizing.
Spending too much time on the internet.
Buying more books than I can read.
Drinking absurd amounts of tea.
Shipping Oscar Wilde and Ernest Hemingway.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Befriending strangers.
Procrastinating by befriending strangers.
Finding homoerotic subtext in everything.
Coming up with weird metaphors off the top of my head.
Character voices, sometimes.
Putting costumes together.
Eating breakfast at 2pm.
I've been told I write and sing decently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Firm hand shake."
"Fae Fatale."
"Tenth Doctor."
"Ellen Degeneres's nephew."
Sometimes I put colors on my face and try to be some sort of David Bowie/Amanda Palmer hybrid.
My stage voice, which carries into regular conversation. I get a bit enthusiastic sometimes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neil Gaiman, Ralph Ellison, Emily Dickinson, Oscar Wilde, Vladimir Nabokov, Douglas Adams, Shakespeare, Andrea Gibson, Judith Butler, Langston Hughes, F Scott Fitzgerald, Allen Ginsberg, Lemony Snicket, Alice Hoffman, Audre Lorde, Tony Kushner, Kate Bornstein....

Angels In America, Invisible Man, Waiting for Godot, Falsettos, The Gentrification of the Mind, The Ghost Map, Neverwhere, The Road, Midsummer Night's Dream, As You Like It, The Reluctant Fundamentalist, The Great Gatsby, Coraline, Gender Outlaw, Harry Potter, Farenheit 451, Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy....

Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Y Tu Mama Tambien, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Pan's Labyrinth, The King's Speech, Spirited Away, Rocky Horror, Victor/Victoria, Cabaret, Scott Pilgrim, Sweeney Todd, Dr. Horrible, The Hours, The Birdcage, De-Lovely, REPO: The Genetic Opera, The Producers, The Illusionist, LOTR Trilogy, Midnight In Paris, RENT, Edward Scissorhands, Donny Darko, Black Swan, the list goes on...

Monty Python's Flying Circus, Blackadder, DeathNote, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Doctor Who, Arrested Development, Will & Grace, the L Word, Face Off, Adventure Time

My Brightest Diamond, Regina Spektor, the Olivia Tremor Control, Of Montreal, Laura Marling, the Violent Femmes, Laurie Anderson, Queen, Richard Thompson, the Indigo Girls, the Dresden Dolls, Professor Elemental, Bob Dylan, Joanna Newsom, the Decemberists, Gaelic Storm, the Beatles, They Might Be Giants, Michael Franti, Nightwish, Joni Mitchell, Tom Lehrer, Mumford and Sons, All the Broadway soundtracks (I warned you I was a theatre kid,) more...

The edible kind!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Friends (d'aawww, but actually though)
-Hot tea/coffee
-Music and art
-Conversations that go on for hours and cover like 50 different subjects
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

-Elizabethan dad jokes
-Hypothetical stories of people sitting across from me in restaurants or on public transportation
-Religion and spirituality (which has always been hella complicated for me)
-Language and phonetics
-Feminism and systems of oppression
-Stories I want to write
-Plays I want to direct
-Sex (let's be real here)
-General gender and sexuality angst (yaaaaay)
-Pretty people
-Why the human body is considered so taboo
-Also, I'm really, really curious about urban exploration, but not sure if I have the guts to actually do it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*shrugs* Whatever there is to do on a Friday night.

Let's get stoned and watch Adventure Time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a socially anxious extrovert, and as such I'm often afraid people are judging me, which is unfortunate because I really love people despite my occasional misanthropic moments.
You should message me if
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You want to go adventuring
you are Oscar Wilde's long-lost lover
you have a glorious beard
you might be a forest elf
lipstick and combat boots
are a regular part of your aesthetic
Or want to talk to me, or something like that.

If you art, I may want to art with you. That is if you are a musician, performer, filmmaker, etc., let's collaborate on a thing.

Note: I'm pretty jazzed about meeting people, but not super jazzed about indefinite internet communication. So, if you'd like to meet for coffee or food or just wander around somewhere, that'd be dandy!