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Pucksworth

22 New York, NY Genderfluid, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:12pm
Orientation
Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Student
Status
Single
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Swedish, French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Basically: Theatre/multimedia/sociology nerd, poly queerdo, writer, aspiring elf prince, introverted extrovert, bundle of contradictions. Into good books, cheap coffee, and bad puns. Constantly in motion/easily distracted. Real talk: I'm slightly terrified of this website.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What are you doing with YOUR life, OkCupid??

What do ya doooo with a BA in Theatre?
Just graduated from a small hippie college in Western Mass, job-hunting, figuring out how to be a Real Person.*
Art-ing, when I can.
Trying to find a balance between sorting my own shit out and being there for people I care about.
Volunteering at a super rad queer/feminist bookstore.
Walking very long distances by accident.
Figuring out the optimal milk/tea/honey ratio.

*Update: There are no Real People. Only lizard people. And lizards. Speaking of which, you're probably a lizard person. Have you examined your scales recently? You should. They're probably gorgeous and iridescent in sunlight. It'll take your mind off the world's problems for a moment.*
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Soup, tea, cheesecake.
Back rubs.
Befriending strangers.
Procrastinating.
Procrastinating by befriending strangers.
&Overusing ampersands.
Finding homoerotic subtext in everything.
Putting playlists and strange outfits together.
Eating breakfast at 1pm.
I've been told I write and sing decently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Firm hand shake."
"Fey Fatale."
"Tenth Doctor."
"Ellen Degeneres's nephew."
"Why are you wearing a star on your cheek?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY THINGS.

Books/Plays/Authors
Angels In America, Invisible Man, Waiting for Godot, Citizen: An American Lyric, Falsettos, The Gentrification of the Mind, The Ghost Map, Neverwhere, The Road, As You Like It, The Reluctant Fundamentalist, The Great Gatsby, Coraline, Gender Outlaw, Harry Potter, Farenheit 451, Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Claudia Rankine, Shakespeare, Tony Kushner, Audre Lorde, bell hooks, Oscar Wilde, Alice Hoffman, Inga Muscio, Sarah Schulman, Ralph Ellison, Paulo Coelho, Ionesco

Movies
Y Tu Mama Tambien, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Pan's Labyrinth, Spirited Away, Rocky Horror, everything Monty Python, Victor/Victoria, Guardians of the Galaxy, Cabaret, Scott Pilgrim, Sweeney Todd, Dr. Horrible, The Hours, The Birdcage, De-Lovely, The Producers, The Illusionist, LOTR Trilogy, Midnight In Paris, Edward Scissorhands, Donny Darko, Black Swan, the list goes on...

Shows
Adventure Time, Steven Universe, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Blackadder, DeathNote, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Doctor Who, Arrested Development, Will & Grace, the L Word, Face Off

Music
My Brightest Diamond, Regina Spektor, Olivia Tremor Control, Of Montreal, Laura Marling, Dog-Faced Hermans, Violent Femmes, Lauryn Hill, Polka Dot Dot Dot, Toshi Reagon, Laurie Anderson, Queen, Richard Thompson, the Indigo Girls, the Dresden Dolls, Joanna Newsom, the Decemberists, Gaelic Storm, They Might Be Giants, Michael Franti, Sondheim, Tom Lehrer

Food
The edible kind!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Theatre, Music, Musical Theatre
-Yogurt
-Stories
-Caffeine
-Long conversations
-The color green
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-THE GAY AGENDA.
-"You could put on a play here."
-Colonialism, institutionalized oppression, and how fucked up the world is
-The subversive potential of comedy
-How incredible water bears are (https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn14690-water-bears-are-first-animal-to-survive-space-vacuum/)
-Hypothetical stories of people sitting across from me in restaurants or on public transportation
-Language and phonetics
-Gender & sexuality & bodies & sex (oh my!)
-Stories I want to write
-A bunch of other things?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Entirely depends on the Friday night.

Let's get smoke a bowl and watch Adventure Time.

And/or go on an actual adventure.

And/or glitterbomb the Patriarchy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once wrote erotica about an alternate universe in which Oscar Wilde and Ernest Hemmingway were contemporaries, called "The Importance of Banging Ernest."

Spoiler: Ernest Hemingway was clearly a power-bottom.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're Oscar Wilde's long-lost lover

You're Oscar Wilde

You feel like befriending another human, or something like that. I hear people like to do that sometimes. Weird.

Update: OkCupid still has not told me what it wants to do with its life. Rude.