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24 Bronx, NY Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Androgynous, Man, Woman

Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Androgynous, Man, Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Queer, Heteroflexible
Pacific Islander, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note: I'm open to anything from affectionate friendships to NSA relationships. If it fits anywhere on that spectrum, I'm interested!

I'm a genderfluid boy/girl who lives for fun, pleasure, and happiness. I absolutely love cuddles, whether they're with just one other person, or in a really big cuddle puddle.

My hobbies include gaming (PC games, board games, and card games), trying new foods, performing card magic, and writing short stories and poetry. I also like playing piano and composing music when I'm in the mood for it.

If you're wondering why I play board games as a hobby, please watch this video:

I'm polysexual, with a strong female preference. I tend to only like guys who are very feminine or androgynous, but I like all kinds of girls, from femme chicks to tomboys, as well as people who don't fit into the gender binary.

My own gender tends to act like a chameleon, switching between male and female (or somewhere in between) depending on who I'm with and what I'm doing. People have described female-me as "cutesy," "adorable," and "the gayest person I've ever met who's not actually gay." It's fun to be different!

I'm polyamorous, and in two wonderful open relationships with MissYucatan and Faeylayn. I'm prone to developing crushes on everyone, and it just doesn't make sense to be in a monogamous relationship when I love everybody. I'm also happier when my partners are in relationships with other people they love; compersion is a wonderful feeling (Google it!).

What I'm Looking For:

I'm here mainly to find cuddle buddies and make out partners. It's harder to find girls who are into platonic frenching than you'd think! I also really love receiving head scratches, lap sits, and face licks.

I'm also exploring my submissive side, and I'd love to find Dommes to play with. Of course, I'm open to non-kinky friendships as well.

I'm not looking for a stereotypical relationship. If you're looking for someone to marry or have kids with, please look somewhere else. On the other hand, if you want to have fun, cuddle a lot, and go on adventures in the city, then I'd love to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm attending Lehman College, to pursue a degree in Computer Science. I'd like to eventually end up doing game design, web development, or something related to the Oculus Rift for a living.

Right now, though, I just want to live to have fun!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Giving hugs
• Playing piano and singing
• Writing poetry and short stories
• Making people think "how the fuck?" with a few playing cards
• Finding amazingly cheap and delicious food in the city
• Cooking amazingly cheap and delicious food
• Procrastinating
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My personality (and even my gender!) frequently changes, usually according to who I'm with and what I'm doing, so it's hard to say what kind of a first impression I usually make.

If you're a cute girl, though, you'll probably notice me glomping you instead of giving you a hand shake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: I absolutely love Adventure Time! Regular Show and Steven Universe are also ridiculously fun. Tim & Eric Awesome Show, Check it Out with Dr Steve Brule, and Off The Air are all perfect for 420-friendly occasions, as is the new Cosmos. I also like South Park, The Daily Show, and The Colbert Report. And lots of anime, too.

Music: I like to listen to rock and indie pop during the day, and trip-hop and dream pop when I feel like relaxing at night. I also play piano in the jazz band at my college.

Here's short list of artists I've been enjoying recently: The New Pornographers, Muse, Franz Ferdinand, Arctic Monkeys, Primus, The Hives, Bonobo, Tycho, Stars, Minipop, Hinterland

Food: I love everything! But my absolute favorite foods are dumplings, curries, runny yolks, noodle soups, sushi, sausages, salamis, sauteed spinach, pulled pork, tostadas, cassoulet, laulau, banh mi, unadon, white clam sauce, Philippine adobo, freshly-baked breads, buttery baked goods, and anything creative, unusual, exotic, or spicy.

I'm always looking for new places to eat in the city with incredibly cheap and delicious food - feel free to message me and share some of your favorites!

Video Games: Portal is my all-time favorite video game; I even have a Weighted Companion Cube plushie! Currently, I spend most of my gaming time playing Titanfall, Insurgency, and Civilization V on the PC.

Board & Card Games: I have an adorable little collection of pocket-sized board games; I frequently carry around the games Hive, Province, Sushizock, Citadels, Hanabi, and Love Letter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends to cuddle with,
public displays of affection,
an up-to-date gaming PC,
the internet,
really yummy food,
and happiness.

(Probably not in that order.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just about everything... love, music, games that are currently in development, insanely kinky sexual fantasies, random daydreams, and more.

(Again, probably not in that order.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At my computer, either surfing the web or engaged in a hardcore gaming session. I'll be in yours arms on a typical Friday night, if you want me to cuddle with you on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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• I'm ridiculously kinky, and GGG for pretty much anything. If you think handcuffing your parner to the bedpost is kinky, I will laugh at you.

• My sidebar details say I don't smoke. That means I don't smoke tobacco. ^_~
You should message me if
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you're interested in being cuddle buddies! Bonus points if:

• you'd enjoy sitting on my lap whenever we ride the subway (or just sitting on my lap in general)
• you'd like to help me explore my submissive side
• you'd like to explore the city with me
• you'd like me to show you cheap dives and hole-in-the-walls with amazingly delicious food (or you'd like to show me some!)
• you play multiplayer PC games, and would like a gaming partner
• you're interested in dating both me and my lover(s)

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