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25 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:13am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is Adam, and I spent a lot of time trying to think of a clever username. I'm in love with art. Language is everything to me. I'm a very critical thinker. I have many passions that run very deeply and if I believe in something I will fight both for it and about it. I'm very liberal and I argue a little bit too much for my own good. I'm trying to make myself listen to write and perform more poetry. I will eat almost anything you put on a plate for me. I once got third in a spelling bee at a community college. I am curious.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working as an organizer for Working America doing impactful, tangible good in the world. It's the most important work I've ever done. I love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking. Get me going on something that I care about and it'll be hard to get me to stop. But even more than that, I love listening. I love digging in to what another person is saying. When I say you can tell me anything, I mean it. Also, Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon. I'm not to be trifled with on that front.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have heard that I:
-Have tremendously blue eyes.
-Tend to talk too fast and mumble a bit.
-Use big words.
-Don't appear quite as tall as I should because I slouch a bit and carry tension in my shoulders.
-Have a tendency to mimic unintentionally.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Okay, now we're talking. I'll have to start with Buffy the Vampire Slayer. This is the show that shaped my conception of what good art is probably more than any other. Firefly was great, too. I love me some Whedon, is what I'm saying. There's Mad Men, of course, and Breaking Bad. As far as comedy: 30 Rock, The Office, Arrested Development, Louie, King of the Hill, Scrubs, Community, Parks and Recreation, Happy Endings, Malcolm in the Middle, Cheers. Lost was an amazing experience. Friday Night Lights is one of the most rewarding experiences I've had with a television show and don't you dare laugh at me for crying at the finale. I'm presently working on Game of Thrones.. No, I haven't seen all of The Wire. Yes, I am aware that I bring shame upon my father's house.

Memento is a movie that really matters to me. Children of Men has to go on the all-time list. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, absolutely. (500) Days of Summer: yes. Paul Thomas Anderson is my favorite director, with Punch-Drunk Love being my favorite of his. Cool Hand Luke is unequivocally a movie that matters as well as being a Movie That Matters. Paul Newman might be my favorite American movie star. I'm not immune to the charms of Jackass but I get it if you are. Movies I could turn on and enjoy at nearly any time include: 10 Things I Hate About You, The Bourne Supremacy, 13 Going On 30, A Few Good Men, Good Will Hunting.

A few books that matter to me for various reasons: The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Lord of the Flies, The Giver, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Cloud Atlas, Life of Pi, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs. I have a firm connection to Hamlet that I don't think will ever go away. There isn't a number high enough for the amount of books I keep intending to read and don't get around to.

Bands I currently listen to: Radiohead, Explosions in the Sky, Dawes, The Walkmen, Neutral Milk Hotel, Al Green, Arcade Fire, Broken Social Scene, Wilco, Robyn, The Cure, Passion Pit, Beck, Kendrick Lamar, The Front Bottoms, Death Cab.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A journal and pen. I spend way too much time analyzing and processing my thoughts to be well without the capacity to write. I have to write. In my head I am always, always writing.
-My parents, who have done simply tremendous things for me.
-The ability to perform, because performance is an avenue to help me understand myself through others.
-Star Wars, because so much of what I now love is predicated upon it.
-The recurring hope that when I pick up my guitar this time I will finally be good.
-That feeling you get when you're trying to remember the name of that actor who was in that one thing and you know that you know it but you can't get your mind around it, so you let it settle into a sub-layer of your thinking, and then later out of nowhere you remember it and you're like, "OF COURSE!"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking, the nature of existence, how to make myself a better person in the context of my cis-male/white/heterosexual/able-bodied privilege, where I'm going, what it all means, if I'm thinking too hard.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work. But that isn't the point of the question. I don't have an extensive nightlife. That doesn't mean I don't get excited to go out, I'm just not great about seeking adventures on my own and tend to need a little push in that direction.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've watched 13 Going On 30 five more times than the first two Godfather movies combined. This is because I have watched 13 Going On 30 exactly five times.
You should message me if
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Maybe you wanna ask why my profile picture is so blurry. Or maybe you learned a really interesting word today and would like to share it with me! (I would love that, actually: please do that.)